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The Right To Do What You Want  

EroticMusings2 59F  
1432 posts
6/12/2021 11:45 pm
The Right To Do What You Want

You know what I find so funny, is people's all mighty moral compass. They seem to forget that no one should be judgmental of anyone else. We all have our own personalities, believes, and just basic societies influx already.

I guess maybe I am to the age where I know that i need to live life to the fullest because you never know when it is your turn to leave this world. I do not believe there is anything wrong with seeing someone outside of your marriage as long as you are honest and open about it. I love my husband dearly but he has some psychological blocks and now<b> physical </font></b>ones as well. I know we will never make love again, which is very sad. If only we had known that the last time was just that. There is so much more that has gone on in my private sexual marriage that I only share with my special friend/lover.

My husband struggles with me seeing someone outside of the marriage. Finally I think he understands that I will always love him and be there for him. But there is a side of me that needs that human touch, closeness, caring and even love. I need that BFF/FWB. I need to feel like I am wanted and desired. That there is a man out there dying to see me, kiss me, and make love to me. That special person I can fly high with, whether we are talking on the phone, or able to see each other.

Having that makes me happy, then I am even a better wife. Why? Because I feel fulfilled. I feel alive again, because just being home all the time with no plans other then going to the next doctor appointment. Just being there to clean, and help my husband with his needs, wear on a person after awhile. But even being able to leave for a bit, or talk to my babe on the phone, makes me become better centered and realize that there is still alot of life to live.

So dont let anyone judge you, on your choices. WE are all very different. Once in awhile you meet someone who you click with so well and that is a miracle. You need to do what is right for you, bottom line

Ann


*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
6/13/2021 10:47 am

I feel the same was as you
wish we where close enough to talk face to face
to touch feel and let life comes as it does
friends to be able to be with one another
to feel the thing we both miss
still love the ones we are with
it would be a pleasure to please you
xoxoxoxxox Thomas


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
6/13/2021 1:27 pm

I agree with you also. You know who you are and your know your own worth.
I applaud you for making your own choices and being true to your self. Your work with you husband can be draining and getting out is a good way to recharge and reset your self for the harder times you face.


Rooster1961a 62M
1 post
6/20/2021 7:46 pm

Totally agree with you. We all need to have that connection and understand that you need to be there for your husband. Nothing better that having a true bff/FWB and leave it at that.


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