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the reality of resistance  

wickedeasy 74F
11204 posts
4/8/2017 4:56 pm
the reality of resistance


The reality of resistance is less appealing than the idea of resistance. The reality is a lot of mind numbing paperwork, telephone calls, texting and emailing. It’s pushing people out of the ideal and into actual time. It’s making the fun of the woman’s march the daily grind of spitting out letters, cold calling people who hang up on you, showing up to meetings at 8 PM cuz that’s when people can get there and there’s no thanks a lot, or vendors with fried dough or any goodies…..so bring your own shit with you.

But you show up, because you said you would, and if you don’t then it fucks up the schedule of the poorly oiled machine we have almost running. Sure you’re a volunteer but it’s still a commitment douchebag.

So for about 20-25 hours a week I spend my time working with two of the larger sector resistance movements - the GLBTQ and the Political MOB, aka Move On Boston which is semi tied to the ACLU and Warren. In one place I am strategizing at a higher level because I know some stuff about the government contracts and can field calls on homelessness. In the other, my friend and I do hands on training on how to be a street rebel for when the cops stop being benevolent, which, surprise, surprise has already begun.

Gay Pride is soon. It’s a huge parade with lots of dance parties in the South End and a big festival on the esplanade. Usually, it’s sort of like Mardi Gras. GLAD is expecting a bit more resistance this year. Anyway, Weezer and I were tagged because of our experience in methodology, so we’re teaching passive resistance. Or “ how to be heard but not hurt” aka Civil disobedience 101. We do small classes because it’s physical and you have to do it hands on, so usually only about 20 per class.

The other night, we’re on the second class which is primary confrontation, linked arms, seated barriers and what to do when cops approach with batons. Remember, our class is young, GLBTQ. We are now all seated with linked arms at the elbow and a hanclasp to the next person. It’s very hard to break.

I approach menacingly. “Now, go full body limp.”

Immediately breaking the barrier line, one of the protestors, frantically waves his hand.

“Yuh?”

“Do you mean rigid limp?”

I answered in a sotto voice. “Uh, that would be an oxymoron.”

Tilting his head, he looks at me and asks…..” um, is that a religion?”

My BFF Weezer who has gone full body limp (I do believe she may also have pissed herself) is gasping for air as she tries in vain to cover her hilarity with a fake coughing fit while two other would be protestors try to disengage their locked arms from her.

I point to Weezer,

“See, like Louise.” I say, just as Weezer tips over in utter defeat.

And the barrier face plants.

image in comments cuz it won't stick here

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
4/8/2017 4:58 pm

[image]

I sure do miss this guy....the other one too

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


Luv2bottom4u2 67M  
1875 posts
4/8/2017 5:07 pm

You friggin protesters ! I think you all should move to Iran or some other place like maybe north Korea, China, or some of the other Arab nations.
I mean why live in this country if it's so damn terrible ?

The one thing I do enjoy if I do ever pay any attention to your little marching around and pathetic chats is this { At least your getting some fresh air and exercise }!


wickedeasy replies on 4/8/2017 5:24 pm:
because I love this country. thanks for reading

greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/8/2017 5:21 pm

Oh you little rebel!!! Even the uneducated can do body limp, after tuition.


wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 2:57 pm:
yeah, but can you go rigid limp? snork

goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
4/8/2017 7:57 pm

I applaud you for your devotion. . It takes time, skill, and patience.

People who hate others who are just trying to make things better, scare me. . Why are they so afraid of another opinion?

" My country... right or wrong. " was a saying that Hitler would have loved.


wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 2:59 pm:
it's cool........everyone has a right to their opinion.

it's why we resist, eh? love ya

goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
4/8/2017 8:02 pm

Oh yeah... loved the story and especially that image...


wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 2:59 pm:
I know, right? that Joe, he was a scallawag

tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
4/8/2017 9:05 pm

Sometimes you have to wonder about some people.

Vive La Difference


wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 3:02 pm:
my grampa used to say..........the things you see when you haven't got a gun. he was the most non PC person I know. but he never ever hated. pretty sure he would've said that gun thing about Trump...lmao

tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
4/8/2017 9:07 pm

What did you think about that recent Pepsi commercial?

Vive La Difference


wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 3:05 pm:
I never saw it except on the comedy shows like the daily show, Colbert, seth Meyers.

yeah, so NOT the most sensitive considering it was a Kardashian. but did it deserve al the airtime? meh

allR_welcum 39M
18 posts
4/9/2017 2:41 am

hiiiiiiiiiii how are you???????? you so wonderfull


wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 3:05 pm:
hi. thanks.

you should blog............I checked but you don't have much up

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
4/9/2017 9:14 am

I can truly see your a very skilled and patient person. You go girl! Lovely story by the way had me thinking today how it is in Canada. hugsss V

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wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 3:07 pm:
can I come and live in your garage?

it's a mess her VM........but we're resisting, persisting and with an luck, he'll bite his won foot off sooner as opposed to later

KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
4/9/2017 4:07 pm

    Quoting Luv2bottom4u2:
    You friggin protesters ! I think you all should move to Iran or some other place like maybe north Korea, China, or some of the other Arab nations.
    I mean why live in this country if it's so damn terrible ?

    The one thing I do enjoy if I do ever pay any attention to your little marching around and pathetic chats is this { At least your getting some fresh air and exercise }!
Hi. Don't you believe it is quintessentially American to be able to protest?
I'm not sure why you felt the need to try to insult the blogger here,
But I kind of think that this discussion would be a good one to have,
Yes, even here... on a sex site.
Kk

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wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 3:10 pm:
hugs up on my big sis for protecting me. who da best??

and yes, that's a discussion worth having.

KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
4/9/2017 4:08 pm

It was a cool and hummus story, sis.
Keep making me giggle!
Kk

The observant make the best lovers,
I may not do right, but I do write,
I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life,
Kitkat
Come check out my blog
KItkat1415
check out this post by me
Adventures In Body Grooming
#39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath
If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40


wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 3:10 pm:
so, should I get out the olives and the Syrian bread??

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/10/2017 4:52 am

Keep up the resistance!


wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 3:14 pm:
spunky.........

Cambridge is a haven City. Massachusetts told Trump to bite it when he was going to cut funding for planned parenthood and our republican governor said, we'll cove it anyway. this is our heritage here...we fight.

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
4/10/2017 8:12 am

Aw, bless his heart - lol.

And bless you for doing this good work.


wickedeasy replies on 4/10/2017 3:15 pm:
oh, that made me laugh.......bless his heart.

I know, I know. now if I can just get Weezer to stop laughing.

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/10/2017 5:11 pm

Rigid limp? Does that apply to dicks too? Never mind- I think the answer in in your post.

I can remember just a few short months ago when protesting was the most patriotic thing a conservative could think of. I reckon now that Fred Phelps is gone it jes ain't worth doin' no more.

It does occur to me that some American folks really would be happier in Iran. They line up purty well on the issues. Like protesting, for example!

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wickedeasy replies on 4/19/2017 2:11 pm:
sometimes now I feel so discouraged I want to just stop. but I can't Bill, I just can't. it's like i'd be saying it's okay.

I feel poisoned.

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