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Has Time Passed AFF By ???  

preferblondes3 60M/56F
3 posts
3/6/2020 4:17 pm
Has Time Passed AFF By ???

Well I used to really enjoy the online adult single websites. But people are so far apart on here... and my small area has a limited number of people I would want to know. You know... it's not just fuck and suck. I want disease free, thinking functioning human beings. I really hate the dic pic profiles. And the ones where the profile is NOT filled out at all... nothing about the people. Just body stats.

I need more. I need intimacy and kissing and fondling and drinking and a few date type adventures. I do not need a woman or man showing up at my front door wanting to cross the threshold and just fuck.

That is the same as a woman getting into bed and getting no foreplay at all... just getting jambed with a dick by some mindless idiot without the IQ to hold a decent conversation.

And dates are not just a chance for chicks to pick up an easy lobster dinner. Or a movie and McDonalds. It is supposed to be about people getting to know each other better. Not because you want necessarily any kind of long term relationship... but Jeeze... you are human beings with a lot more going on than just a body. There is a mind with a complex series of emotions and a spirit... you know... the being and thing you are that make you you.

So... FriendFinder-x has mechanically changed over time. Software has improved, there are more "features" to contact other people... but something is desperately missing. Something I just can't put my finger on. And I am really tired of looking at pictures and watching people from Columbia pimping for points.

I don't know. Maybe I have grown out of all this. Its not like I have had much action here in the woods. You know... people really DON'T come online and hook up. It's not a Playboy nation. Its more of a social media facebook tease and put out a one liner nation. Its hard when you narrow it down to age, sex, body weight, marriage status, disease status. Because you really do eliminate almost everybody else in an area... unless you live in New York City or Los Angeles.

And most people in my / your category are already taken. Really. A lot of people are mostly coupled up and or married already. So a large majority of an area is NOT single. So you are left with a few single candidates in an area who are more or less looking for what you are looking for. I have had some solicitations from area people... but the ones who have been doing this for years and had hundreds of partners... just gives me the creeps to think of how many germs and diseases they have passed by stepped into or gotten rid of in the last decade or two.

So am I looking for a virgin, young, vulnerable, teachable, open minded, good looking, intelligent, flexible, in shape, willing to explore and learn? Isn't everybody? Aren't we all? I mean, who IS looking for people who have had hundreds of sex partners, is over 75, hardened by time, unteachable, close minded, ugly, stupid, inflexible, out of shape, unwilling to explore or learn? Nobody that I know. And it ain't the mileage on the car. Its the condition that the car is in. How well it was taken care of and driven. It's not age per se... because there are some hot looking senior citizens. But on average, most people don't take care of their temples.

A woman with a tight vagina who is disease free is good to find at any age, height, weight, preferences, shape, etc. I am saying give me a woman with a tight vagina who is overweight and 60 years old who has some class and has been with very few men in her life over a 25 year old with a huge vagina who is in shape who has no class, smokes cigarettes, and has been with everybody in the area with a penis.

Just saying.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
3/7/2020 12:48 pm

Another interesting perspective. I am of the thinking that there is always hope. Hope here and hope on those err other mainstream sites. Keep hope alive until we are no longer alive.

I agree , anyone of advancing age has some baggage....and its a daunting thought to think of the sexual baggage one brings to the table. BUT, there are a few of us...who havent been around, who have been attached for ever and now are in need of another attachment to grow gently older with. There must be other like minded souls somewhere out there ~~


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