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I'm real and not a creeper  

Brb_1973 50M
3 posts
12/13/2020 8:02 pm
I'm real and not a creeper


Ok, Just found this spot and want open and honest. Sorry before hand if I get graphic. Not trying put people off.

Why are we here?

I'm not real sure. I never did the hook-up thing. I was a late bloomer and didn't date in high school or college. I met my ex-wife and we married quickly. Since, my divorce started in 2017. Yes 2017 and still not finished. Long story. I have expanded my experience with women. That brings me here. I have only been in LTRs. Never a one-night stand. Not that I'm opposed, just never the opportunity or clue how. I'm here because I am tired of being alone. I miss the feel touch and taste of a woman.

I love everything about the female form. I find<b> massage </font></b>and kissing to be very erotic. I have large strong hands and know how to use them to work out all the knots. I get hyper focused on my partner's needs and have been told that.

What are my quirks/hang ups?

I have very few. I bounce my leg. A lot. I am not into pain. Not giving or receiving. Just think making love to a woman should be that love. Yeah, sex is way more than tab A into slot B. It starts in the head. I'm willing to try most things once.

I hope this helps. I'll add as I think about things.

Rochblue 46F

8/7/2021 4:56 am

Your story and quest is not unlike the thousands upon thousands of other men on this site. The issue is the massive gender imbalance on this site, and by the fact that most of the so-called "women" you see on this site are nothing but a glorified hoax of illusion. Fake profiles, scams, gimmicks, lies, money, greed and corruption are the only thing that powers this site. Sad but true. It seems the good days of this scene are long behind us where there was a more or less equal gender ratio, people eagerly communicated with each other politely, people established genuine and meaningful friendships over long periods of getting to know each other through daily chatting for hours at a time and when people enthusiastically had incentive, will and a desire to meet. But those were the old days. A time where the internet / chat rooms / social media / web cams / IM was still all pretty new and fresh. Over time, that newness wore off, social behavior continually has gotten worse, mobile phones took over, people stopped having massively long chats for hours a day, we became divided and lost ground. At the same time, most of the real women fled this site ( dozens of other and better social media sites emerged ), the site itself here clamped down massively on it's members to the point of an impossibility. And on and on it goes. The reality behind it is grim. You are in the same boat as nearly all other men on this site by the fact that you all seek something ( women ....chiefly women for sex, to be more specific ) that pretty much doesn't exist to begin with.
To find actual real women, I'd probably suggest you'd have much better odds off site than on site.

Nevertheless, I'm glad you've reached out and have given a brief bio.


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