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At Peace With Yourself
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At Peace With Yourself I do firmly believe that people come and go in our lives for a reason. Like the saying goes, some stay for a short bit, and some stay for a very long time. Everyone is a beautiful entity for the most part, or at least part of the memories were. You learn cherished lessons and wisdom at the very least. And hopefully they don't break your heart too badly. These days I take alot of stock in the people I surround myself with, and if they are good for me. If they are interested in me as a overall person, and we always know if a man is interested. They will make sure you know that they are, and equally if they really aren't. Often actions speak louder then words, or there lack there of. I used to think it was something I had done or not done right away. Now I do not think that. We aren't always going to be a perfect fit for everyone we meet. Even if that first meeting goes well, perhaps the next one will not go as smoothly. They may be the type that prefers rather a anonymous encounter so the first meeting is indeed exciting for them. Often I find when asked to let you inside of what makes them tick, they are resistant. They do not want to let you that close to their heart and soul. Nothing you can do but walk away, knowing it is them and how they view their sexual and even internal well being. Or they may not be able to handle the fact that you have real life things going on, such as health challenges. Let's it, that is not always fun. Not everyday will the person with health issues perhaps feel good. Or maybe you remind them of someone in their family or inner circle who has passed away. Again, nothing you can do about it but let them. be. Does it hurt to have given a small part of yourself, thinking this might be a wonderful match of friendship and sexual play. Yes and No. It is a certain risk we all take, and who is to say down the road you won't come together again and this time it would be a wonderful longer relationship. That this time they would actually want to talk with you, share, let you see more of their soul. Or perhaps they will just be a fond memory. Bottom line it that often people treat you how you allow them to, to a point. If you let them walk all over you, treat you like you are merely to be summoned when convenient, then they will. But if you demand to be treated with dignity, respect, and at the very least care - they either will or will no longer be a part of your life. I know that I for one do not have the time or energy for head games. Do you? Ann *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me* |
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Life is too short to play games - well unless we both agree to play it! I know within 10 seconds of meeting if it is a good match. A Good Decision Those Volatile ThreeWays Reconnecting [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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3/1/2021 7:47 pm |
As Nike says ‘life is short, play hard’.
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I am too old for the head games. I meet someone on another site and we became friends and after two years we finally meet and everything was great then one evening he gets dressed and not a word was said he walks out. Later he did tell me what went on and I told him that I did not want to see him and our friendship was over. I really thought we were going to be togethe. I can usually tell by talking on the phone a few times if there is any thing there or not. When I meet in person; I can see it right away if we will be a good match or not. The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness. 
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3/1/2021 8:59 pm |
Good blog!
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