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Starting to think this is just a waste of money  

GuildNPDX 42M
25 posts
3/6/2022 4:30 pm
Starting to think this is just a waste of money


So I have been on here for a while, and I do mean a LONG while. Been a silver member once upon a time, gold member, VIP a few times, but fuck, out of the HUNDREDS of people I have chatted with guess how many were real people or at least genuine users on the other end? Here is a hint, I can count them on 2 hands.

99% of the users I have found that match what I am looking for in search, end up being scam or fake accounts. You might ask, "how do you know they are fake accounts?" Well it is painfully obvious when you talk to them and they show as being in area they suddenly say "Oh well I am actually in this state helping this person and don't know when I will be able to afford to come back, are you willing to help with that?" Yea.... That happened, not just once or twice... I have had that situation happen no less than dozen times. And even though you report the accounts, it leads to nothing, because heres the kicker, if you try to share chat logs for external sites? Your Breaking The Law! Yea fucked right? It is dumb but thats just what us guys have to go through. I actually DID recently talk to someone who was female and authentic, not because I reached out to them they reached out to me as an ' ambassador ' from the site, and I had a pleasant, long conversation with them, and found out that just as I thought, women don't have the issues that us men do with the scammers and fake accounts, they have the OPPOSITE issue, they get inundated with emails and notes from guys so they don't have the time to sort through them all.
But this just proves a point, and it was a bit of an eye opener to this lady too. She had no clue what we as single males have to deal with here.

So it brings me to my title of this blog. I am starting to think this is nothing but a waste of . The few real women I have found are WAY out of state, if not out of the COUNTRY. of my good friends I met on here is in the UK, and another is in Australia, So yea I have found a couple but the chances of ever meeting them is slim and none and we all understand that.
I am not<b> giving </font></b>up yet, but fuck... I have to start finding a different way to find a match.

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