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Seeing your BF/GF in the time of Corona
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Seeing your BF/GF in the time of Corona The question is... do we not get together until we have a vaccine for the virus? For 18 months? My partner seems to feel that way, and so do a lot of people in the dating arena. My live-in partner accepts that whatever we have (flus and colds included) we end up sharing. My partner that lives an hour away felt that way until this coronavirus reared its head. He no longer agrees. If I understand correctly, to him, since we're not in the same household, we have to practice social distancing with one another. But that doesn't make sense to me. I don't think there should be a great difference in how he and I interact because of this pandemic. With our coworkers, yes. Walking down the street with strangers, yes. In stores, yes. We have to be careful and try to protect one another. But within any family unit, or any living unit, like roommates, don't you stay together... unless and until you know 1 person has the virus and then they self-quarantine? Or else you self-quarantine as a group? Isn't that reasonable? You don't kick your out. You don't make your spouse get a separate house. You and your roommates don't each move out into 1 BR apartments to make sure you don't get the virus. So why should he and I have to stay separate? What do you all think? |
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1 post 4/15/2020 11:55 am |
Poly folks have been here already. We developed the concept and practice, dare I say the covenant for fluid bonding. Quite a few of the poly people I know are very comfortable with the idea that we can be fluid bonded with a partner and that means they and we can still play safely, but carefully. The meme of fluid bonding is part of the adaptive response to the last great plague, AIDS. Along with lots of useful memes for safer sex, including PREP. But condoms and super attention to details are for more difficult for this kind of virus and it is difficult to have much sexual contact and be safe. Suits, masks, gloves, condoms and barriers would certainly help. It does beg for new covid porn with people in full body protection gear having sex. For that matter, us kinky types could initiate new forms of distance masturbation rituals or sex play. In safe spaces we could be public, but not closer than 25 feet, say, except for fluid bonded groups. I am sure someone has had their sub come by to masturbate outside the windows or patio doors for their amusement and training. All that said, you do need to give in to your main squeeze on this one, this time. Be well
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