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INFORMATION FOR TRANS ADMIRERS.
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INFORMATION FOR TRANS ADMIRERS. I use the term “transgender" here as a catch as some M - F crossdressers have transgender issues beyond just a dressing fetish. Many guys that have interest in trans may not have a good understanding of what we are about and what it takes 2 present as a gurl. I believe many admirers develop their fascination from watching tranny porn where these rare gurls are naturally beautiful transexuals… males that SHOULD have been born female. The spectrum of transgender ranges from panty dabbling hairy football player sized guys 2 truly gifted males that were born the wrong gender and are naturally beautiful women just a chromosome away from being genetic females. Obviously the range is broad as 2 how convincingly gurls can present, this is what counts for the majority of guys. For most people that indulge in dressing and transitioning 2 become feminine takes significant time and skill. We simply do not wake every day and are automatically feminine and gorgeous. The average person that presents as fem has numerous challenges… facial and body hair, body size and shape, facial appearance, voice, deportment, makeup and hair / wig styling mastery, taste in wardrobe and acquiring a wardrobe and how committed they really are to be feminine, are just a few. From my experience the typical trans admirer does not understand this with some that must believe us gurls wake up feminine and sexy then sit around constantly dolled up waiting for some admirer to call so that we can instantly accommodate their current impulse. My purpose here is to dispel this myth. To avoid sharing photos some guys want to initially meet for coffee to check one another out or come to my home and if I don't like what I see they will leave. It takes me a couple hours to prep and dress then if meeting somewhere having to drive to a location is awkward. Then as passable as some people comment that I am, I’m still self conscious so daytime meetings at locations that may not be particularly trans friendly adds to the difficulty. It all takes valuable time which can be wasted if its determined we're not compatible. This is why I prefer if the guy is willing to establish compatibility with talking on the phone and sharing photos. If we are satisfied then I can entertain them at my home. Obviously many guys, (as I’ve spoken about in my other blogs and profile) are suspicious and untrusting and will not offer photos. As I have stressed I have no interest in being indiscreet and am trustworthy. Many quality guys are trusting and ok with sharing, and these are the ones who I enjoy being with most. It makes .me. feel open and free to explore new activities and we have magnificent times together. Many inexperienced guys seem nervous, suspicious and unnatural which only makes the situation difficult, and us gurls feel awkward. I suggest to relax, let go of any fears, just think that you’re dating a genetic girl and go with it. Indulge your fantasies. Some guys that contact me e-m (theirs usually contains half a sentence) do not want 2 share photos or basic personal info, will not talk on the phone but expect .me. 2 invite them into my home. I do not care partake in such activities. Communicating with a trans seems to cause many normally well mannered guys to completely forget common etiquette. I never know what kind of person is contacting me so resulting from this typically inhospitable behaviour I don’t volunteer my phone and will only call with a blocked to which I will get guys I’ve never met or spoken to disapproving of. I hope this piece improves understanding of trans gurls. |
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