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ONLY FOR MEN WITH GUTS.......  

StripShowLover 52F  
73 posts
11/17/2006 6:49 am

Last Read:
10/30/2011 3:01 am

ONLY FOR MEN WITH GUTS.......


Ok guys we know how you feel about the women who don't appreciate a good guy and all the women who have even agreed and reposted it.

But why is it u lose your balls when the shoe is put on your foot

Guys don't want a good woman either

She has to be barbie thin
Big boobs
Model beautiful

And it doesn't matter how much love she has to give or how loyal she is you guys won't give a first or second look if she isn't what you want.

Kinda double standard don't you think

GunForHire1973 51M

11/17/2006 11:48 am

I know I am not the "average guy but I dont want some barbie thin girl who is model beautiful. I am give less than a damn about that. I am satisfied with a girl who has some things in common with me but not everything. I also like a girl who doesnt expect the man to buy her dinner after begging him to meet her. Big boobs, well.....


Tender_TX_Lover 53M

12/2/2006 12:55 am

You are right. It is a double standard. Men, in general, want the prom queen in public, June Cleaver at the house, and a porn star in the bedroom. No wonder "good women" are so hard to find. Those women are extremely rare! I struggle with this as most men do. The difference is that my dick has lost all of it's decision making privilidges. My heart, mind, and faith are what I listen to these days.

Good women are not easy to find these days because so many have been screwed over so badly that they've forgotten what it's like to have someone truly care about them. And with so many men screwed up there is little incentive for women to put themselves out there time and again. We have a hard time seeing women for their true value and an even harder time admitting it if she doesn't fit our mold - or worse, the mold of our so called "friends." The majority of men today would choose to dump a great woman than endure the teasing of his friends because of some flaw she has. Most men don't have the capacity to man up and do what is right.

I was one of those men. It took me burying the love of my life 8 years ago to learn an important lesson in life - search your own soul, honestly evaluate what is important to you, get to know her for who she is, decide if she fits your long term future. If she does, love her for who she is. Fuck your buddies if they don't like it. If she doesn't fit your future then tell her and move on - no matter how hot she is.

The irony of the double standard is that men tear down the good women faster than they can get the pieces picked back up!

One last point and I will get off of my soap box. This double standard goes both ways. There are a lot of women out there not interested in guys because of what's on the outside and miss out on the very thing they are looking for.

Take care,
Mark


golfmastersc 64M

12/9/2006 6:38 pm

Yea there are alot of guys out there that are looking for what you said. However there are some of us that are looking deeper, but women don't do that and give us guys a chance. It all has to do with looks as you said and women do the same thing your complaining about. Nice guys write to women who say they want fun along with a great sex life. But if we are not ken dolls then you don't write back.


golfmastersc 64M

5/14/2007 5:09 pm

Not ALL men are looking for that body perfect woman! Some of us just want to find someone that enjoys life and all its pleasures.


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