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Blogs > BBW56Sally > " Mature BBW Cougar "

" Different kinds of Experiences with AFF's"  

BBW56Sally 52F
0 posts
11/8/2019 1:26 pm

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11/9/2019 3:54 pm
" Different kinds of Experiences with AFF's"

Hey! I was thinking (dangerous, I know) any way I have met many, many people on FriendFinder-x all that are here for so many different reasons. Like me I am looking for a FWB or 3 FWB's depends on how well the FWB 1 can take care of needs.... But in the process I am playing with on night stands…. the right man comes along.... I do not do sexting, cam sex or phone sex. skin on skin playing the real thing in the flesh. This is .....

NOTE: I am not a HATER of anyone's or choice of life style, this just experiences on FriendFinder-x.....

Well , I have met both men and ladies that meet you on the sited and string you along for a month or more and then the date is set meet, but they never show up... Then there is the person that is on the site find a partner, mate, spouse ( that confuses ) but maybe they have the right idea great sex before love ….. then there is the people decide what they have is golden & request a tip..... there is the people that are into sexting, or cam sex or phone sex, I believe because they can with anyone in the world and is safe sex..... There is the married/attached people that for what ever personal reasons are here looking for discrete fun in any form meaning in person, sexting, cam sex and phone sex, (do not get me wrong I have no problem with married/attached people I was in a loveless/sexless marriage for years so I truly understand the NEEDS of anyone in such or not is their choice not for judge anyone) .... there is the People that claim they are here looking for a relationship, but they get into a certain knitch about touchy subjects.... I befriended different ladies as far as I know and they were both wanting do inappropriate things with them that was against the law or illegal. I started feel like I was being set up for somethings that were not thing, I did block both ladies ..... Where does this all end? I was searched for both of these issues, and the way it all went down I felt like it was a sting.... Does that happen others on FriendFinder-x? Has any of you encountered any of these thing like I have?

I truly would like hear your feed back on these topics.... or you experiences on any of these kinds of people...… or How do you handle these different type of people or even the weirdo's of whom I have met a few.... I just block them and move on..... LOL!

Thank you for reading blog and please feel free share with or you thoughts on any of this or experiences....
seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
11/9/2019 4:43 am

 These people need reporting to FriendFinder-x and certainly blocked, I would not have engaged conversation with any of them. A mum trying to pimp her son out..WRONG!
You need to lose your naivety on here, or you will be used, and possibly abused, virtually everyone is out for what they can get, unless you strike REALLY lucky.
Trust your gut instinct, if something seems to good to be true.. it probably is.
My spidey senses are tingling at the moment,, been chatting to a guy for 3 days.. for hours... single, tall, local, seems a really nice guy... he was in a hotel for work while he was talking to me,, said he would finish about 3 yesterday... haven't heard from him since... now I would give him a few hours with no response,,, hey,, some people have a life off of here... but still nothing.. that smacks to me that he's married and can't chat now he's home
The attention we get on here, is flattering,, I know, but you must be wary


BBW56Sally replies on 11/9/2019 3:51 pm:
Thank you, an you are so very right I should have Reported them, but to be honest I did not think about reporting anyone... I only thought to block them. Yes, you are very right I do need to lose my naïvaty, but not just on here. At 62 I should not be naïve or even think everyone is honest like me, because on here there is no one you can trust. Without getting to know in person one on one. I am a very intelligent lady and I known these things in my head my whole life, but it is my nature to trust and believe until I see the wrong in a person. I must admit I do not believe in LUCK at all, only destiny or the path of my life that was chosen for me by a higher power. I just want a FWB local on regular basis, but until I find that man &/or lady I need sex and am willing to play one night stands. Yes, I do find the attention very flattering and since I am disabled, homebound and lonely the flattery fills voids I need filling... But I have to find that need filled else where, not on this site. Thank you, for reminding me of this....

Thank you, for your time and response to my Blog. You comment has helped me so very much...
kisses,

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/8/2019 8:31 pm

 I was recently asked if I've ever had any near death experiences.Six months after
signing on here I told them. Ba dump bump! I know the drill to well. It's like not to difficult to predict a ghosting and the overwhelming amount of effort that goes into being stood up.
I've never had any interest in anyone under fifty five only to find that's the
domain of all the frustrated juvenile honky swashbucklers here looking for
bragging rights.

I've never been interested in adults who are hiding from someone or feel a need to.If they're not being honest with someone I'd be hard pressed to think they'll be honest to me.It's all about attraction here so I can understand why they don't.
It's a funny thing sex is
Using more than all the road!


BBW56Sally replies on 11/8/2019 11:01 pm:
Thank you, so much for reading my Blog and your response. I found your response to be interesting. An I do agree that Sex is a very funny thing it does really funny thing to people and I do not mean in a humorous way.. I agree with your statement about being honest... I am so honest I squeak and so naïve to think everyone is as honest as I am until I get smacked in the head like being strung along, or being someone joke or being stood up in the end.... I am very sensitive and put on a very strong front so people do not know how bad they hurt my feelings.... Bragging Rights! LOL! I am on a Hook up Site, with my whole BBW body displayed for all to see... So why would I care about bragging rights? I am 62 years old and interested in young gentleman and ladies because of all the cum and stamina they have.... I have such a high sex drive I need this... Were you may find one cum enough to give you great pleasure.... I guess to each his own regarding their sexual preferences and needs to be met...

Thank you, again for you response I really enjoyed reading it and responding back to you...


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