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The process for meeting us explained
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The process for meeting us explained One thing we've found on FriendFinder-x is that guys expect to just jump into bed and fuck, or couples expect us to full swap on day one. Now not EVERY couple or male is like that, but many are. So we wanted to explain how it works with us. For Males Step 1: Send us a message telling us a little about yourself. -Not a one liner, but something with substance. Step 2: Connect with us on Skype. -If we like your initial message we want to connect on Skype. Step 3: Chatting with us on Skype. -This is how we get to know you and make sure that there is chemistry. We also ask a bunch of questions to make sure that you are the guy we want to meet. Step 4: E-mail (subject to case by case) -If we decide we want to meet you we'll give you our e-mail address and we'll send along a face pic. Step 5: We meet at your place or a hotel. -At this point we're there and we're all going to have fun. Just need to remain respectful otherwise we'll stop. For couples it either works like above or: Step 1: Send us a message telling us a little about yourself. -Not a one liner, but something with substance. -We'll chat a little more this way. Step 2: E-mail (or Skype) -We'll start chatting more via e-mail or Skype in order to get a feel for you. -Skype seems easier, but who knows. Step 3: Meeting -We've met one couple for a short hike and had a great time. If we think you'd make good friends in and out of the bedroom, we're going to want to do some stuff outside of the bedroom. If we are strictly meeting for fun, then we can just meet at your place or a hotel. -This is when we test the waters of play. No one should expect to fuck unless invited to. Again this is testing the waters. This could very well be soft play and you should expect that ONLY. Things that waste our time: Cheating husbands (if your wife doesn't hop on Skype and tell us it's ok, then you are out, Meg's rule) Hyper aggressive sexual types and deviants (how are you going to be respectful?) Rude people, entitled people, snooty people (yeah, no) Heavy smokers/Drug use/Heavy Drinkers (just not a lifestyle we enjoy, casual smokers/drinkers are workable). Bad hygiene ... One liner messages, and IMs...if our IM is on, it's by accident. If you can't take the time to follow step one, you are wasting our time. |
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Funny how the very first person who responds (not mentioning any names, Mr. discr...nh) absolutely proves why rules like these might just be of benefit, or utterly necessary. It’s a bit weird how eager some are to show their true selves, even if it doesn’t paint the most flattering picture. At least you both know there is one less potential headache out there. Hopefully you can actually find someone who “gets it”. Some of us do have a little patience, but winnowing the wheat from the chaff on this site can be a not-small task. Best of luck.  -- allgud69xxx Yeah ... that's right ... I went there ..  Wanna msg, but can't - my Postbox blog Another way to say hi my Postbox
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