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Probably a stupid question  

Mdonson57 63M
107 posts
4/27/2021 5:24 pm

Last Read:
4/28/2021 9:11 am

Probably a stupid question


Why do people constantly view your profile and never say ? Is it that they are simply enjoying pics or is it FriendFinder-x doing this to keep us engaged and staying? Just curious. N

MDonson
Kiik Myonguy


lust4life59 65F  
2552 posts
4/27/2021 6:25 pm

maybe a mixture of both? So I have a question, does it show when I view yours? I have my privacy settings where someone cannot see me view their profile. So if I show up as viewing you, then obviously it's A FF's failure to keep the terms of the privacy settings. And one of the reason for views is when you're in the chatroom and you hover over someones name to refresh your memory as to who they are, or just to see where someone lives, it shows as a view in their notifications. I don't really pay any attention to who's viewed me anymore, I highly doubt the accuracy.


umaykissmesoftly 67F  
344 posts
4/27/2021 6:42 pm

I used to get many emails from people thanking me for viewing their profile when I never did and don't even remember hovering over their thumbnail. And sometimes someone might view and decide you're not their "cup of tea" so they move on. It's no biggie either way. I also don't pay attention to who might have viewed me, legitimately or otherwise. If they're interested they'll send an e-mail. For that reason I also don't pay attention to flirts or hotlists.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
4/27/2021 7:12 pm

Personally I enjoy looking at a few profiles for the pictures/videos. I don't want to actually talk to the person or have them think I'm interested in meeting, I just want to look at an attractive body.


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
4/27/2021 7:18 pm

I really don't have an answer, other than as you said some seem to be just browsing profiles?


patchdriver 68M/68F  
156 posts
4/27/2021 7:36 pm

Winks bother me! We have checked with some people that sent us a wink. Nope! They have never checked us out let alone send a wink. Got to the point that we no longer respond to a wink.


agelesssexylegs 80F
1145 posts
4/27/2021 11:51 pm

Well men are very visual creatures but either too shy or tongue tied to string a simple sentence together,it is the same with blogs,they just seem to lurk on it,rather than pay that person a compliment


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
4/28/2021 12:45 am

I can't see profiles due to being a standard member yet I get notes from men asking me if I liked their profile. I have to tell them I never saw it. Sorry. FriendFinder-x is a pack of liars.


Mdonson57 63M
504 posts
4/28/2021 1:26 am

Good answers all. Thanks for taking a moment to respond. It does make sense a little bit more now. But still I think it’s funny that a few profiles are reported as viewing me almost daily for weeks...anyway... Guys have a good one.

MDonson
Kiik Myonguy


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
4/28/2021 2:12 am

Its a site algorithym....to foster interaction.

Go to your " MY Stuff" on your home page and look and see the profiles the site says that you have looked at......i bet you will be surprised. They do it to all of us.

Pay it no mind unless they follow it up with an IM, or email or some other kind of contact. Remember standards dont have many options to contact...


Mdonson57 63M
504 posts
4/28/2021 2:50 am

Thanks for the explanation. Kinda figured since most that “hotlist” me are under 26. Lol.

MDonson
Kiik Myonguy


WyoCowboy7751 70M
2537 posts
4/28/2021 5:24 am

"Your comment has been denied due to the following reason: Banned Topics (hate/weapons/under age). Feel free to submit a new comment. "
Kind of like receiving this too a BLOG post ; when Post stated , NOTHING , about " hate / weapons / under age " ; unless mentioning Gal or Gals , too them denotes " under age "
Most times , all one can do is ; Grin & Bear It


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/28/2021 8:59 am

    Quoting umaykissmesoftly:
    I used to get many emails from people thanking me for viewing their profile when I never did and don't even remember hovering over their thumbnail. And sometimes someone might view and decide you're not their "cup of tea" so they move on. It's no biggie either way. I also don't pay attention to who might have viewed me, legitimately or otherwise. If they're interested they'll send an e-mail. For that reason I also don't pay attention to flirts or hotlists.
Ok... I'm not lying. Does that mean you DIDN'T view my profile? 🤔
No worries if ya didn't, but THEY sent me an email and I recognize your whimsical grin 😁.
I just 'moused' over your profile — didja get the notice? 🤔 lol 😂 New York, huh? Yep no one reads profiles.
Yep... mice, whatcha gonna do? ❗❗😎


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