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Blogs > Eviloutlaw1 > A rather special night

Ok, so I did go out last night after all.......................  

Eviloutlaw1 62M
4429 posts
7/9/2006 7:09 am

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7/9/2006 8:13 pm
Ok, so I did go out last night after all.......................

Went over to the "Club" Had a lovely time watching a movie while sitting at the bar. The sound was off but it didn't matter I'd seen it before and they had the captioning on as well.

A couple of looks from the ladies.. one who insisted on getting off her stool, which was three away from where I was sitting, only to come over and stand close to me to order her drink. Think that was an overt pass? I dun know? I'm a closet dullard. She never said anything..apart from ordering her drink, so I assumed her ass was tired from sitting? Maybe she was waiting for me to break the ice? Pay for her drink? Well, a friendly hello would have been a clue if she was waiting for me to start a conversation. As for paying for a ladies drink..I have no problems doing that..but like I said..a hello would have been nice if she expected that..and with drinks at club prices..not like she couldn't afford to pay for her own. The second woman was a bit more forward..asking if I minded if she squeezed in next to me...No my dear...by all means! We chatted a bit..but being late and crowded from the late night bar hoppers, it never got from the hi's and nice to meet you stage. Next thing I knew a line backer type was chatting her up. Ah well..back to watching the movie for me.

Hard to meet someone at a bar, the noise..the crowds..bit of a gamble just to see if there's anyone in the place that you'd think would be interested in you as well. Then there is the problem of..well is she with someone? If it's a girlfriend, are they there for a girls night out? Never was one to divide and conquer, or if she's with a male date, horn in on a guy ..seems too snake like.

I don't know, how do you go about being with some one when you can't meet her in the first place? Where do you start?

glidecc 49M  
1224 posts
7/9/2006 9:34 am

 Bars are pretty overrated as far as meeting people goes.

I've met some women in bars but it was usually in smaller places on a more quiet night.


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