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Blogs > JMay26 > My Lonely Journal

Asking for Life Advice  

JMay26 31M
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1/4/2021 9:46 am
Asking for Life Advice

I know this is a sex site but this is going be my full and open journal so if anyone has any advice or comments help please comment away!

Rejection sucks major dick. Why is it that people can't be straightforward and honest with what they want? I feel like I am extremely honest and upfront with what I want and who I want be with. Why must people lead other people and "beat around the bush"?
At the same time, I know I am at fault because I was wanting something that clearly wasn't going happen. I am terrible with confronting “red flags” and running away from them. Instead, I continue trying like nothing is going on and hoping for a different outcome... This one was 8 months in the making that I should have just stopped trying but I don’t know... I just care about her more then she cares about me.
I am a quiet and reserved guy who loves the topic of sex... I am too open and comfortable with talking about it... which is why I believe I push so many women away from me. I am terrible with small talk and it usually goes to the topic of sex because I am comfortable talking about it. I have never been good at talking to people.

So since this will be my blogging area..... The best way to find out advice is to talk to strangers who have an outside view. Sooooooooo to anyone who is willing to give advice.... what do I need to do to break out of this cycle of trying to talk to women, overthink the red flags and brush them off and then end getting myself hurt?

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