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Finding someone that fits either is difficult. Finding both in one person even harder. Not advocating for or justifying such a trade, just recognizing that many get tired of waiting. Welcome to the blogs.  “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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Would definitely make sense to find both in one person. Let me know how you're making out with that. Love is much rarer than sexual compatibility and the latter can be conditioned. We rarely 'learn' to love someone.
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Unfortunately darling people have forgotten what love is. Today most don't know the difference between having casual sex, and making love. Too many settle for what ever comes their way, just so they aren't lonely, or seek sexual partners in hopes of fulfilling their desires for passion. Though a passionate, romantic soul can never be fully satisfied with a meaningless sexual encounter. So off they go one after another, after another, seeking fulfillment anywhere they can to a point so many are today, and I fear more will follow. If only they could experience the anticipation of waiting for days, even weeks, to receive a return letter from a sweetheart, one ìn which the sender took their time in carefully composing, so his/her sweetie not only read their words, but felt them, seeing the time taken to perfectly curve each letter, or dotting the I with a heart, more of a story than a letter, or messages of today. Only thinking with our desires only leads to disappointment. If only tn e generation's to come could have Etta James, Dorothy Moore, Sam Cook, Leela James "Love me some Leela"Percy Sledge, or Anthony Hamilton to teach sex ed in school, I believe the future of passion, romance and love would flourish.
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Love is life's greatest & most elusive treasure which unfortunately many never really get to experience. Don't think love can be traded for anything as that is simply not something you can negotiate. Your dignity can be bartered but that is another issue. Sex is sex & has it's own complexities yet sex & love often don't mix well for some. I know you think this is maybe generalising gobbledegook yet I'm sticking with my assertions. Now Alex can I have.." What A Load Of Old Rubbish " For $100 please.
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6/15/2020 6:58 am |
I would never trade just sex for love! Become an Apollorising58 watcher!
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Love is the answer, but while you're waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions. Looking for Mischief
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If i meet someone over drinks, we're not exclusive since we just met. it's casual. Let's say a few weeks or months pass and we decide we have feelings that might be real. And, even longer before we feel like we might have actually fallen in love. That's months & months without having sex. Say you end things for whatever reason 7 months in & meet someone else... that's like a 14 month dry spell until you have sex with the 2nd person. Granted I'm using really rough math but hopefully the logic makes sense. I've been in sexless relationships & vowed it'll never ever happen again...fuck buddies can be fun from time to time, FWBs are a lot more fun over time. "The ONE" got away from me a while back & we met as fuck buddies with mutual free times. About 5 months later we had "the talk" & were together for about 3 years. Meeting as fuck buddies kept both of us from a 5 month dry spell until we fessed up with what we felt. "The talk" was probably the most scary thing I ever had to initiate. True story BTW. Why? Sex is fun. Swing clubs are fun. Toys are fun. Tantra is even more fun. Satisfying an oral fixation is fun... I could go on & on & on. ~Lotsa
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Life is odd and add in money or sex and it gets even stranger.👍
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5/5/2021 11:06 pm |
YES
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