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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
11/3/2020 7:57 pm

I'd say, 'Sure.. of course you can.' I have.
Be yourself, be polite and treat the women you meet here the same way you'd like to be treated.
Find someone nice? 🤔 Yep.
Go for it! ❗❗😎

Oh and... you'll need tons of patience with a bunch of trial and error thrown in the mix.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
11/3/2020 8:03 pm

Of course it can happen. Nice women like sex, too, ya know. Just make sure you're nice as well.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
11/3/2020 9:59 pm

Same people here as on a vanilla dating site. Some nice, some not.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
11/3/2020 11:56 pm

people are people....same folks that are here are out there. This is a PEOPLE site...just like those other mainstream sites.....cept here the beautiful wrappings are already taken off.

As in life...some very good people here and some not so nice people too.

I dont know why you would question this.

Are you nice ? Expect to get what you give~~


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
11/4/2020 1:23 pm

This is actually an Adult Social Network. Unfortunately there is a huge number of people that come here, usually the men, that see it as a 'sex site' meaning it is an online whorehouse. IT IS NOT!! Because a woman wants to find someone sexually compatible with her doesn't mean she has sex with anyone and everyone. I will tell you that you have to step your game up though because the a**holes of the site usually ruin it for the good men. We are bombarded with "wanna f*ck' messages and guys that think we are whores so we have a tendency to not look at messages that have dick photos in them or opening lines that are just skanky. Yes, it is a sex based site, but there are over 100 sites names all logging in here including Passion, Datenation, and SeniorSizzle as well as gay and lesbian sites. There are men that get all childish and insulting to us when we send a simple no thank you to them. Suddenly we are fat, ugly, skanks that they were doing us a favor blah blah blah. So don't be shocked if you don't get a no thank you. We didn't sign up to be insulted any more than anyone else did.

As for can it happen, that is yes. In the magazine section there is a success stories category. I myself found the man I am with on here 16 years ago. I am here because I like the blogs, advice lines, I was in a focus group on here, and I like helping out new members with how the site actually works.


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
11/5/2020 8:12 am

Quoting rm_Mike4you15 :
Thank you very much, I was not aware of all that…That sounds really positive.


You are more than welcome. I would like to think I am a nice and incredibly sexy woman and my partner thinks I am, so it is possible, but it takes time to find one. There are tons of scammers on here so be careful!! Don't believe what you are reading just because you want it. Use common sense and ask lots of questions, be patient!!!


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
11/6/2020 4:38 pm

Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : I am glad you’ve met a great partner, that is the goal for me. I have noticed there are a lot of scammers on here, so it’s very reassuring to hear from good people like yourself

Sadly, this place has changed quite a bit from when I started on here. Much of the fun and feelings of an adult social network are lost to the plethora of men that sign up here thinking 'it is a sex site' and think that women who like sex are not worthy of a relationship, yet they want that sex. NOT ALL MEN do that, but they are few and far between on here so a good guy is extremely difficult for a woman to find. We are faced with guys that will say whatever it takes to get into our pants and so as a woman we have to grill you guys to make sure you are not one of them. Those bad guys totally ruin it for the good guys as we seriously are approached by them in the 100's. I have actually seen with my own eyes on here at least 3 men that lied about being married and were so convincing. One of them actually had fake divorce papers and the way he was outed was he proposed to a woman on here and she went to the court of the divorce for something, I can't remember what it was, but she found out that the judge on the paperwork didn't even exist. She came into out chatroom and totally told everyone in the group as that is where they had met on here. Our chatroom was like a family back then. Why would someone do that to a person??? The other two didn't go that far, but they did lie and again the women involved with them were heartbroken to find out that there was no future with these guys. That is why you will get questioned and women will take their time to get to know you first. H*ll we don't even know if you guys are s3rial k1ller or something!! We have to be safe. I wish you nothing but the best.


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
11/7/2020 4:55 pm

rm_Mike4you15 : Thank you, that’s very sweet of you to say. Your partner is very lucky! I’m sure I’ll find mine eventually

It just takes time. Don't be in a rush and be sure to think through things. Don't assume, it is okay to ask questions.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
11/12/2020 4:36 pm

I believe that you can. I have not met anyone yet. Time will tell.


fancy_legs 52F  
190 posts
4/10/2021 2:51 pm

Yes, I have met some really great friends here. People of all kinds. There is a variety of personalities on this site and the internet as a whole.
I find that just being myself and enjoying the conversation with people can lead to so much more with the right connection.
I treat everyone the way I wish to be treated. I weed out the bs/and drama people. I roll out the red carpet to the ignore box for those that *think they are all that*.
Yes, with the right connection anything is possible.
Just be yourself, keep smiling and have fun.
Life is too short to waste it watching the world go by.


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