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This is really happening  

AFFJeff46214 54M
5 posts
11/27/2019 3:55 pm
This is really happening

My wife and I disagree on how we want to live our life together. She insists she loves me and wants to stay by my side forever. Here's the catch: she wants to have a deep and meaningful relationship with someone else at the same time. I wanted a divorce and decided to get counseling. I love her and don't want to give up and walk away. We are good together. I was patient before and her last love on the side went from downhill to gone fast. It hurts me when she gets hurt like that. I told her we are done on 11-11-19. Ironically I proposed on 11-11-11. I slept on it and then she suggested boundaries for an open marriage. I accepted, thinking it would be easy and I could win her love. Wrong. It is hard and it is killing me.

So I get home from work on November 25 and a guy she works with is parked in my spot. He is an okay guy and we all go out to eat and get along. I walk in our house and she tells me "don't come up here" and I honestly thought she was wrapping me some Christmas gifts. Oh was I wrong...she was bra-less in an unbuttoned see thru shirt and he was laying on the couch wearing only underpants. I walked in on her sleeping with him.

I almost caught her cheating years ago and the asshole<b> neighbor </font></b>ran out the back door of the house and she blamed the noise on the dog. Yesterday she was not cheating because dammit I agreed to this sort of thing!

I am heartbroken. Seeing this just made it clear she is with someone else.

I am sure there are millions of men who would love a restricted "hall pass" all the time.

I really need a distraction so that is why I am on this site.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
11/27/2019 6:01 pm


Lickusilly2222 44M
Ask me for a photo
19 posts
11/27/2019 7:22 pm

 Look at the fact you can play around to if you A love herB accept sometimes it will either end or can change


AFFJeff46214 replies on 11/27/2019 10:56 pm:
Thanks.

74nike 49M

11/27/2019 8:28 pm

 If you love each other and you both want to see other people and you both agree on this situation, what's the problem. Ever thought of playing with other couples together, that might be fun.


AFFJeff46214 replies on 11/27/2019 10:58 pm:
We did once a few years ago and neither she nor I got much out of it. We probably were just with the wrong couple.

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