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Worth venturing out?  

KatiecuriousinWI 41F
17 posts
1/20/2020 7:45 am
Worth venturing out?


I've been married for 10 years. I have 2 and love my live. I love sex with my husband but have fantasized about being with a woman my whole life without actually experiencing it. I'm looking to "venturing out" but want to know if others have before me.

twink4u2use 45M
25 posts
1/20/2020 7:50 am

Many many others have! There are a ton of bi, bi-curious & closet-bi peeps on here....look around, i'm sure you'll find something you like.


Steveyoung22 29M

1/20/2020 7:56 am

yes you should.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
1/20/2020 8:08 am

Ask yourself what your husband would feel if he found out. If you know he would understand and it would not put any risk on your marriage, then you could move ahead. If you know that it could jeopardise things if he found out, keep it as a fantasy. This is a swinger site, but you are in a monogamous relationship - how would you react to the news that he was a closet bisexual or was enjoying a quiet FWB relationship? In your situation, infidelity is infidelity. Don't assume that you can keep it from your husband.


manerotiq 65M  
25 posts
1/20/2020 8:12 am

Yes you should. More times than not the first time woman leaves with an OMG experience!!


Kickjay63687 41M
65 posts
1/20/2020 8:30 am

Wow


Piper3654K 53M
141 posts
1/20/2020 8:37 am

I'm kind of with Raven above. With permission it could be a great experience. Without permission, even if he never finds out, you'll live with guilt that could spoil an otherwise fantastic time.

Have a conversation with him if you're comfortable enough. You may be surprised or even shocked at how he may react. I had a previous gf come to me with a similar proposal and our sex life together got even better after she explored a little bit. Being honest with your partner rarely results in bad things.


CKO2019 49M/50F

1/20/2020 9:35 am

I say have the homes conversation with him it may open each other eyes up to a whole new level or respect and sexual enjoyment with it


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
1/20/2020 3:21 pm

Most that Ive talked to were glad they tried it to answer their couriosity! And liked it too! Your husband would give anything for the opportunity to watch you with another woman! Trust me!!


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
1/20/2020 3:22 pm

I think you need to pay attention to Raven and assess what you have now and what both of you will lose if the communication doesnt happen before you "venture out"

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