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Getting Started as a Single Male
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Getting Started as a Single Male Swinging has long been largely about couples playing with couples, and quite often looking for an extra lady to join in on the fun. However, don’t be discouraged. More and more, couples are seeking single men to play with the wife while the husband watches, and sometimes videos. I have been the “other man” many times. Typically, the husband was present and watching, although one couple had a girlfriend. The husband would go play with her while I spent the evening or weekend with the wife. Many times I have also been one of the men for a lady’s creampie gang bang. It is imperative to be mindful of the rules of swinging. I can’t really place them in a hierarchy, because they are of equal importance. Be respectful. It is perfectly<b> natural </font></b>for a lady to have very strong lust and to enjoy sex with many people. She is including you in her sex life, and you should be appreciative of that. Tend to your hygiene. Always shower before play time, trim your fingernails and toenails, shave or Nair your cock and balls, and around them as well. I’ve known very few swingers who don’t, and you’ll get a little more penetration, and a lot more skin on skin sensation. I use Nair, one day, then two days later, as my hair is pretty thick. Follow the instructions on the bottle so you don’t burn your skin. Nair is exactly the same chemical as Drano. No means no. It is always possible one person will not be turned on another. If you are meeting a couple for the first time, go to coffee or dinner. Get to know them as people and tell them, honestly, about yourself. This will give them, and you, the opportunity to decide about moving forward. If you are at a swinger gathering, at someone’s home or at a club, ask before touching, or allow the lady to approach you. If a lady interests you, engage her in conversation, and don’t be a cheeseball. Intelligent conversation can get the juices flowing as much as anything. Don’t worry if you’re a bit shy, comfort will come with experience. Never fuck and tell. Swingers come from all walks of life. They may people you know, public figures etc. They may be your realtor, attorney, grocery cashier, or your favorite barista. Hopefully, this is obvious. In any case, revealing anyone’s identity without their permission is not only rude and disrespectful, it can damage people's reputations and their careers. You will never be included again. My Lust All, MissoulaMan62. |
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