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Blogs > Koklhr > Tales and thoughts of a bi man

Not That Active Anymore  

Koklhr 72M
55 posts
5/22/2020 10:23 am
Not That Active Anymore

I enjoy visiting this site as well as others. I get turned on looking at all the hot men and women. For me it's mostly about fantasizing rather than actually meeting up anymore. Don't get me wrong I'm still actively seeking out partners for playtime. But due age, health and being quite picky I rarely meet anyone. Maybe a couple times of year I meet someone for nsa sex.

be honest with myself few if any of my encounters have been satisfactory. It seems they never live up to my expectations. There's been a lot of trial and error. Experimentation. Sometimes I ask myself "Why am I doing this?" What is it that I'm looking for? I would like to find a guy that needs his cock sucked on a regular basis. I'd also like to find a guy to top me once in awhile. Problem is too many married men cheating on their wives.

I'd like to find a woman again but my confidence has been lacking due to erectile dysfunction. I should be ashamed of myself for doubting that all I have to offer is a limp coc Lesbians have no problem pleasuring their partners with kissing, licking , toys and intimacy. For now It's all a pipe dream. One that may never come true again.

Oh well at least it's safer this way. No contact mans no STDs.

Koklhr 72M

5/22/2020 10:24 am

 No matter who you meet up with there's always a risk.


MonsterCacti 39M
Ask me for a photo

5/22/2020 12:03 pm

 This site sucks no ever meets before during or after the pandemic


sexual692012 70M
Ask me for a photo
127 posts
5/22/2020 12:05 pm

 Remember it is the journey, not the destination you enjoy!!


jajo696 113F
Ask me for a photo
4287 posts
5/23/2020 2:01 am

 I think all of us of a certain age are being cautious .....and even moreso in this age of sequester.

In general , the site is what one makes of it, as we are all here for differing reasons. The energy that we put in ( or not ) is returned to us...just like in life.

As long as you are cool with your stance...so be it. When you are tired and feel its time for a change , you will change. As the saying goes: If we want something different, we will do something different.

I wish you well in your journey ~~


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
6/15/2020 9:38 am

 Read profiles and continue being honest, surely there are women who do not require penetration for satisfaction. With pandemic not many are meeting.


Koklhr 72M

6/18/2020 3:10 am
    Quoting 1seeking1:
    Read profiles and continue being honest, surely there are women who do not require penetration for satisfaction. With pandemic not many are meeting.
Thanks one. I'll keep looking.


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