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Help,I need an image consultant...lol  

Reanimated58 65M
2 posts
9/9/2020 8:05 pm
Help,I need an image consultant...lol


Ok ladies,I am here to ask three simple questions

#1...What does a man do to show that he is kind,compassionate,sweet,honest and caring"

#2...If I make a comment on your profile,a picture or a video and I get no response,am I to believe that you're NOT interested?.

#.3....I have never been a "fancy dresser"...I've been a biker virtually all of my life(first bike when I was 10,first Harley at 14) and I've always been a "workin' stiff" ( 30 + years in the seat of a truck)and an out doors kind of guy...I've been told that my style is almost cowboy/biker/lumberjack/trucker...and although I like to get dressed up once or twice a year ( I own 1 suit,a black blazer and 2 pairs of dress pants) generally I'm a jeans,flannel shirts waffle knit long<b> sleeve </font></b>shirts, T's and leather,vests and jackets. I wear sneakers,work boots or cowboy boots and don't own a pair of truly dressy shoes...so the question is....Do women find men who wear suits and ties and expensive dressy "casual" clothes more attractive than an average working man?...

I really need some answers on this because I just don't seem to be putting out what ladies are looking for.....I'm not saying I'm going to change, but I need to know whether I should just quit pounding my head into the proverbial brick wall...maybe there is another site (I've been on 2 or 3 different ones before and did OK) that more fits who I am and what I have to offer...maybe a masculine,slightly dominant,intelligent guy on the other side of 60 ,with a Grampa-bod instead of a six pack isn't sexy or attractive anymore....please help me out ladies...do an "uneducated in the ways and wiles of women" old guy a solid......stay safe y'all and peace out

Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/10/2020 5:43 am

I notice you're a Gold member, which means you have access to IM and emails. I go GOLD periodically and most of my success comes from either the :
1.instant messaging - to establish rapport and an invitation for greater dialogue.
2. emails - again, with the same purpose.
3. bloggers... The field is tighter but opportunities exist to impress.
As 51 pointed out, just be yourself.
Commenting on pictures is a tough nut to crack. Especially if the lady is already overwhelmed with IMs and Emails.

Yep... If it was easy, everyone would succeed. Only those who persevere with honesty, originality and creativity make it. You sound like you have the tools. Go for it.
Best of luck 🤞. 😎


Reanimated58 replies on 9/12/2020 7:05 am:
Thanks Paul...good insight

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