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Let’s Talk About Sex Part II....  

DeliciousDee54 58F
33 posts
2/16/2020 9:17 pm
Let’s Talk About Sex Part II....


....oral, anal, and hygiene. I chose to group these three together because all three have commonality.

Oral sex can be amazing when done with the right partner. For her, oral orgasms are different then intercourse orgasms, I think. When a man loves to give oral he has no problem staying down south for as long as it takes until you orgasm. He knows what to do with his tongue, mouth, and fingers. If the plan is just to get you started, he should still know what he is doing. Basically, if a man says he loves to give oral and is good at it, then a woman should orgasm. Keep in mind that all women are different. Some take longer to reach the peak. Now for men who are okay with oral or not really into giving oral then maybe you shouldn’t be down in the south area poking around. Jabbing clumsily, not really knowing what to do with your tongue. But keep this in mind, if you are not willing to give oral, then don’t expect oral. Ladies, be smart get pleasure before you give pleasure.

For him, I think it is a combination of all different hand, mouth, and tongue movements. The tip is the most sensitive. However, don’t forget about his balls and just below is balls. Some men like the finger in the butt and some women don’t mind doing this move. There is the small ‘v’ on the underside of the tip that can feel good when rubbed. Don’t forget the favorite move of deep throating. For most women either you enjoy giving oral or you don’t.

Now for both parties, HYGIENE is very important all around. Always take care of your privates. Believe it or not, what you eat makes a huge difference. Eating healthy keeps the male smelling and tasting (if you swallow) on the plus side of enjoyment. Same goes for women. It doesn’t matter if your partner is your spouse or a playmate, one should always want to shower and be fresh before sex. Brush teeth and tongue, floss. Make sure your nails are clean and for men, trimmed. When you look and smell good you feel good. Which brings good vibes. As far as keeping your privates shaved, trimmed, or natural, is a personal preference.

Anal sex. Either you like it or you don’t. With that said, ladies if you like anal sex, always have him wear a condom. Why? Because medical research states you should never have vagina sex or oral sex after anal sex. Again.....why? First, think of what comes out of your anus. Feces/ fecal matter, etc. The vagina has a delicate balance of good bacteria that helps keep the vagina naturally cleansed. By having vaginal sex and/or oral sex after anal sex causes infections. Research it for yourself.

No matter what you like always be safe and practice good hygiene.

justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
2/16/2020 11:27 pm

Sage advice!

Like you, I cannot overemphasize good hygiene; it opens so many doors, literally and figuratively. Given that we often cannot control our schedules and locations well enough to get a shower in just before a meet-up, I have made a shower together a mainstay of our foreplay. I can think of no better preamble for the delights to follow.

I have found that in addition to patience and endurance, the key to toe-curling oral is communication- providing uninhibited guidance and listening/following through. I always ask *permission* (a formality to be sure, but one that I believe is appreciated) and offer a reminder to "don't be shy about asking for what you want". What worked last time may not be what is desired in this moment. It's a team effort!

Anal sex has requirements that are every bit as complex as you describe. For that reason, I leave it entirely as a woman's prerogative. It is best pursued with pre-planning and preparation....not on a whimsy. As such, reserved for long-time lovers.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/17/2020 2:50 am

I took notes... although, I didn't really need to. 👍💦🔥❗😎


tomhere5 62M

2/19/2020 5:26 am

Pleasuring a woman orally is the best!!


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