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Can a man love a freak???  

Goodnessgodess 53F
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141 posts
8/1/2020 9:45 pm
Can a man love a freak???

She has it all. Educated, career, home, car BUT she's a freak. She's open 3somes (mmf or ffm), pegging, etc., The catch twenty two is, she wants a monogamous relationship. Could you love a woman like this? Would you be willing have this kind of sex life?

mc_justmc 63M

8/2/2020 8:33 am

 I've been looking for a woman like that! Tell her to call me! I can do straight monogamous as well.


Goodnessgodess replies on 8/2/2020 9:45 am:
LOL.

boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
8/2/2020 11:14 am

 Not too much to ask for!!!


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
8/3/2020 12:44 am

 Outsized sexual appetites are certainly not a *catch-22* for me. The key would be communication and some patience as I try and keep up.


Tryingagain9998 39M
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8/5/2020 1:48 pm

 If the man is a freak to, its a match made in heaven.


Lotsa69s 55M  
160 posts
8/16/2020 9:20 pm

 There is no doubt in my mind!! I share well & I'm not very vanilla either. I've met all sorts of couples with all sorts of unique rules for their situation & they'd never consider splitting up.

Few that I've met:

1. If your partner has an over the top sex drive, you have a minimal sex drive, but know you 2 are perfect in all other ways... What then? Is it a 1 side open marriage that makes it work so both of you have whatever the right amount of sex is? Or is the relationship doomed, even though it's perfect in all other ways. I know some of these couples & it wasn't until I really got to know them that I began to see how it just works for them.

2. Let's say your spouse has a terminal illness. I met 1/2 of a couple & the husband described that his wife picks his girlfriends out for him & they go from there. At 1st I thought it was odd--- but to watch him break down in tears because he's losing the real love of his life was actually eye opening. 1 husband even wrote me a testimonial after I hosted them.

3. Let's say you are with someone who's bi. Do you make them shut it down? Or be supportive & let them keep being fulfilled sexually?

If I had a girl who wanted to keep exploring, we'd set the boundaries & she'd be encouraged. For the MFMs I've hosted, it's always been with a FWB whose been close to me. At the end of it, the 3rd has to step back and observe so he knows what depth he's missing out on, then he leaves & my friend and I keep going.

These are pretty much my thoughts. There's no right, no wrong- It's what works for those 2 people.

~Lotsa


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
11/1/2020 10:32 am
    Quoting  :
GoDeep is right. If you find the right person, and the trust and communication is there and y'all on the same page, I don't see why not.


europeaninNY 51M  
9 posts
8/15/2021 2:09 am

 Absolutely if he is a freak too. Which man does not like threesomes, pegging etc.? Finding a female freak who loves it is the problem. If you know one, can you connect us?


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