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Communication is Key!  

Luv2nitewithU 25M
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3/17/2020 1:19 pm
Communication is Key!


It is my firm belief that if your communication with someone is not accurate and consistently misunderstood, the relationship will fail. This applies in all aspects of any person to person relationship, whether it'd be intimate or not. I find this to be one of the bigger struggles when trying to meet new people here. When you're having a back and forth conversation on here, it's just words in a room. You have no idea what emotion or intent the other person has when messaging you. There's no tone of voice behind that to create any certain vibe among the two of you. And because of that you naturally begin to assume what it is that they mean and not think about it, and it isn't until later on down the line does that person's true colors show and realize that you may have made a mistake talking with this person. Which then leads back to what I think you should do to avoid this lack of communication:

BE 100% YOU!
I cannot stress enough the importance of how everything in your profile has to be absolutely and entirely you. Don't start going off on details that really aren't who you are. Because someone might be interested in you and ask you about it and then you begin to reply in ways that start to show the cracks in your original statement. And now you've shown that you can't be trusted when maybe that small detail was indeed partially true, but now through a intercommunicated , it's been all twisted so be completely YOU.

It can be difficult sometimes especially when lust takes over the brain and makes you wanna say all kinds of<b> weird </font></b>shit. Hell, even I still struggle and am changing my profile constantly because and still trying to figure my way on here, but I think getting better it.

Well these are just some thoughts that go through my brain from time to time and just wanted to post it somewhere. Please let me know your thoughts on it at all, gonna try and start replying to comments if I have time to.

THANK YOU FOR READING THIS

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