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so much for honesty  

wildwetnwaiting 59F
25 posts
12/27/2005 9:33 am

Last Read:
1/1/2021 5:53 am

so much for honesty


ok. . .I'm totally amused. . pissed off. . etc. I met this guy on FriendFinder-x and we seemed to really have a connection . . . ok, ok. . a connection online but a connection none the less. We had VERY hot phone sex that left us both wanting to meet each other immediately. Met for coffee the next morning and continued to enjoy each other. Several weeks of cyber, phone calls, etc and then we finally met in real life at my place. This is a man who is extremely charming, intelligent, conservative (a definite strike against him in my book, but someone who really listened to my views and respected them. He has a somewhat complicated family situation so insisted we met during the day. Loved his kisses and his touch.. . .but let's say the sex was less than satisfying for me. . . but he was definitely satisfied. We met a couple of other times and chatted on and off and then he dissappeared completely only to resurface about 2 weeks ago. Chatting on the phone to catch up, he was lamenting about life etc. and then told me he was confused because he and his "girlfriend" broke up. GIRLFRIEND?! I am totally not interested in getting involved with a man who is attached and he knew that. He also shared my bewilderment about attached men looking for playmates online. So. . .. how was he different? Ok.. . so today. . . we chat online (the first time since I heard about his girlfriend - who wants to have a baby with him, but he insists "girlfriend" is just a label! Interesting perspective!)and starts being sexually suggestive and then I ask about his girlfriend. He becomes somewhat defensive and asks if I think he was dishonest. . . HMMMMM, let me think YES!!!!!!!!!!! So after I told him that I think he is an intelligent and good man, who gets in his own way regarding being happy. . he tells me to have a good life! Ok, I know it's pretty naive to imagine anyone is telling the truth online. . but .. .

rm_goddess1946 113F
13513 posts
12/27/2005 9:49 am

the word is...........

[size3] NEXT

it is ..that simple.

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


MATCstudent2006 65M

6/23/2007 7:36 pm

Just move on, don't be so uptight about whether or not someone has a girlfriend or wife. Your obviously on here looking for sex, if not then this is the wrong place for you, and you should move to eHarmony or some other fluffy site. As far as I'm concerned and probably 8 out of 10 others here on FriendFinder-x that this site is designed for allowing people to hook up for Uninhibited Mind Blowing SEX., I'm OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!


fireboy6900 64M

7/27/2007 12:34 pm

That's too bad... it sucks to feel like you've been taken advantage of.... I admit I'm on here for the sex and fun, but I would never do it at another's expense. I hope things are turning around for you!


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