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Great Prostate Massage Article  

SensualLibertari 59M
3 posts
12/18/2019 9:11 am
Great Prostate Massage Article


How to Have a Prostate Orgasm: 35 Tips for You and Your Partner

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/prostate-orgasm

How to Have a Prostate Orgasm: 35 Tips for You and Your Partner

Overview
Who can?
Where exactly is the prostate?
How to find
What it feels like
Practice
Orgasm
Pain
How to
Techniques
Positions
Milking
Massage vs. orgasm
Benefits
Takeaway

What is it?

The prostate — or P-spot, as it’s often called — is a small muscular gland that produces the seminal fluid found in ejaculate.

It helps propel semen from the penis. It’s also surrounded by nerve endings that can feel oh-so-good when touched just right.

Curious? Read on to learn how to find this backdoor wonder and bring your body to orgasm.
Who can do it?

Not everyone has as prostate!

Only cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have them, but that doesn’t mean that other folks have to miss out on the fun.

Helping someone achieve one of these mind-blowing orgasms is pretty awesome, too. High-five!
Where exactly is the prostate?

The prostate is located about two inches inside the rectum, between the rectum and the penis.
How do you find it?

You’ll need to head south along the back road to find it in a magical place called the anal region.

Although entering through the anus is the most direct way, you can also stimulate the prostate indirectly through the perineum, or taint.

This is the skin that runs underneath the scrotum to the anus.
What does the prostate feel like?

It depends on whether you’re feeling it from the outside or inside.

Being aroused makes it swell, so the more turned on you are before you poke around, the easier it’ll be to feel.
From the outside

The perineum is firmer near the front of the penile bulb, which is the inner ending of the shaft.

It feels softer and fleshier toward the back. This is the area you’re aiming for.

You may not be able to actually feel the gland, but touching it will likely cause the sensation of needing to pee.

This is a sign that you’re where you want to be — trust us!
From the inside

It feels like a fleshy bulb of tissue on the front wall of the rectal lining. It’ll feel different from the other tissue in there.
Is it easy to orgasm this way?

Let’s say it may take some practice and patience.

Actual clinical research on prostate-induced orgasms is seriously lacking, so we don’t know how common it is or if it’s possible for everyone with a prostate to have this type of orgasm.

Every body is different, so some experimenting to see what feels good is in order. If you do manage to have one, reproducing it will be easy.
What does a prostate orgasm feel like?

P-spot orgasms are said to feel similar to penile orgasms, only way more intense and felt through the entire body.

There are reports of people having super orgasms, which are a stream of fast, continuous orgasms that cause the body to shudder.

Not everyone ejaculates during a prostate orgasm, but some release a dribble of milky fluid from the urethra.
Will it hurt at all?

Minor discomfort the first couple of times (as you adjust to the sensation of anal penetration) is normal, but it shouldn’t cause severe pain.
How to get started

A little bit of prep can help make the experience a good one whether you’re flying solo, or on the giving or receiving end of things.
If you’re the receiving partner

You’ll want to be as relaxed and aroused as possible, because it’ll make the experience easier and more enjoyable.

The whole poop-comes-out-of-the-butt thing gives some people a case of the heebie-jeebies even when it’s their own butt.

Remedy this by taking a shower and paying a little extra attention back there to get it squeaky clean. Some people like to use an enema before engaging in butt play, but it isn’t necessary.

Use the bathroom before getting started. Prostate stimulation can make you feel like you need to pee, and anal penetration can cause the sensation of needing to poop.

Even though you won’t actually do either, worrying that you might can interfere with your ability to let go and enjoy yourself. Knowing your bladder and bowels are empty can help.

Getting used to the sensation of having your prostate touched can help, too. Practice with an anal sex toy, like a butt plug, or your fingers.

Be sure to set the mood so that you’re turned on and primed for action. Light candles, watch porn, or engage in some good old-fashioned masturbation or foreplay to get there.

Finally, be sure to lube up real good. Applying a water-based lubricant will allow for easier penetration and make for some easy gliding if stimulating your prostate externally.
If you’re the giving partner

Cleanliness and safety are a must, even for the giver.

Cut and file your<b> nails </font></b>smooth to help avoid scratching or tearing the delicate skin in and around the anus.

Wash your hands thoroughly, even if you’re planning to use a condom over your finger to penetrate your partner. (Yes, you can do that if it makes you more comfortable.) For extra comfort, stuff cotton balls inside the condom or glove.

You can also get the party started in the shower together, which serves as foreplay and gets you both all nice and clean for the big show.

Check out the rest at: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/prostate-orgasm

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
12/18/2019 11:48 am


good article

I would suggest using gloves or finger cots initially, while newbies fumble around looking for the P-spot. This can lessen the risk of damage or abrasion from finger nails.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
12/18/2019 12:42 pm

Thank you. I posed a similar question in the Seniors Lounge and didnt get much of a response. This is perfect...thanks ~~


highwayman1054 71M

12/27/2019 11:43 am

This is really good info. I've never experienced a prostate orgasm and now I have a pretty good idea about what I'm doing wrong (and my partner).


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