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Why is it...............
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Why is it............... Why is it that we hold people up to higher standards then we hold ourselves? We joined a site like FriendFinder-x to connect with like minded people such as ourselves. But then we pigeonhole, or ignore the people just like us for the sake of some set parameters that normal every day folks couldn't live up too. People looking for that surreal wet dream fantasy. A Greek god, or that perfect lady who's 5'2'' and has eyes of blue. Real people aren't like that, and if your lucky enough to be like that, then congratulations! Men, women, and couples, some with very cut in stone rules on who they'll meet, and where. Fail to acknowledge an email. Even if they sent a reply as "no thank you not interested" would be enough. Let's face it, we're all different.We all look for our ideal match. But it's the differences that make us truly special and unique. We all should take a second , and third look at those folks that contact us. For behind that small flaw that doesn't fit in with our ideal match may just be the friend, or friends that we have been looking for. |
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4/29/2007 7:10 am |
I understand where your coming from Evil. I think if you start putting specific attributes on people you looking for, you are asking for unrealistic expectations. I believe a lot of folks feel they are watching out for there own interest this way, in other words protecting themselves from disappointment or harm. I will admit that I would want to call the shots on when and where and have some control over the situation (who could blame a girl after all). But as far as the physical aspects, some people are on here to fulfill a fantasy however unrealistic. Go figure 2
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