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How To Tell If The Guy Who Messaged You Is Hot  

sexijayrr 46F
64 posts
3/23/2021 9:29 am
How To Tell If The Guy Who Messaged You Is Hot


I've gotten alot of messages from guys on dating sites over the past few years. As a female who wants NSA FWB, I get tons of messages, so many ivI like to think of myself as a little bit of an expert in reading the guy, on their very first message. For example, I can always tell who the hot guys are vs. guys that might not get as much pussy as they might want.

We all know in life there are the hot guys and the not so hot guys. Men have it much better than woman though. They don't necessarily have to be attractive to be considered sexy, although, it does them to, not only get pussy, but to get it often and to get the pussy they want.

Guys that aren't used to getting pussy, or just not always getting enough or the pussy they want, will usually message in a very descriptive and lengthy first message, detailing all their positive traits in a convincing manner as to persuade my liking towards them.

Hot guys....they just say things like..."hey" or "whats up" that's it. There isn't anything else backing it up. To them thats enough , they never had to say much more than that to get woman to want them.

So in the cases where the profile pic is difficult to make out their appearance, I always scroll through my messages looking for those one worded messages.

sarasotaswm 61M
139 posts
4/1/2021 6:55 pm

 I suppose if you're looking for a hard dick with no brains, 'Sup' would be a perfectly acceptable first message.

Or maybe 'How you doin'. (then, I may have watched too much TV in the 90's)

Then again, as a rule, the 'hot' guys are more interested in what you can do for them, than what they can do for you. They are more interested in their own orgasm than yours. And probably don't give a rat's ass about giving you multiple ones.

Something to consider, moving forward, is that the guys who make an effort in their initial contact are the same guys who will make an effort if you decide to throw something their way. Just sayin'.

Then again, I may be biased, as I have never considered myself to be 'hot'


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