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Blogs > nicoleanjel > Personal Diary Thoughts

Judgemental people  

nicoleanjel 52M/35F
4 posts
12/4/2019 1:28 am

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12/4/2019 10:24 pm
Judgemental people

Earlier today me and my sister in law and my brother were having a conversation... the topic was...why are people so judgemental of what everyone does but cant even recognize their own fucks up...my response was...people dont want to see their own faults and mistakes because it's more harder to look at what you've done to yourself and others....whereas seeing other people's issues it's easier to point out their faults.... speaking from experience myself it was harder for me to<b> forgive </font></b>myself for all the bullshit I put myself and family through than it was for me to<b> forgive </font></b>those who hurt me...shit forgiving them was nothing but forgiving myself and then having to go back and apologize for what I did and said to some... now some people are just judgemental because they're just dumbasses that very insecure with themselves and need to get that problem solved asap I'm just the truth😎😈...... please whoever want to share their opinions please be my guest

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/4/2019 5:25 am

 There is nothing wrong with having judgments about the people around you and your environment. The problem is when the the judgment is wrong. Then the right thing to do is to correct your judgment.
Also you really don't know they're not judgmental of themselves, too.


nicoleanjel replies on 12/4/2019 5:51 am:
You are very right.... you dont know who judging you or not... like you say judge by character and the company you keep so very true....I will only and always speak from my own personal experiences.. from me then and the me now definitely definitely have had its moments lol of good and bad but the person who I have become now I love me.... it took someone sitting me down and making me realize my wrong admitting and the willingness to change it was my biggest accomplishment I've made lol... I was evil and now I'm the most loving and humbling person because I can understand more than what most people can and or willing to try to understand.... to each it's own I agree to disagree but that doesn't mean I will downgrade or belittle someone just because they are not what I expected them to be or what the world wants them to be... in my viewpoint the more different you are and unique are the better I will like you lol...ima be honest I dont like nobody but because my HEAVENLY FATHER says I have to get along with people ima make the best and most out of my time here... lol you guys that are commenting on this post you got us with Jocelyn would have loved to be in a conversation with us we be just saying what we feel and laugh about it in the end lol

nicoleanjel 52M/35F
3 posts
12/4/2019 4:30 am

 Thank you so much I'm glad I have some who agrees because some people will try to fight with me on this topic and I end up just letting them think whatever they want... I talking from my own personal experiences..... shit wasnt cool when. I looked back on all the things I did mannn..... it was hell now I'm so careful to not hurt people and just be honest with them in a respectful manner now if I have said not to get your feelings caught up with me and you do anyways I'm so sorry I cannot blame myself because I told people from jump what it was.... I swear sometimes being good looking with a humble heart is soooo difficult at times lol...I rather be me now than me 3 years ago


nicoleanjel 52M/35F
3 posts
12/4/2019 2:09 am

 Thank you love


HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
12/4/2019 1:56 am

 good points made in your post


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