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Knowing What You Need and Want  

EroticMusings2 59F  
1538 posts
6/27/2021 2:43 pm
Knowing What You Need and Want

Well, Hello

I am a very different type of woman, often misunderstood I feel. If I like you, you will know it. If I am not sure, I tend to observe. Probably about the worst thing you can do, is tell you do not have time for me.

See I try not be a bother, and I try accommodate requests. Even answering questions, and being upfront. If you are very special , even photographs. But what I ask for in return is just a a bit of your time.

FWB;
Tell me how your day has been, ask how mine has been. Engage me, be a friend to me. I think too many times the friend part is forgotten in the equation of FWB. Be a friend, I have alot going on in my life but you will never hear me tell you that I am too busy. I might tell you that I will answer your later on, but I will indeed do just that.

NSA;
Tp No Strings Attached means we aren't going change each other lives. But I do want there be some emotions. I am a emotional being. I can't climax unless there are some strong emotions going on too. That is why to me foreplay all starts in the mind. Love me while we are together, then we will both go home to our respective lives. Then we will look forward to the next time. Hopefully we will decide to play with others together, always using safe sex.

I need love, affection, caring and friendship. This is a cold damn world out there and we all deal with it differently. I no longer can stuff my feelings down with food like I used too. I haven't ever been much of a drinker and I haven't ever used hard drugs. So my release and pleasure area is sensual sexual pleasure. With or most often without a partner.


*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


Larrylovez 64M  
1 post
6/27/2021 4:15 pm

Yes but how do you trust that this can be as you say but by your
intuitive spirit when you just feel that its right, i believe your quest
is close to realization , enlightment , pure love : )


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
6/27/2021 5:01 pm

It's wonderful you put this out for yourself.
Respect is how you should be treated.
Hope your day was as beautiful as yourself and tomorrow is a better day.xoxoxxo Thomas


Grumpabear1962 61M

6/27/2021 5:10 pm

Being friends as well as lovers always makes the sex better. Sadly our lives are so busy some forget that or friendship takes more effort than they want to give because they are only after 1 thing. Be ware of these people, they will show their true colors before long, hopefully before you invest too much of yourself and time into them. Good luck in finding not only who you want, but what you want.


CapableBull 35M

6/27/2021 6:29 pm

Very much agreed


nsnguystill 71M
428 posts
6/27/2021 6:38 pm

the way i see it is that to be FWB you first need to be friends. that is where the line gets wobbly. how does one meet with the intent of sex and call him/her a friend.
is that not what a fuck (loosely used) friend is?
now this NSA thing is the most confusing of all... once you set conditions, does that not change it to a SSAS some strings attached sex.
why can people not be honest and just say they like sex, the like to be treated as a person.
but then that would mean that should they not have sex with them again... they won't go crying on the blogs to tell the world
how they have been wronged.
well i hope you find what you need. just keep in mind
if you lie to me... it really does not change much
but
if you lie to you it changes everything
bonne vie

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


1greatguy4u54 59M

6/27/2021 7:14 pm

So nice... thanks!


eriepamale 46M
11 posts
6/28/2021 10:19 am

Needing some fun here sucks being married and it's on her schedule which is once a month


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