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Women: To Shave or Not....A Man's Viewpoint  

Mortier36 83M  
14 posts
3/18/2020 6:59 am
Women: To Shave or Not....A Man's Viewpoint


When I went down on the current flame, I discovered to my dismay that she does not shave her vulva.  Now, as a older male who has a  high libido (a person's strong desire to have sex) and has been denied same, I have sought an outlet in watching porn which has become easy and cheap to find on the Internet.  I could have chose and prostitutes, but didn't.  99% of the females in porn are shaved.  The remaining hairy ones use it to promote their attraction to the small percentage of males that like that aspect.  Therefor, I contend that any female who has a desire to find a man who can function in the bedroom should, of necessity, be shaved.  Especially if they enjoy<b> receiving </font></b>oral.  Now, I have looked into this subject from the female perspective and I get a lot of pros and cons.  I also get it is a "personal choice".  And when I say shaved, that means hairless.  Various means exist from waxing, chemical removal, electronic methods, and lastly actual shaving.  Some cost considerable money, some are painful, and some are just a regular bother.   But the bottom line is that to catch a fish, you need the right bait and that might mean your personal suffering is necessary if you want to enjoy men who give head.

As a male who became sexually active in the 70s, I dealt with girls who on the whole, did not shave.  But they were young and the vulva was sparse in hair.  I manage the situation and enjoyed giving head.  As women age, the hair becomes more prolific and more wire like.  I have experienced a mature, totally shaved woman and it was a turn-on!  As to my own genital area, it is totally shaved.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
3/18/2020 9:23 am

Mort . .

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jajo696 113F
4287 posts
3/18/2020 10:10 am

as u say, it IS a personal choice. Many men appreciate the female form in its natural state, just as i do for males. Hairless indicates the prepubescent of youth....no maturity there. Men do not have to be presented with a shaven vajayjay to enjoy it and all its wonders.....trust me on that ~~

Its a womans body, therefore.....her choice ~~


tsn4fun2 48M/46F  
257 posts
3/18/2020 10:53 am

The only problem I have with anyone shaving is the dreaded 5 o’clock shadow that appears shortly after. Not sure if you’re familiar with the prickly irritating super sharp shorties that tend to leave “rug burn” on face and or thighs from rubbing, sliding over, whatever you do when you’re in the moment but I do NOT like that. Luckily I have a lifetime partner (mdh) that understands this frustration. Maybe MAYBE if you are still on the hunt I could see shaving every 12 hours but damn... that’s a whole lot of effort. A nice trim is all that is really needed. Especially if you have regulars.


Hawkfan533333 34M
688 posts
3/18/2020 12:16 pm

Being 30 I have grown up with hairless, or trimmed well, and I definitely prefer that over the natural cut. I did date a girl in high school, and our first time together she was unshaven, and like you said, giving head is just not good. I did nicely as possible bring up, the idea of shaving to her, and she did thankfully! To me shaved or cleaned up well is all ok have really known, and that's what I personally like.

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MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
3/18/2020 4:06 pm

"When I went down on the current flame, I discovered to my dismay that she does not shave her vulva... I could have chose escorts and prostitutes, but didn't."

Your "flame" must be so grateful you have chosen her over escorts and prostitutes. I hope she dumps you.

It's her body, it's her choice to whether she shaves or not.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


honeysuckle9397 48F
9040 posts
3/18/2020 4:29 pm

Is it safe to shave during this virus scare?? 😂

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Dyslexics of the world untie.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
3/19/2020 2:43 am

    Quoting  :

Agreed. He deleted my response. I was hoping his "flame" dumped him after his "I could have chose escorts and prostitutes, but didn't" statement which must make her feel sooooo special.

It's her body and her choice if she wants to be natural or shaved. If you don't like it, then suck it up or leave and go after your prostitutes.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


Mortier36 83M  
5 posts
4/4/2020 4:48 pm

It just so happens I brought up the subject with my "flame" and she agreed to trim as has been reported that 80 % of females do. So, My Baffies, you can stick that in your pipe and smoke it!


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