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How to spot a suspected chatbot  

Augiesdad 72M
21 posts
5/18/2020 6:56 am
How to spot a suspected chatbot


Do you suspect that the beautiful woman who is chatting with you is actually a chatbot?
How can you tell?

First you have to understand how chatbots work. It's not difficult, but as programs get more complex, and with the introduction of AI into the mix, it can be confusing. A chatbot is simply a program that reads keywords from your post, and responds to those keywords. There are other levels to how they operate, but at their core, that's all they are, Basically an if/then algorithm.

First off, and my biggest clue that I am dealing with a chatbot: That 'woman' who's profile shows they are from an area that I am familiar with has a difficult time referring anything in the area. ie ask what their favorite restaurant in the area is, or where they like to go on a date in the area. A BOT might have location software built into it, but unlikely as those are more expensive and cost much more to produce and programing all the local sites and restaurants etc. into is is highly unlikely.

My second tactic in exposing a bot: A Bot will try to keep YOU talking about yourself while revealing little about themselves. A bot is programed to keep YOU talking and when you pose a question to them, they will respond by trying to get the conversation back to YOU! This can be a bit harder to spot, as everybody likes to talk about themselves and what they desire, but if you persist in trying to get them to talk about themselves, and all you get back is a generic, and not specific response chances are you are dealing with a bot. Example:
YOU: Tell me about yourself"
BOT: "I like cooking, meeting new people, and traveling" (sound familiar?)
YOU: "really! Me too, what is your signature meal?"
A Bot is not programmed well enough to give you a straight answer on a question like that, so they will revert back to default and attempt to<b> switch </font></b>the conversation to YOU again, maybe by replying " I like to go out" or "Tell me about yourself" or "what positions do you prefer". Or they will just end the conversation.
You will rarely ever be able to keep up a conversation about 'her' if it is a bot.

Another clue: A Bot has NO sense of humor and hickup when you use sarcasm.

Many more ways to spot a bot. As they grow more sophisticated, it will be more difficult to trip them up and expose them. But those require much more programing time and are more expensive to purchase. And yes, there are MANY companies that make bots either custom or off the shelf for the consumers. Do a google search on Bots and the list of companies that create them is extensive.

I was on some other dating sites for a short while, Fling and MaturesforFuck, and both of those where saturated with Bots. I quit them after only a month due to the fact that I HATE being played!

Stuffedshirt4U 62M
95 posts
5/19/2020 7:31 am

LOL two things, first you seem to be looking at sites geared for getting men to log in via the promise of an easy fuck. Second, those sites, just like this one, are the easiest place for scammers as they know men are absolutely fucking stupid when it comes to sex. That is like putting a fox in a chicken house for them. Too many men want to believe hot babes want their dick so it is easy pickings for them. Lastly, you are obsessing over this as your blogs are about them and nothing else. You may actually be chasing any real women away from you with it. You look bitter that you can't get some easy pussy right now dude. I am just saying if you hate being played don't go somewhere that is geared towards that crap. If you are there, like here, expect it and then block, delete, report and move on.


Augiesdad 72M

5/19/2020 10:17 am

You miss the point. It is the SITE MANAGERS that create or buy and use the bots to fool prospective customers into thinking there are more women on this site (and others like it) than there really are. Think about that for a second before you judge me. YOU are on this site as well! And I do NOT think you are here to discuss politics or art. If you are happy being conned, fine. I am just exposing it for what it is. FriendFinder-x made 131 MILLION dollars last year, and they didn't make that by being honest with their customers, they made it by fooling men into believing that yes indeed there are dozens of horny women right down the street. Bots are one way of perpetuating that illusion. I joined out of curiosity, and yes I want to get laid, don't you?


Stuffedshirt4U 62M
95 posts
5/20/2020 1:13 am

LOL I am not being conned. I didn't join a site named MaturesforFuck!! That is what I am talking about. Anyone that would think a site with THAT name on it is real has got to be begging to be taken advantage of. I didn't judge you at all, I stated a fact. I am fully aware that there are not 'dozens' of women in my area just waiting to fuck me. Anyone that would believe that would be a fool either. No, I actually did not join this site looking for an easy fuck at all. I joined the site because I like interacting with people that enjoy being open about things. I have met a few people and they were quite real and I got exactly what I came here for and expected. I think it is unrealistic to think you can log into a site, especially one that has the word fuck in the title expecting to get an easy fuck with no effort put into it. I didn't come here looking for the love of my life and I didn't come here with unrealistic expectations. I am a bit more up on things than that. The site can't promise something to people if they are not employees of the site and the members here, just like me, are not employed by the site, so they can't promise anyone I will do something because I am here. I am sure they have bots, but I was aware of it and I avoid anything that looks too good to be true and haven't had a problem. Common sense would dictate one doesn't get online, sign up, and pussy just walks up to you and says take me no matter what the site says. That is outrageously unrealistic.


Augiesdad replies on 5/20/2020 4:33 am:
I'm simply pointing out ways to intelligently identify the bots. If that upsets you, so be it. Like I said, I joined this and other sites out of curiosity. Getting all huffy about the people who have unrealistic expectations of getting laid is your right, but you have to admit that it is the major reason so many men join these sites, and pay their membership fees. Those same paying customers would NOT re-up if they had few actual communications with women, so what is a company to do to keep the illusion (and money) going? Chatbots fill the void. Yes there are many REAL people here, and not all chats are by bots, nobody is claiming that.

Stuffedshirt4U 62M
95 posts
5/20/2020 11:23 am

I have no clue why you think I am upset. WTF dude, get a grip. I just think anyone going to a site that is called MaturesforFuck is asking to be ripped off. I get that sex is the main reason most men sign up, but most men are not so fucking ignorant as to believe a site called MaturesforFuck!! If I was as (had to say it) upset as you are about it, why the fuck are you here then? Just to be the town crier? LOL I am not whining about it. I take it for what it is and realize the stupidity on here and the scammers that are here too. I just avoid them and go on my merry way, which is what you should do seriously. Block and delete, next!! LOL


Augiesdad replies on 5/20/2020 1:53 pm:
Curiosity, I repeat, curiosity is NOT stupid, we can argue all day long about whether or not it's intelligent to investigate. I'm just pointing out the results of what I have found. Maybe others will learn from that investigation. Yes, you are smarter than the suckers, got it.

Stuffedshirt4U 62M
95 posts
5/22/2020 6:41 am

ROFLMAO I guess that means you didn't ever hear that curiosity is what killed the cat. Yes, it can be stupid especially when it is obvious. I don't need anyone to tell me that hmmmm if I put my hand in that fire will it hurt?? Let's see (shoves hand in fire and gets burnt). THAT is stupid just like going to a site named MaturesforFuck and thinking Hmmm I wonder if this is real? Who thinks there is a place full of bodacious babes just waiting to service ANY guy that logs in with sex and blow jobs and you don't have to do anything to get it?? THAT is stupid not curiosity. Sometimes the sign on the door says it all and common sense should show curiosity is stupid. What is it the comedian says??? HERE'S YOUR SIGN!!


Stuffedshirt4U 62M
95 posts
5/22/2020 6:44 am

Maybe, just maybe someone will see what I am writing and learn from common sense. lol I can't stop laughing honestly. This so called investigation reminds me of all those stupid things they did in school under the guise of drunken gold fish investigations.


Augiesdad replies on 5/23/2020 8:45 am:
The POINT of the Blog is education about bots. NOT about how many dumb people exist in the world, or what is a smart choice or not a smart choice. Your desire to prove to the world that YOU are smarter than the rest of the world is IRRELEVANT to the discussion of BOTS and how sites use them to entice people to pay money to keep the membership rolling in. Whether people are dumb to go to those sites is another subject entirely.

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