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Yes. But everyone involved needs to be very mature about it. Welcome to the blogs. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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thats an individual thing. For some i am sure it is possible....for me it is not. Feelings for someone enhances everything you do with that person ~~
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Yes I agree with forgotforgetting. The expectations have to be discussed and agreed to up front. It should be about fun and pleasure for the female.
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Sure, its generally a requirement of prostitution. But why would you attempt to remove the emotional connection of sex? Then its just sex and you might as well use toys - at least you'd get a better orgasm...
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Humans are sentient creatures. By definition, we feel and perceive. I make this distinction, because regardless of our emotions (or lack thereof), we have feelings. To your point: a *sociopath* is capable of fully (or almost fully) repressing his/her emotions to the point of effectively having none. Few of us are wired in this way. We are ceaselessly wrestling with contradictory thoughts triggered by our perceptions, actions and reactions. While I never fail to be astonished at how cold-hearted humans can behave, I continue to insist that the data support the notion that most people are *good* and thus would (over a varying period of time) develop an emotional connection with a sexual partner. That said, I also believe that there are plenty of people capable of repressing their emotions and deriving at least a modicum of pleasure from casual NSA sex. At my advanced age, I much prefer the quality-of-experience that *cums* from lovemaking with a partner with whom I share an intense, vibrant and emotional connection. Why settle for less than the best?
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Actually, neither. When I say mature, I mean emotional attachment is normal human behavior. It is possible to like and even care for your sexual partners without envisioning picketed fences. If expectations are clear from the outset, then they should be respected. This neither denies or buries or confuses the emotions. The question is whether one or both get attached, but whether that attachment changes the circumstances of the relationship. If it does not, then everyone needs to respect the set boundaries. If that is not possible, then going separate ways is probably the most appropriate option. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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You're welcome.  “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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Latinadutch99 replies on 12/7/2019 10:38 pm: Prostitution? Why? This site is free. Unless people pay to buy points..then could be..but if people are not into paying one cent and just chat..it is not..is it? Who said anything about this site, paying for or buying points? You asked about "sex without feelings". . . My response was to 'the context posted'
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1/4/2020 1:36 pm |
Thanks for your opinions!
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