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Blogs > BBW56Sally > " Mature BBW Cougar "

" Does Anyone Read Profiles & Likes Other Than Me?"  

BBW56Sally 52F
0 posts
11/11/2019 9:54 pm

Last Read:
11/21/2019 6:52 pm
" Does Anyone Read Profiles & Likes Other Than Me?"

Does any one besides wonder why we write profiles and likes for others to read about who I am, what I want, what I do not want or like, what I am looking for on this site?

Well, I do not know about anyone else, but I spent a lot of time thinking and writing it all up so anyone who read it did not have any questions about me and my desires...

HAHA! But almost every person that chats with me, NOT ALL now, ask me things I was very clear about on my profile and Likes....

For example most ask would I play with a man.... I get some that are local that have not read and do not care to read it... They just contact me and say ONLY SAY..." Can I come and you give me a BLOW JOB or Will you suck my cock! Nothing more is said... My response is Hey! I love a hard firm cock in my mouth, I love sucking a cock and I love the taste of sweet ... Are you DD Free and Clean? They always say YES of course... Then I say great well you can come over and Eat my pussy and make me many times over and then I will suck your cock... TIT for TAT! LOL! Some never say any thing! Some say NO way! I even had a man (NOT a GENTLEMAN) say you are sick and need help.... HAHA! all because I told them they have to eat pussy to get a blow job...

I do get frustrated when I get asked all the thinks I have written about on my profile and Likes... To the point I lose it with some and I am very sorry you can not read. please get someone to read this to you.... NO!

I am not here for Games of any kind, NO! Drama, NO! Stress and yet there are those that like to cause or do all of those thing.... I do not get it!

This is a Hook Up Site and it should be simple... You the pictures on a profile, Read the profile, likes and the personal information. You decide if this is a possible match for you, if you desires could be possibly met by that person and if you wish to contact this person to a little to get to know a little more about the person and set up a met date and place....

I have met some wonderful men on this site and un fortunate they live to far to play with me and the desires are there for both of us but just cannot happen.... Yet, I have become true friends with a few of the men... We regularly, about anything and everything.... It can be about our own encounters with others, or personal stuff, what ever we wish to talk about...

I do not get it why it can not be so simple with everyone....

I know I write about men only, I rarely with ladies on here.... I must admit I thought one just need a listening ear, to realize … HAHA! she was masturbating to our conversation.... NOT my thing... with MEN or LADIES... Then I with nice ladies that would love to play, but to far away... Just a sweet and nice , short and sweet... Then I have one BBW Lady that likes to tell about all the awesome cock she get every .... I finally asked the other why she contacted if she was so busy and getting so much, what did she want with .... LOL!

Please do not get wrong I love all people and I am always there for my friends or someone in need to talk to someone. Does not matter who the person is.... But this is not and I am not here to socialize with everyone, or to talk someone through a jerking off or through cumming just is not my thing.... I state very clearly on my Profile and likes I am only interested in to person to person contact or skin on skin... Again Who Reads besides me? LOL!

Thank you, for reading my Blog. Please feel free to comment, respond with your experiences. your thoughts, ideas, what ever you wish. I enjoy reading what every one else has to say...
Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
11/21/2019 2:59 pm

 I am really surprised to know there's a man out there who thinks he can get a blowjob without eating some pussy.
I got one about 2 years ago but deep inside I understood that sometime in coming meetings I would have to whip my tongue out, and I was cool with that.
I think I surprised her when I made the move. She probably thought I would resist.


BBW56Sally replies on 11/21/2019 6:52 pm:
Thank you, for reading my Blog and Thank you, for your comments... You would be surprised the things men will do to try to not eat a pussy especially on a BBW. Because the mind set is BBW's are not clean enough... That is a false thought.... I am most likely cleaner than most people period, especially when it comes to sexual playing.... Now, have to understand I love a hard cock in my mouth the taste of the precum and the cum I so love to swallow. The sucking, kissing and tongue play on the head of the cock... etc. Is hard for me resist to start with, I get so excited when sucking I start moaning, groaning and rocking because my pussy juices are flowing and I feel the sides of my pussy rubbing together getting ready for my pussy to get fed something to please it... So I never mind of think a man is going to run out on me after I give him head.... I had to learn the hard way when the man got dressed ran out the door and cranked his truck and drove off.... well I was about crazy horny form the blow job my self and to be left stranded with out the help of the man was BAD! So now the rule is regardless how bad I want that cock in my mouth... MY pussy is fed first and them I would very happily take great care of your cock... sucking your balls dry...
kisses,
Sally

dogslife2live01 71M
Ask me for a photo

11/13/2019 1:56 am

 " Well if I read your response right you are saying usually both parties set a meeting place and date. It is after the meeting that you have trouble Hooking up. I hope I read that correctly."

not really. i am saying that getting IM's from sexy woman 20+ years my junior for sex, and then being referred to a site that "verifies" you before they will meet you... IS USUALLY A SCAM to get you #'s.
i am saying i am here just for the blogs. nothing more
there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


BBW56Sally replies on 11/13/2019 4:31 pm:
Oh! Thank you, for clearing that up for me.... I have never been asked by a man to do that... but I am verified on the site, so maybe that is why the scam has not been tried on me.... But I have been to other site to join them and it is a free site, but they want your debt card or credit card for verification.... I know right then it is a scam site because if is free never needs a anything to verify you are who you say you are other than some sort of ID.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with said ladies requesting the same from you on IM's... When most of us are here for just good , clean fun sex... that sucks...

Thank you, again for setting me straight because I really did not understand your first post...

BubbleButtB007 40F

11/12/2019 4:30 pm

 Hi Sally! Personally, I am unable to view profiles because I am currently a standard member. If I could I would though. I like reading profiles. I think it’s interesting reading about others , which is one of the reasons I read your blog 😊 With that said, I’m sorry for sending you an invite to my web cam earlier. I know now that’s not your thing.


BBW56Sally replies on 11/12/2019 5:44 pm:
Hey! Bubbles, LOL! I am not into sex cam....you know the one on one sex play on cam... Not my thing I do not get off to it... I do though enjoy watching Caming... I have never watched a lady before, but to be honest I would have love to have watched you.... Only because I am personally attracted to you. So please never be sorry... regardless... I love you reading my blog and hearing your thoughts, ideas, experiences and suggestions.... (I have been to long with out being touched by another. I need the personal connection to get satisfaction these days, I am very sad to say I can not even cum masturbating currently.... to many years just me I guess. I used to masturbate 5-8 times a day and cum massively... Now I just get very frustrated...
kisses,
Sally

MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
11/12/2019 10:39 am

 I just had a 34 yr old message me and then proceed to argue with me about my preferences. He is a gold member and obviously able to read profiles but still feels that he is all that and I should change my mind. Not my fault if he cant read or comprehend.


BBW56Sally replies on 11/12/2019 1:47 pm:
Thank you, for reading my Blog. Also for replying as well... Yes, I have so many of those and it does drive me crazy.... I have to laugh as I read you reply, because it sounds so much like mine. I must say I am glad to know I am not the only one to get the NUTZ! I feel at times the person on the other side is profoundly fortunate I can not reach him through cyber space to choke him....
Thank you, so very much for sharing your experience with me, I did have a sweet chuckle out of it but not at your expense my own.... It was a repeat to my own life on FriendFinder-x.... LOL!
Kisses,

dogslife2live01 71M
Ask me for a photo

11/12/2019 5:57 am

 no i do not read profiles
i do not see the value of paying membership here... therefore i have no access to profiles.
no i do not respond to likes
any women younger than my kids is unlikely to be sincere
this is a hookup site?
seems that more are getting fucked than hookup
IM well it seems to be the same
her: i am so horny! i need a fuck
me: oh yes! me too i need one. where can we meet?
her: but first you have to go here to prove you are you, they will not (wink,wink) put multiple charges on your card. then if you can ever find me you can fuck me.
so no... i do not read profiles
i read blogs. i respond to blogs

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


BBW56Sally replies on 11/12/2019 10:06 am:
Thank you, for reading my Blog and for your comment to my Blog. I must admit I find your comment very interesting. Last I heard a hook up and fuck are the same thing, LOL! Yes, I feel the same way about paying to be on any site... An as a used to be Standard member, you are very right you can not see anything on the profile, but the profile picture. There is the little thumb print and it gives you minimal information on an individual or couple. Well if I read your response right you are saying usually both parties set a meeting place and date. It is after the meeting that you have trouble Hooking up. I hope I read that correctly.... That sounds as bad as me getting stood up so much... Since I am disabled and homebound I host in my home and meeting in my home is my only option from the get go.

Thanks again for your kind response...
Kisses,

Xxxhomeystromie 50M
4 posts
11/12/2019 12:08 am

 Right?4269124


BBW56Sally replies on 11/12/2019 12:31 am:
Thank you, for reading my Blog and for your phone number... But I am very sorry I do not call men... ever... I was raised a man calls the lady.. Yes, I know you do not have my phone number, but I do not even know you.

I need some chatting with you and to get to know you before I consider giving out my personal information. I hope you understand... I like you must be attracted to you as well... Please feel free to message me I will answer your messages always...

Kisses,

Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
11/11/2019 10:57 pm

 Good read once again. For the most part as you so well know lots of
men here don't give a toss about anything written on a profile. I get your frustration having put a lot of thought & effort into explaining exactly what you like & are looking for. There it is plain & simple yet time and again you get the same lame questions & responses.Guess some things will never change which is unfortunate.


BBW56Sally replies on 11/12/2019 12:19 am:
Thank you, for reading my Blog. As so for your very kind response. An you are very right but I have learned it is not just men it is ladies as well...

Another responder reminded me of something that I have long forgotten and need to heed to remember always... First men mostly think with their glands when on this site. After seeing pictures, profiles are out the window... I admit I also look at pictures first as well. But I do read and re-read profiles.

Then there is getting up the nerve to contact the lady they are attracted... Then to wait to see if your message is answered, or ignored or your IM is responded to and if he is going to be received warmly or coldly... rejection or accepted...

So I need to be kinder and more understanding... Just be willing to answer their questions... Where as when I am contacted I always bring up their profile and read about whom I am chatting with... I always try to answer all my messages and IM's it is only the right thing to do in my mind....

You are very right, but to assume everyone should be like me is wrong on my part and I need to remember being kind does not kill any one....

Thank you, again so very much and your kind response... I enjoyed reading what you wrote me...
kisses,

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