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The Pain Of Being Blocked From A Male Perspective  

seymouraction 58M
6 posts
12/1/2019 7:21 am
The Pain Of Being Blocked From A Male Perspective

Recently I experienced for the first time being blocked by a lady - and yes she remains and always will be in my eyes a Lady - Am i supposed accept it and just say hey ho, plenty more fish in the sea, perhaps. Then why do i feel upset, and despondent because what occurred was a genuine mistake and not due the usual reason of a overstepping the mark of being crude, tiresome or acting like he is directing the next hollywood blockbuster.

I would like think anyone on the site who knows will confirm that I am always polite and respectful, I actually visit cams not partake in the pleasures of the eye, but have intelligent conversation and a little verbal banter. In my instance, I had great respect for the lady and don't think I ever said anything that would hurt or offend.... What did he do, I can hear you say , well in chatting ladies at the same time I inadvertently sent a photograph by mistake. i Instantly apologised then in shame came out of the room. The next day I tried to go back into the ladies room times but kept on losing my connection and was therefore unable re-apologise, the following day I was banned. Now I have no way of trying right a wrong, and the feeling is one of frustration and hurt especially as I know the lady concerned was due an exam result on friday, and I will never know if she achieved her goals, I sincerely hope so..

So I just thought I would throw it out there all the ladies who do have cause block males, think was this typical of the person, was it a mistake? was it a comment not meant offend but due incorrect grammar or perhaps the language barrier or even lack of<b> education </font></b>it was perceived in the wrong way?

If the above is true, then perhaps say something the person, ask them clarify what they meant before pressing the BLOCK button, as once you have excommunicated them they will never get the chance to explain. In some case you may find that you have lost what could have been a friend for life.

Before I finish I would like to say that in 99.9% of cases, I respect that the lady is right to block, I abhor the way the majority of men come into a room and their first message is a request for the lady to show or do something for them, I detest some people who despite being told not to persist in bothering or offending, I particularly am angered by the so called gentlemen who then say the lady is just a tease. Please look up the definition of a tease, it is a person who provokes others in a playful way, the room is the ladies to do what and say what, and show what she wants to, without having to pander to the needs of her visitors.

OK I will step down from my soapbox now, hopefully my post whilst not benefiting me, will perhaps allow someone else the chance to redeem themselves and carry on a friendship they have developed. Oh and if it does and you end up marrying , I demand an invite to the wedding ..


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
12/1/2019 3:45 pm

Unfortunately it's the ratio of men to women and those
whose own entitlement issues on this site will forever
set the market value of between$.01 -$.10
a dozen!

Using more than all the road!


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
12/2/2019 4:08 am

What was the pic of? your dick?


seymouraction 58M

12/2/2019 4:31 am

lol, no was of my butt actually, and in my defence the same lady regularly asked other males for photos to be sent and had actually added me to her hotlist so therefore seen it all before on my profile already , think it may have been that we had become friends rather than a potential match, guess I will never know the reasoning behind it.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
12/2/2019 9:03 am

Oh... well.. just move on then.. chin up.... off you go


seymouraction 58M

12/2/2019 9:48 am

your wisdom is only surpassed by your sense of humour, love the profile, so HI , and to add to your collection :
A little polar bear goes to his father and says, "Dad, am I 100% polar bear?" Dad replies, "I don't know son, go ask your mother." So the little polar bear finds his mom and asks, "Am I 100% polar bear?" Mom thinks about it for a while and says, "Well, I'm a polar bear and your father is a polar bear. All your grandparents, aunts and uncles are polar bears. I'd say it's a safe bet you are 100% polar bear. Why do you ask?" To which the little polar bear shouts, "Because I'm fucking freezing!"


RubenesqueWis 59F
4 posts
12/2/2019 7:49 pm

REally? I offered to help you with this and you kept saying no than kept talking about it.......and now a blog? Wow.


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