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Your friend was humble-bragging. This is a passive-aggressive tool for exerting control in a relationship. In this case, your friend made a seemingly modest and self-critical statement (she was too crazy and I wanted to break up, but...) meant to call attention to both his virtuous efforts to preserve this relationship AND his amazing sex life (which you would be blessed to be part of). Should you start dating, he will dominate during sexy-time and insist that you service his every porn-star fantasy. After a while, he will start telling another woman how *crazy* you are....and so the vicious cycle is perpetuated. In an authentic relationship, both of you would work hard to build trust and happiness together, in and out of the bedroom, without fear or judgment. I recommend that you keep things platonic with him.
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12/15/2020 2:39 am |
 interesting... so how willing are you to challenge your limits a little cock stroking in a quiet sunday drive? maybe a quick BJ on the freeway a pick nick fuck? ??? just how much of a whore can you be just to be as good as her??? oh wait! is that not why he bailed?  there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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hmm wondering if you have already started to try to compete??? there are always 2 sides to everyones story......He must have told you some details, if they arent really you why allow yourself to go farther... when we meet someone we shouldnt have to compete with thier past lovers... it should be making new memories not trying to relive thiers... if he would leave you because you didnt equal or beat his last love why let him have the prize to begin with??? you asked him why would he try so hard... i am asking you why are you trying so hard to be his next?
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Why not ask him for the details about that "sex" that was so great.... sounds to me like he's trying to be intentionally vague and make you somewhat jealous of a past relationship. Find out exactly what kind of crazy-sex kept him in a bad relationship. I bet you'll find out he suddenly can't elaborate about the specifics. Of course then he'll be mad and blame you for ruining things so that you'll put extra effort into trying to get with him. 
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12/15/2020 6:06 am |
crazy for you beautiful womam i want u much
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Enough is a complicated standard. Enough for him? In what way? He's the only one who can answer that question and in most cases, people are not sufficiently self-aware to answer coherently. It's usually a feeling that creeps up on them. A feeling that something is missing without the ability to articulate what. The second question is about you. Where are you lacking? What isn't enough? You are smart, beautiful, sexy, sexual, open-minded, and adventurous. Do you see yourself this way? Do you feel this way? What do you feel is missing? As you likely figured out, the second question is a trick question. The real question is are you enough for you? If the answer is no, then you have have goals for self-improvement. To be happy with yourself. If the answer is yes, then you need to ask not whether you are enough for him, but whether he is enough for you. Live strong and happy my friend.  “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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12/15/2020 10:59 am |
" but i feel like you might have missed the point i was trying to make.." no no i do not think i misunderstood... i think you did. " I’d like think I’m pretty interesting in and out of bed, but this teensy-weensy level of insecurity peeked out. And I couldn’t help but wonder if I’m enough. If he and I ever got into a serious relationship, could I keep his interest? Like I know I enjoy sex very much, but I envision they had like kinky porn level sex ALL the time EVERYWHERE. It’s like why else would he mention the sex was awesome?" you see it starts with a small insecurity... and then i asked how far would you go to keep up to what you believe his expectations are ? it is not a woman's wiliness to please that a man falls in love with... it is her... the sex is just a pleasant bonus bonne vie there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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1. My sample size is larger than I'd prefer, when it comes to dating diagnosable mental illness and I can say they're solid in the sack, but nothing to write home about. Wicked smart relatively sane girls make the best freaks. 2. A passive man will remain with an unsuitable partner, because she's a freak in the sack. A confident man knows he can create another, at his leisure.
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I personally think having two popsicles frozen together is crazy cuckoo. You know the ones that are packaged with two sticks like that? The idea is that you are supposed to break them apart and share. Honestly?!? Who is ever really going to share the other one? As a human being, you want to eat them both and suck the sweet flavor from both of those sticks. You know it, don't deny it. But, then you find a special friend, and you want to make a show of it, so you break the popsicle apart. But, then you realize that you just broke apart a special thing for something else you though was special. Then, you realize you can't put it back together again. So, was it worth it to destroy such a special thing? Depends on the popsicle and the friend, I suppose. As for your post: if you are going to do laps inside your head, wear comfortable shoes. There is nothing worse than wearing flip-flops to a marathon.
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Adult conversation is the real answer. A relationship is mutually created dynamic. All parties have equal responsibility for what is created. You just tend to be more in tune with the dynamic than most. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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