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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
3/1/2020 9:34 am

Voted: I’m just here for entertainment. I enjoy the Blogs and cams.


hotcho396readyno 72F

3/1/2020 9:53 am

more interracial videos needed


MMXX2020 53M
174 posts
3/1/2020 10:01 am

Some very interesting blogs.


kinglounch22 28M

3/1/2020 10:15 am

Some parts I like, like looking at all the beautiful women on here and the erotic stories but talking to anyone is an absolute nightmare.


Shrewdy2 60M
48 posts
3/1/2020 10:19 am

I’m just here for the Entertainment on the A/L! The glitches get worse daily so will never stump up the money for a site that doesn’t work!!


wantiall4now 58M

3/1/2020 10:19 am

I like the blogs and that's about it


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
3/1/2020 10:51 am

As a standard member I'm losing more ND more each month
I. Sure I'll lose blogs soon
Just lose picture contest last month
Lost IM


jeepsR4fun 57M  
106 posts
3/1/2020 11:03 am

Talent VS quantity the never ending search, someone close


rinonuts1 57M

3/1/2020 11:09 am

nothing but flakes on here every time you set some thing up at the last min they have a excuse why they cant meet lamo


mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
3/1/2020 11:21 am

a combination of several of the options so...other

woop woop


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
3/1/2020 11:22 am

I'm just here for entertainment. The blogs, mostly, and sometimes hanging out in the chat rooms is entertaining also. Another factor that falls under the "Other" vote is prevention of points decay by regularly logging in. I might want to use them later.


hot4heels2020 49M

3/1/2020 11:26 am

I literally just have that in my profile "Why am I Even Here Again"
Full of fake profiles and people looking to jerk off. Constant ghosting and no shows. Why bother. Anyone know of a better site?


Mikemike107015 53M  
136 posts
3/1/2020 11:28 am

Personally I've tried many sites and found this one works the best for me. Of course it isn't perfect but at my age I've come to realize perfection is a fantasy. ✌


bigguy046 59M
9 posts
3/1/2020 11:55 am

The site itself is fine, many of the people suck. (i have made a couple of friends who I talk to off site)
The people who won't respond to a polite opening message, or who do respond and then in the middle of a conversation, just vanish.......are low class.
Ghosting people is so childish and low class.


niceone458y 52M
30 posts
3/1/2020 11:59 am

Would never pay because of all the glitches and BS


zeke53028 65M  
1135 posts
3/1/2020 12:09 pm

I'm just here for perv the pics and videos. The site was better years ago. Now there are too many fake and stolen profiles and pics. Most of the cams are replayed videos, and there's waaay to many glitches.


FoxtrotCalling 56M
58 posts
3/1/2020 1:06 pm

Some parts I like, receiving messages and chatting with new people. I especially enjoy when those conversations lead to sexy liaisons.
I've read some of the blogs and erotic fiction. I like the creativity of members.
I don't really like the webcam feature (I don't like webcam in general, watching or broadcasting) and I (I believe most people) don't like the the fact that you have to reload your screen to see when people contact you.


Bigdicksirtoyou 39M

3/1/2020 1:28 pm

Hmmm. Interesting


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
3/1/2020 1:31 pm

all of the above...
none of the above...
What was the question? 🙄
Oh yeah...
I like it once in a while.... 🍷🍷❗😎


VikklLouisecd 59T
28 posts
3/1/2020 4:18 pm

At my age it's a crap shoot to begin with, why I stay here is MAYBE
I'LL find someone that's real. So many liars and fakes all the time gets sickening more than not. Got hacked off here too. That's why I didn't reup my profile to gold. I like the site, but getting sick of all the shit day after day. Just wish, ( LOL ) people were more honest and caring, and use the site for what it was setup to do. Have fun and meet genuine potential partners. Till that happens, I'll stay standard


phatfuck306 30M

3/1/2020 4:19 pm

They make it very difficult as a standard member


Iceking6996 38M
25 posts
3/1/2020 4:34 pm

Shit I’m still waiting to meet somebody off here, Came close a couple times but nothing ever pans out the instant messenger is whackAnd I would never pay for this


shadowtoo69 68M  
1056 posts
3/1/2020 4:49 pm

I like parts of the site. I dislike points, buzz mode, fake/scam profiles. IM sucks and new users should be told up front that they will not be able to interact with anyone until they become a paid member...


Clowt 53M
161 posts
3/1/2020 4:59 pm

Definitely the people (in general) are great......the site, run by shmucks!!!!!


fffinder2000 60M
128 posts
3/1/2020 5:29 pm

I tend to remain hopeful. I have been a member for a long time and have had a few relationships and have met some good people....BUT, as time goes on the logistics of the site are failing. Yes, I am a standard member now. Have been gold in the past and may attempt again but other gold members have expressed their feelings that the site isn't what it use to be. So, hopeful to meet some good people again but not holding my breath.


bitchkitty2017 71F

3/1/2020 6:28 pm

soooo does everyone who dont get laid at once on here bitch and moan about anything else but how they trash the site??? If you do not like the place by all means shut the door behind you go bitch somewhere else you dont like or agree with how the business is run ...pleeeeezeee!!!!!! dont ruin it for all of us ...personally i dont care if you are not happy its not all about you anyway..lol


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
3/1/2020 7:11 pm

I think the "Adult" in the title is about as rare as the "Friend" part ! It seems most are looking for perfection or points ! The only real lady I actually met was before they started the points to chat. It's close to my renewal as a gold member and unless I change my mind I do not plan to renew ! I have seen many complaints about the IM service and I have had no problems with it . Thank You, MsSwitch1 for asking this question !!


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
3/1/2020 7:26 pm

You left out “All of the above”. This place is like watching a slow motion train wreck.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

3/1/2020 9:37 pm

The site has its problems but I know that my biggest problem with finding partners has been and always will be me.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


redy2plzu6969 70M/61F  
71 posts
3/1/2020 10:19 pm

All they care about is cutting and free services and figuring out a way to make more money. They allow too many fakes and flakes on here!


xNewsPhotog 61M  
243 posts
3/2/2020 3:19 am

There seems to be a LOT of "fake" profiles compared to when I first started here. Too bad there aren't more "real" people closer to where I live.


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
3/2/2020 5:54 am

4 (especially the bloggers), 6 + 8.

I Just Got Less Friendly
What39s Going on Here
BW, on HNW
[post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets


60satisfaction 66M

3/2/2020 7:02 am

I guess that until something better cums along, we're stuck with this shit!


Suprcuk58 62M
96 posts
3/2/2020 7:07 am

Been here several months. No contact yet. Point system changed. IM doesn't work half the time. All the "matches" that show up are inactive. Same as "local" members. 90% are inactive profiles. Anything to get you to burn up your points.


Johuncut54 59M
18 posts
3/2/2020 7:15 am

I have met couple people on here but seems that when you have points you use them then nobody talks back with you and we did get three free chats dont get that any more I enjoy reading the stories but I wished it go back the way it was


pahorndog1 40M

3/2/2020 7:51 am

not as good as it used to be, used to find people but now it almost impossible unless both have gold, im not paying after they have showed they cant keep from getting hacked


nhtoma603617 32M
17 posts
3/2/2020 7:54 am

Lol so I’ve had my ups and downs but many downs my biggest issues are fake profiles and flakes but that’s the internet


Giveandget7 63M

3/2/2020 9:13 am

They just keep squeezing...…..


MonsterCacti 39M

3/2/2020 10:59 am

This site is a freaking joke


1952MichaelE 71M  
22 posts
3/2/2020 11:10 am

I am new here and have not yet formed an opinion. My partner of 18 years passed away last year, so to be honest, I haven't a clue about much. At this point, I just browse. I will be relocating later this year, so have no intention of meeting anyone now.

That's the long answer. The short answer is, ask me again in 6 months.


jam5259 71M  
2 posts
3/2/2020 11:36 am

seems as if the people here are not really serious about meeting. Site has flaws. wonder how many are really looking to meet new people.


Edua2013sw 57M

3/2/2020 12:55 pm

Hi MsSwitch1 are good questio a lot are right put in my selection may its a reseum of all other


stallion3301 49M
10 posts
3/2/2020 12:57 pm

Seems like everything is a money grab now


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
3/2/2020 1:04 pm

I don't have that many glitches. Can be I use less features. Of what I use some always work. The rest does most of the time. Only negative thing is some users but that is life. Will always be @$$holes at all sites and offline.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
3/2/2020 1:22 pm

Most of the people on here are wonderful. I do like many of the blogs and bloggers.
You don't know what works well on here until the administration changes it.
They seem to be forever tweeking what works and they pay no attention to all of the complaints on the things that don't.
If I meet someone on here bonus. Met a few. Some good. Some not.
My plate is kind of full anyway.
I don't like offensive remarks on the blogs and it should be easier to report the offending party (bullies) and actually have something done about it.
Anyone who dosen't like it here is free to leave at anytime.
Delete your profile before you do. That takes your pictures and videos with you.


looking202063 66M

3/2/2020 1:27 pm

Show them the money is all it is, restrictions on everything and it's impossible to generate enough points to do anything unless you live on the site.


yodaman816 52M
1 post
3/2/2020 2:23 pm

I have had some luck here and as a free member its hard to complain but lately the IM works less and less and it cost more and more points. When I try to earn more points it rarely gives them to me but when I use the Im it sure takes those 15 away in a hurry.


Imapig54 69M

3/2/2020 2:34 pm

I have had a lot of fun on here


RaiseTheBarCHS 42M
6 posts
3/2/2020 5:19 pm

I think if you've been here long enough then you've held every single one of these opinions at some point.


skinnydpr56 67M

3/2/2020 6:01 pm

i used to meet 1 or 2 a year,then the last 6 i met no one.I did meet an asian lady at the massage place i go.we are seeing each other alot and she has a body like the girl in Grown ups.32 with a perfect body and personality.she doesnt want my money or property,just our time together.its not forever im sure but being with her reminds me of when i dated in my 20's.We never hold hands in public,not asking for stares or neg comments.For now,we are having a good time 2 or 3 times a week,id like more but im a busy guy.


soundsculptor 48M  
50 posts
3/2/2020 10:14 pm

    Quoting  :

Pretty much sums it up. I guess when my points that I built up over logging in every day for years are gone, so will I.


soundsculptor 48M  
50 posts
3/2/2020 10:16 pm

    Quoting stallion3301:
    Seems like everything is a money grab now
Pretty much.


Can_we_explore 97M
14 posts
3/3/2020 1:38 am

Well, it seems that its not what it seems to be even though its advertised as what it seems. At this point I just come on to vent and share stories. I meet a decent amount of females offline so it balances this site out.


lickitdryokik 40M
4 posts
3/3/2020 7:45 am

I wanna be yr sexual slave sucku g yr clit on requests ejackulating in you raw impregnating you if desired


lickitdryokik 40M
4 posts
3/3/2020 7:47 am

I wanna be yr sexual slave sucku g yr clit on requests ejackulating in you repeatedly raw impregnating perhaps if you if desired


DPDominus 43F

3/3/2020 9:11 am

Fetlife so much better. We only keep the account open because they gave us free gold for a year. The banner of the old white hair pounding some pussy stating "go all day again" tells you all you need to know. Someone is paying to a run a add marketed at older folks. There is a reason for that - you dont spend a ton of money on marketing at a place like this unless you know the demographic and that you will get returns.


ncgirl162 61M/43F  
30 posts
3/3/2020 9:26 am

The biggest problem is when you use points to send a message. It deducts the 15 points and you get no response. Sometimes right after you say hello the person is no longer on IM and you lose the points. I would rather pay 25 points only if you get a response. This way you know they saw your message rather than guessing if they are not interested or just not receiving messages.


blackdude4white 64M

3/3/2020 2:45 pm

This site is just a money grubbing shithole of a site. If you have to write about something not working you get the same reply no matter what it is. As a gold member you should not have to use points to talk to someone. That is double dipping. I come here look around and leave. I get no points for logging in or anything else. If I want points I have to buy them, so what is the point of a gold membership other than it puts money into their pockets. I have been a member since 03or so. It was a good site to visit, but that has changed. So I am always asking myself why do I come here. The only time now that I pay for gold is when it is $47.00/year. It is barely worth that.


TXViking75 48M

3/3/2020 3:59 pm

one of the perplexing questions of our age....why do we stay


furry7890 51M

3/3/2020 5:28 pm

we are all being studied like lab rats. enjoy. i do love the pics and vids though.


Curious123622 72M

3/4/2020 5:06 am

The problem with being a gold member is you cannot IM standard members so that eliminates half the field


EfresherE 41M
13 posts
3/4/2020 8:58 am

Pointless, this site is useless. How they trick anyone into paying for gold is beyond me


DocManther 56M  
14 posts
3/4/2020 9:06 am

I've had 3 women chat with me for a few weeks...just happen to be out of the country working for some red Cross type shit....then tell me they are in a bit of a pinch and bneed me to send them a lot of money
..saying I'm an asshole because I won't send my money to someone I've never met. 2 are still on this site


Slim1der100 51M
123 posts
3/4/2020 10:24 am

It's getting harder & harder to contact ppl, to set up a meet. Harder to get points. What happen to the 3 free IM's a day? I can't even contact my friends on here, anymore. There's way too many changes... Like WTF???🤬😤🤷🏾‍♂️


wntu2squirt4us 59M/66F
87 posts
3/4/2020 2:30 pm

we're standard member, and the IM NEVER WORKS, and we know that we are pissed off because of IM. We get members saying hello and CAN NEVER RESPOND because the IM SUCKS.


maybefun57 77M
27 posts
3/4/2020 11:00 pm

we all agree this site sucks.


lekky2020 36T
2 posts
3/5/2020 6:06 am

i signed up without having a clue. this site isn't really for me since im not comfortable having abrupt hookups with strangers without being tested first. and im usually a one partner / couple type of guy at a time. i think i should have signed up to plenty of fish instead or something. not the sites fault, but it is very bleak. can't do shit without paying.


summerlove94 57F

3/5/2020 8:14 am

so lets face it, its not that hard for girls to get sex. I don't pay and I wont pay. but they are making it more and more difficult to use the site without paying. eventually I will leave. I have not been on here that long but seen lots of changes already, pushing for money. they are not very smart. trying to force women to pay will backfire on them. eventually it will be nothing but men and the female scammers/gold diggers etc. that's just my opinion. and at least make improvements to IM. I would never pay with such a crappy IM that hardly ever works.


bigdavid0501 38M
79 posts
3/5/2020 10:43 am

It was great when I first joined but it’s going down hill fast


SeeksCams 61M

3/5/2020 11:30 am

Again it seems that they're f***ing with the site. They keep making changes and breaking other things that don't get fixed for ages if at all. From what I've read (I first joined in 2001), the admin sucks and so does the IT.

I've seen comments about this "being a business" when people complain about the money-grubbing, but this isn't being treated as a business...at least not one that cares about its customers, or giving people incentives to pay. Why pay, if you can't tell if you're going to get value for your money?

As someone posted above, eventually it'll just be the scammers/fakes left.


Yourusaul 53M

3/5/2020 11:59 am

I have been a member for a while and to say the least it is getting worse. is there another site that is better than this? if so please let me know and I will be glad to check it out.


Dontbgentle2 55M

3/5/2020 1:37 pm

Just here for the entertainment!!


marcncleo_69 61M/57F
183 posts
3/5/2020 3:21 pm

We are real tho


Hardcocknme2 47M
46 posts
3/5/2020 6:40 pm

Players all talk


Feedmepls11 48M

3/5/2020 9:27 pm

Seems to be turning 8nto a shit show


rm_Xtreme_AK 54M

3/6/2020 1:54 am

It was lame from the beginning. I get it that I live in an area with a small population, maybe it’s different in other states where they are more real profiles available. Personally, as a business point of view, you have to make it free for women. The issue is they are so many fake profiles baiting people here, that it would be impossible without something implemented to have legit members. Don’t get me wrong, I see the issues with every gender. Nothing worse than finding someone and having them lead you on with no intensions of hooking up. Mix in all the fake profiles with 23 year olds with broken English living in a different state looking for long term relationships and it’s a wonder why anybody is still here. Don’t judge me! I still have my hopes up. (or is that desperation)


sassos 57M
41 posts
3/6/2020 2:28 am

FriendFinder-x is what you make it, just don't expect too much. Filter carefully, tread lightly, take your time and you might just find some fun friends....it isn't a quick fix


pleagain 58M

3/6/2020 2:35 am

when i first joined years ago this site was rocking! lot of members things worked here people would actually meet. now its turned into a big shit sandwich. no one meets people are leaving very sad days indeed. iam getting close to bailing out myself. iam to the point i wont pay anymore. why should i nothing works here! im never works or takes your points away cant view pictures or profiles or watch cams ughhhhh. hell my cam wont work here anymore so i cant show off my hard stiff cock. getting tougher here just to masturbate! and i love to jerk off. i cant see how they continue this site if they wont listen to there members. soon they wont have any.


1alone4fun 55M  
26 posts
3/6/2020 6:17 am

the site has worked for me as a paid member and not. just have to take your time, seems like you get out what you put in.... unless you put in money, then you don't get that back! Gold membership is only good for viewing the vids


Dieselmoon 42M
36 posts
3/6/2020 9:36 pm

Site used to be pretty good I was an active member for 2 years with good results. Now I come back after a little sebatical and seems like there's a lot of fake profiles and scamers


Sidney69 61M
102 posts
3/7/2020 10:19 am

I first signed up on this site back in the 56k modem days, before the ability to post photos even existed. I was having good success meeting people until about the mid 90s...then management changed, and so did the quality of the site. It's been a long, slow downhill slide since then! Now, the only way i'll pay for membership is by using a $10 gift card every now and then to watch member videos, and now more and more of those are nothing but hijacked commercial porn. The owners of this site should be charged with fraud.


Laverdaderariata 43M

3/7/2020 10:46 pm

Its so ....i cant do nothing if i am standard ....


Grangeroanonimo 45M
209 posts
3/8/2020 2:31 pm

Me encanta andar por aqui


funclub408 30M

3/8/2020 11:23 pm

It's frustrating. Have a good night


curiousparty1234 38M
8 posts
3/9/2020 5:24 am

I think the biggest issue is the money grab personally. I joined years ago when Standard got 5 free IM's a day, points would roll *just enough* in for using the site, and to entice you to go Gold. You could see who looked at you (not look back without spending), you could see who flirted, all the features worked (Eg Flirting is apparently supposed to give the other person access to your account for 30 days, I try clicking on people that flirted with me and I get the "go gold to view" pop up).

Then they started to peel everything away and putting it in a "pay me to use it" basket. Going from 5 free to 3 free, wasn't really an issue for me as I live in a smaller area though it still sucked when there were people that I was interested in here. Then you couldn't look at who viewed you without being Gold, the points for participating in site events and such slowed to a trickle. Now? If you're not paying for every little feature (and it sounds like Gold members are getting shafted too. And not in the good way) the site is barely usable.

If they listened to their customers, added back some of the "teaser" features for Standard members, allowing people who are contacted by an Ambassador to reply (even just once) to them, adding back 3 free daily IM's for everyone.
I do not think they should give away the farm! Just, you know put that carrot on a stick out again for Standard Members that lets them use the site, then makes them go "well you know what? I can get that carrot if I pay!" I know I'd be more willing to pay for a site that wants me to pay but gives me some access to features to see my investment is worth it, than one that constantly removed features and access as the site has over the years and the ones that I do have access to don't work.


gympike 29M

3/9/2020 6:17 am

website changes everyday


XXXFUN501 50M
11 posts
3/9/2020 12:30 pm

If they can't fix the bugs with the messaging they won't ever get any money out of me. Post 4301168


hrnyinelko 62M/51F

3/9/2020 4:41 pm

Can't get or send messages. Why buy membership


Cocklover0416 50M

3/9/2020 6:15 pm

Can't ever seen to get a local hookup but every guy 1000 miles from me wants to hookup...


tsn4fun2 48M/46F  
257 posts
3/9/2020 6:42 pm

If anything I’ve learned on here is to wash and disinfect ANYTHING you get from a public store before you use it. I just watched some disturbing vids from people going “shopping” and taking the “try before you buy” just a little too seriously. Smh. And the comments were all positive. I don’t know about you but I would think twice before buying your next bbq grill brush.


abody4youse 70M

3/9/2020 11:52 pm

Was on for 1year,that’s enough...site Sucks


Jedrink505 71M  
16 posts
3/10/2020 1:55 pm

A stiff dick has no conscience, hence completely fucked up sites like FriendFinder-x continue on!!!!


Squirterhottie32 31F

3/10/2020 2:44 pm

I just joined n I have met 4 men in person to lick my kitty with no drama so that's all I'm looking for nothing more so I'm good for now lol...


Conv3rsat1on06 59M
2 posts
3/10/2020 8:37 pm

Hope as we may for the site to improve, it seems to be getting worse. So I canceled my old hold account. IM never seems to work.


slaveyearning 42F
45 posts
3/10/2020 10:05 pm

ATTENTION ADVERTISERS !!!!!!!!!!!

this site is going down fast. if you pull your ads it will get attention


GrooveIt2nite 60M

3/11/2020 2:40 am

this site is what you make of it, if you know to talk to a woman without repeating the same shit she has already heard a million times.. your chances might be much better. My gosh it is not that hard to chat with a woman.. you make it hard. don't blame the site for your wrong doings


tsn4fun2 48M/46F  
257 posts
3/11/2020 3:32 am

    Quoting  :

Fortunate indeed. We are still trying.


johnm2475 47M

3/11/2020 6:45 am

well this is my 2 sense, 1- im and webcam hardly ever works as far as me broadcasting 2- 85% of the women on here are fake, bots, scammers, posers, wannabes 3- I believe the men, gays, lesbians, tg, tv, sm, etc are the only ones that seems to be real on here 4- the only woman that has interest in me are the ones overseas or that lives in the midwest or west coast 5- If you are a woman and wanting to screw and that is all a cock on here will for sure screw you, a woman will have no problem finding a man, 6- I believe a real genuine man cannot find a legit woman on here to have a decent conversation with and most of the women I run across on here are wanting marriage or a serious relationship in which there is nothing wrong with that but it will be hard to find on here for a woman, 7 -been on here for a few years only met one woman just for a bj and that is all 8- too expensive for not getting what you pay for half the crap on here does not even work


kinkymale4chatxx 55M
23 posts
3/11/2020 10:18 am

Has gotten worse over the years


3200Ram 42M
210 posts
3/11/2020 3:16 pm

this site more fake profile. fake female and couple profile.


middleeye 66M
1 post
3/11/2020 5:13 pm

if standard member cannot read the messages sent by paying members and respond why does anyone become a paying member?
Standard member have no incentive to be here. Give back the limited IM use!


welshspring2 49M
1 post
3/12/2020 1:14 am

It used to be so much more fun.


UrMan4Fun2020 41M

3/12/2020 4:47 am

New to the site. Any thoughts or advice.


1fatd4u2 50M

3/12/2020 11:50 am

At least give us back a cpl free chats a day


HalfBiCpl 65M/65F

3/12/2020 4:42 pm

Have been on and off here for over ten years! One used to be able to hook up here, chat with almost everyone you pinged meet and have a great time, now theirs nothing.. No one is real here anymore they troll you, lead you, then ghost you! If the points didn't maintain our membership we wouldn't be here anymore.. That's what this site is about anymore.. POINTS..


both_of_us2009 62M/F
50 posts
3/12/2020 7:33 pm

I have been on this site as a single male b4 my last message. That was 20 years ago this month. I met a few nice ladies. We had lots of good times. I married a young lady that I met locally. We joined as a couple. We met a few people in the beginning as a couple. Had better success outside of FriendFinder-x. With all of the changes and charges on the website it is anything like it was when I signed up a long time ago. Based upon that I would say that this website has had a decrease in value for what they charge.


doubledownRC 39M
23 posts
3/12/2020 8:28 pm

The fact that it is basically pointless for non-Gold members now is annoying to say the least.


LikestoolickU 44M
58 posts
3/13/2020 7:31 am

It appears to have a lot of issues. I contacted help. They sent me an e-mail, I replied to the e-mail and they told me to go through the help button. So, it’s a revolving door. Spend points on IM and either the recipient doesn’t get it or you get disconnected and it charges you to reconnect to your initial IM.

I also do not get any point from replying to blogs, messages, adding my pictures, ect, it’s frustrating.


aff301Maryland 37M

3/13/2020 7:54 am

    Quoting  :

hahaha This is the exact same vibe I get here. Like a laundry list of exclusions like a drug commercial.

I have had a few conversations, no actual meetups yet. Of the conversations I HAVE HAD, they all seem like lonely housewives that just want to talk but not actually want any action.

There has to be a better way/site.


6969whistledick 64M

3/13/2020 4:28 pm

I had fun years ago. I met some people from here. Now, I can't get a fucking response from any IM I send out. Now, I have not points left and of course I start getting incoming texts on here....This is s shit show.


kinglynch24 28M

3/13/2020 5:06 pm

I like looking at the picture and a couple of other things but the only people interested in you are fake scammers or cam girls which is a bit annoying wasting points on IM.


Chaosnov1969 54M
8 posts
3/13/2020 6:47 pm

Shit show.


1jazz2 64M
1 post
3/13/2020 7:48 pm

Basically you can't do shit here, unless you pay money for a gold account, to contact cam girl's, fake profile's or bot's. A free account gives you nothing at all. You can tell that the IM's you receive are BS. Just read what they say in their IM's. Miss spelled word's, incomplete sentence's, improper grammar, etc. I'v been a member off and on for year's and I don't know why I'm back. Seem's everything has gotten worse.


dig76301 65M  
126 posts
3/14/2020 12:07 am

It's really crazy. You never know what you will get for the day. One day you get dumped off of the cam, next day IM does work, or you cant see who's flirting with you. Always something. But what's really epis is when people get upset because they cant get there way, that's classic. We're supposed to be adults, now you can meet some amazing people, but the nuts are running the asylum. Good luck in everyone's search ( have some fun, I do. ) peace dig76301.


lokingforfun82 42M
206 posts
3/14/2020 2:08 am

Honestly, I'd say all of the above is how I've felt about this site over the years. Just depends on your point of view I guess and how you measure success.


johnt999x 62M
43 posts
3/14/2020 9:24 am

It just ok


finebime5050 63M  
12 posts
3/14/2020 11:03 am

Continuous issue from pages not loading to poor customer service has me thinking of cancelling membership. The latest issue I have experienced is the inability to view the larger member photos when they are available. After posing the question to customer "dis"service, all I get from them is the same run-around answers for all issues (clear cache, don't access site through a bookmark, etc.) Funny how I don't have the same issue from one of their other sites. They have never been able to diagnose a problem and really don't think they care to.
Also, the site will randomly go down without warning after logging in.
For those reasons, I don't think I will be renewing my membership.


Sirbodypleasure 49M
1 post
3/15/2020 3:27 am

I want to add that my most recent profile to this one was removed for "questionable billing practices" What bullshit. I wsn't billing anybody first of all. I was in hospital a year at that point. Lost my house, truck etc. Ruined me financially. A guy I had befriended across the hall from me was kind enough to put up his credit card for me the month of May 2019 and I paid him cash.
Membership came up June 1st, 2019 and I had just sent a payment of my own, not my friends CC. ALL OF A SUDDEN and without warning or explanation, I cannot log in. The automated system basically was asking, "who the fuck are you?" I started my current profile and investigated the problem which came back as I previously stated with this comment. "Your profile is banned until you settle up with your Financial Institution." nott only did my friend get May money from me, he also was returned the May 2019 payment from his credit card. They then took my June money and banned my profile. How nice. And I have stayed around? Well, I was getting along well with a couple of really cool people and dated a lady as a result for a short time and we remain friends.

We've all seen Lady Justice blindfolded and holding the scale of Justice in one hand. That scale is tipping heavily FriendFinder-x, and not in your favor....AT ALL. The shit is about to fall off of that scale unless you fix the IM and webcam problems, reinstate the points system the way it was. More incentives fopr us paying members to stay and for God's sake, when I tip a standard member in the IM to chat with me, that member sould have to use those points to chat with the member who tipped them that 15 points. Used to be 10, then 11 points mind you.

You can afford it Mr. FriendFinder-x or whoever you are. What could it possibly cost? $100,000.00-$200,000.00 per month? Yeah, you can afford it. Even if it costs a couple or three million a month. YOU CAN AFFORD IT. WE ARE PAYING FO IT< GIVE IT TO US. I refuse to say please.

Love and kisses,

Sirbodypleasure.


iwillravishu 59M
81 posts
3/23/2020 2:50 pm

When CL went down and those folks moved over here- it's been a bunch of hookers, liars, flakes and a lot of losers!


lokillo7412 49M
17 posts
3/27/2020 7:12 pm

I miss the 5 free IM messages a day. Then it changed to 3 messages a day. And now no more free IM messages.


IMaMagikman 38M
119 posts
4/4/2020 5:35 am

Clusterfuck. Perfect summary for the site. The people are both good and bad as with anything so no issue there. But the site admin and IT are not good to say it nicely.


bigbooblover831 41M

4/4/2020 6:27 am

I'm a relative new-comer to the FriendFinder-x online community. In my experience the userbase of the site is great. however, active members not so much. of the few women i have managed to speak to, they've been lovely. straight talking, open, genine women. the site admin is atrocious, theres so much wrong and so much can be improved.


circusmanfun 59M
4 posts
4/8/2020 1:06 pm

It's better than nothing, I've always been successful in here but the restrictions on free members are rediculous, not everyone can afford to be a paid member, they need to bring back the five free emails, it's not hurting their poctet book, probably just the opposite.


havingfun71563 102M

4/12/2020 8:03 am

Concept is good. Just way to many fake profiles


marcocaliente52 62M
81 posts
4/20/2020 1:37 pm

I like FriendFinder-x. But is veryu difficult being standar one.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/1/2020 12:40 am

If it's an honest answer you're looking for
This isn't the sort of place that I would
actually look for someone.
So far, posting my real age and current face photo
I never get accused of ulterior motives.
I haven't senior profile.

Using more than all the road!


SixfootthreeDGS 60M
28 posts
5/2/2020 10:17 pm

Almost HALF of the votes are for "this place sucks" effectively. That says a whole lot about peoples experiences here


sietepasos 48M
31 posts
5/3/2020 10:40 am

Aftermarket.


Twinker466 22M

5/4/2020 7:32 pm

Can't even view profile garbage


Scottjel316 53M
23 posts
5/11/2020 9:18 am

Site has gone down hill over the years alot more fake profiles now


Young7722 23M/23F

5/12/2020 2:37 pm

It's ok


ItsThtPervertGuy 44M
484 posts
5/16/2020 12:12 pm

I don't even know where to begin to talk about this site. site administration is a clusterfuck (actually worse) features are leaving while others are falling off. Quality of people have slipped but that is not the sites fault. But at times it does being back some of the good times and reminds me why I stay and joined in the first place. NEED TOO GET THERE STUFF TOGETHER!!


panther550m 40M
6 posts
5/20/2020 12:01 am

I'm not sure why I stay here either.

A few days ago I made a female account, free of course. While on one device with this account and the other account on another device I sent points from my gold account to the free and then an IM. The points arrived, the IM did not.

I then send a message from the paid account to the free account. It arrived, however when trying to open the message the typical sign-up-for-gold screen kept appearing although I pay for the standard contact add-on. No matter what I did the standard/free account could not read nor reply to my gold accounts message (with standard contacts add-on).

I'm paying for a Gold account to be contacted by fake profiles, paying extra on top of that for free members to be able to reply to me and message me which doesn't work. To be honest, another blog suggests trained monkeys are running the site; those monkeys would provide a better service. A 14 year old was once able to hack into the FBI, yet the Various, Inc. can run a website based on 30 year old code? That is both embarrassing to a technology inept person let alone web designers and shows complete carelessness from the site managers.

This place has become an experiment: how many features can be removed, how many fake profiles and how little actual members will it take until the men here will stop trying?


Calfitcouple 57M/57F
23 posts
5/26/2020 12:46 pm

useless if not gold member


A1LOVER2004 50M  
177 posts
4/21/2021 11:07 am

Its nothing like it use to be. Too many fake profiles, lames, internet "MODELS", influencers, spammers and lurkers. I used to find/meet 30-40 times a year even if it didn't result in sex. Now people don't even want to meet up for coffee or a drink let alone for sex. I use other means now but this place use to be HOT.


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