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I adore and appreciate women  

Harry777782 57M   
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4/8/2020 1:27 pm
I adore and appreciate women


I adore and appreciate women, and love connecting first through our minds, then through our emotions, and then physically. I love an encounter where both are well attuned the other's actions and reactions. I love pleasuring a partner, and receiving pleasure especially one sensitive your needs in the moment. I love an encounter in which we are lost in the moment, in each other.

Though I love diversity, creativity and exploring new territory, my favorite encounter remains one that starts hours before you're together in bed. It starts with setting the stage with a bit of excitement, a little mystery mixed in with some pleasant surprises. It includes setting the stage with anticipation that grips you well before you even ready yourself to go out. The anticipation starts to really gel during prep time. It spurs you to look your best, smell your best, and feel your best.

It gains tremendous momentum if upon meeting up your minds "click", interacting in clever, humorous, unscripted ways, like an unexpected excellent dance partner, anticipating and reacting to your partner's moves in a well timed give and take. It involves coincidences. It involves subtle teases, maybe a little sarcasm, wit and truly intelligent conversation. It certainly involves seeing your date as someone your equal or better in ways that surprise and delight. It just works.

It usually involves time in transit to a restaurant, then a sensual meal with a great bottle of wine. As the meal wraps up the anticipation grows, and one thinks to themselves I've had a great time with this wonderful companion who is beautiful on many levels--you've now felt their emotional identity and appreciate their intellect, both of which you find attractive and sexy. Now, you get to explore their body, and share yours with them coming together in the moment.

I like starting slow, delicately touching, including gentle kisses and caresses, brushing a butt or a breast. The way you undress is important. I like undressing the other and being undressed. And, eye contact is so important. Noticing and appreciating the little things is sexy. If someone spent time and money to pick out and wear what they thought were sexy lingerie, acknowledge and appreciate it. Stimulate their mind and emotions with awareness, compliments and wit while going slow to build up a little sexual tension. I love caressing the feet, first kissing slightly inside the thigh and teasing the genital area, bypassing them for the belly softly and gently kissing my way to the breasts, giving a little, quick suck on a nipple on my way to the neck and behind the ears. I like stretching the foreplay out for as long as it is pleasurable.

Then I'll engage the mouth, but with soft, gentle kisses, and make my way down to her pussy by way of the belly. Again, soft and slow and gentle I'll lick and kiss and suck the surface of the clitoral region. This can go on for as long as my partner is getting hotter and wetter. Ideally she'll cum. But I like resisting a little if I hear "I want you inside me now". It feels even better if they have to say it a few times or beg you to get inside them.

Again, gentle and slow to start, being especially aware of your partner's reactions. Then increasing the energy a bit at a time. And, it is an art to creating and managing the sexual tension evolving it from low energy to high. With some partners slow and deliberate is what feels best. In others, fast, hard penetration from behind is what they crave, but being aware of how your partner's body reacts is key to great sex. Hopefully she cums, but not all do. Then hopefully you do. Snuggling might follow, but not all are snugglers. A robe and a cigarette on the balcony might be more their style, with a scotch neat.

You're in bonus time if you can get a few more sessions in and drift off to sleep rather spent. And, that is my favorite kind of sex.

I am a very educated single man with multiple graduate degrees. I'm smarter than the average bear, and can discuss a broad variety of topics. I find human behavior fascinating. I mainly eat plant based foods, work out everyday, and sleep much better with someone next to me. I'm divorced. My are adults. I love to travel. I love to fly fish. Mexico me encanta. I speak Spanish. I've been successful.

I'm looking for a great lady who is intelligent, clever, smart, uninhibited, creative, and confident, who wants a relationship with and appreciates being with an older man, though I'm a pretty young older guy, or she is a lady to whom age isn't that important. Most relationships won't last that long-- its called dating. But, if I'm lucky I'll find a great lady with whom I can spend a lot of time, explore or world and have a lot of great evenings.

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