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What is AFF really all about?  

passionate9863 37F
8 posts
8/28/2020 8:48 am
What is AFF really all about?


I can’t remember how I came learn of this site or why I joined it in the first place but over the I have remained a member so as kill time and boredom. I pop in now and then a month or several weeks later depending on mood or if I do remember.

At first, the site looked and was interesting (or maybe it was just the members that I chatted with back then) but over the this has not been the case. I have chatted with all sorts of different men over the and met up with a handful. Tall, short, fat, thin, average, interesting, boring, chatty, quiet, young. You name it, so long as they were men and not women even though I have been approached by some of them and couples but I politely decline their contacts or ignore them.

Like I said, my aim of joining here was definitely kill time and boredom by chatting up strangers that I don't know and see where it goes because reality is more scary and difficult than virtual. The further away they were from my location the better as my major interest was not hook up with someone for sex here online coz it is easy have casual random sex with someone you met in a bar or anywhere else than from here online. It is easy ignore or block someone online than when knowing or meeting them face face because we all have been programmed with politeness and good manners and the last thing we want come across as is rude.

I am not looking for a relationship or anything serious but this being an adult site thus the name FriendFinder-x I don’t think that the only pleasure and interest for one be a member here should only be sex since I doubt that everyone or a majority of people here find it hard have or meet up with a stranger only for sex in our every day life. Attraction is way more important than anything else be it for sex or friendship otherwise what are we?

DashingExpert 52M

8/28/2020 10:52 am

I find I am here for the same reason. This platform doesn't seem great at supporting that kind of conversation, but maybe I haven't found the right way or right person.

visit DashingExpert just for fun. Or private message me on Private Mailbox


profcoquin27bis 59M
4323 posts
8/28/2020 12:31 pm

totaly agree


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
8/28/2020 1:15 pm

Welcome to the blogs. This site can be what you make of it. For me, it's about learning - people fascinate me. And people do all manner of things for sex.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


passionate9863 replies on 9/1/2020 12:28 am:
Thank you for your encouragement. I will try and continue writing.

jajo696 113F
4287 posts
8/28/2020 2:04 pm

Here is a microcosm of life at large... here as there its ALL in what you make it. There are all kindsa people here....something for everyone. It takes patience and discernment to find and go out n get it. Just gotta weed thru the weeds...~~


Hornychick4158 45F
29 posts
8/28/2020 3:34 pm

I believe FriendFinder-x is all about finding a hookup to have sex with or finding love even if you're married or not but I find that if you do find a good guy don't let him go he'll be the best friend you'll ever have but I wish everybody luck on here including myself because I just try to find friends with benefits just to hook up and have sex but haven't had much luck so we should all just remember there's life out there and there's someone for everyone we just got to look


passionate9863 replies on 9/1/2020 12:49 am:
Thank you. I'll keep your advice in mind and not take things too seriously.

justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
8/29/2020 1:53 am

If you desire to engage with this community in more thoughtful and creative ways, this blogosphere is an excellent pathway for connecting with some amazing people.

Per your profile, you live in one of the most exotic cities in the world. I encourage you to use your blog to illuminate your life there. I'm sure your posts will draw readers and comments. Also read and comment on what others post.

Be assured that you will be *rewarded* with wholly different perspective on this community.

Keep writing and posting!


passionate9863 replies on 9/5/2020 11:41 am:
Thank you for the encouragement. I also went through your blogs and I really liked them.

KenyanBazu 38M

9/27/2020 6:40 am

I reckon that there are so many reasons that people cum (pun intended) to FriendFinder-x but my two cents is that the main reason is for sex and pleasure. Wouldn't mind making friends from here.


passionate9863 replies on 9/28/2020 5:49 am:
Yes, sex can be the end result but by what means? We don't have to be friends but let's know at least one or two things about each other before "hooking" up. Attraction is more than just physique or because someone is online and we are both on the same site. Maybe it's just me.

Ababix3 37M
1459 posts
8/28/2021 2:31 am

This site is a waste of time


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