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Anger on this site - be careful
Anger on this site - be careful It's probably just my bad luck, but I seem to have introduced myself to people with anger issues. I'm not on this site to engage with angry people or their issues of anger - that will get the person blocked and I'm satisfied with that. Here's what I'm talking about: 1st scenario: Person: "I see you were looking at my profile." Me: "Yes, I was. I'm a brand new subscriber to this site and I'm trying to figure out all of the bells & whistles." Person: "Maybe this site isn't for you." Me: "Well, I know I can be a little slow in learning new technology, but I've only been a member of this site for 2 days. Do you have another site that you would recommend?" Person: "What, I'm not good enough for you? Here's a recommendation for another site, www.gofuckyourself.com BLOCKED 2nd scenario: Me: "Hi there, Your profile caught my attention and I thought that I would introduce myself and say hello. I live in the south Willamette Valley near Lebanon, so I'm not right next door. I hope you are staying safe during this historic time. We're all in this together." Buddy Person: "Hello there. I do like your profile. But one thing rather gets me" Note - this is a lead to get me to respond ..... Me: "What is it that "gets you" ? Person: "No DRAMA no HANGUPS??? I am truly surprised to find someone my age that thinks that is possible. I was just born this second so I have neither of those. But by the time you read this someone somehow is going to start the tapes in my brain. I am just surprised and saddened by that. Sex site or not I still have hope there is a good man for me someday" Note - a lot of anger and sarcasm, this person wants to engage in conflict Me: "I hope you find the person you are looking for. Stay safe. Buddy" Person: "Lol lol you can’t answer. I really wanted to know. Was not being rude or anything. I don’t wanna love you I just want to know the answer" Note - more bait to further the conflict, I didn't bite BLOCKED I'm not on this site to engage with anger issues. That's what therapists are for. |
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