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Sex As We Age  

EroticMusings2 59F  
1432 posts
9/1/2021 9:54 pm
Sex As We Age


I have been thinking about what this blog might be about. Then it finally .

Just a fact of life, we age it is usually harder cum. Just like it takes more energy do anything, sexual activities are in that boat too.

It takes more of starting in the mind, then flirting, kissing,<b> foreplay. </font></b>Not being in a hurry, relaly listening to what your partner likes or dislikes.

As long as whatever you are doing each other feels good, that is that matters. Maybe you will cum, maybe not. But there is no shame if you cant cum, yes I am talking you men. It is not a sign that you are broken. You are still very sexy, and very capable bringing and having pleasure. Sometimes there needs be a adjustment in the activities. perhaps stimulation, toys, cock rings.

Just remember that not everyone can one out of the ballpark.
But long you both are enjoying the moment, that is all matters.s.

.

Ann

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
9/2/2021 4:28 am

This is very reassuring, 'Musings, but I'm not sure many men will easily accept it. Of course you are 100% right that as long as you both feel good it doesn't matter, but for most men (and perhaps for women too) being in full working order does help you feel sexy I think. I haven't noticed any difficulty reaching orgasm yet, but I do notice I get soft much more quickly afterwards, and although I wouldn't say it worries me exactly, I don't like it.

I'm not sure how much it is about feeling inadequate or anything like that, because I don't feel inadequate. I think it has more to do with the simple evidence that the body is coming to the end of its working life! I don't want the process to worsen!

Happily, I have noticed that provided I am not tired, and if I am really properly turned on, then everything seems as good as ever. So anyway I will try to keep your very sensible words in mind, remember to take my time, and hope we both carry on enjoying the moment!


EroticMusings2 59F  
661 posts
9/2/2021 9:02 am

    Quoting hotdreamer1000:
    This is very reassuring, 'Musings, but I'm not sure many men will easily accept it. Of course you are 100% right that as long as you both feel good it doesn't matter, but for most men (and perhaps for women too) being in full working order does help you feel sexy I think. I haven't noticed any difficulty reaching orgasm yet, but I do notice I get soft much more quickly afterwards, and although I wouldn't say it worries me exactly, I don't like it.

    I'm not sure how much it is about feeling inadequate or anything like that, because I don't feel inadequate. I think it has more to do with the simple evidence that the body is coming to the end of its working life! I don't want the process to worsen!

    Happily, I have noticed that provided I am not tired, and if I am really properly turned on, then everything seems as good as ever. So anyway I will try to keep your very sensible words in mind, remember to take my time, and hope we both carry on enjoying the moment!
Thank you for your comment. I loe hearing from anyone who can relate to my posts. I have noticed that I do not reach orgasmic bliss as fast as before. Once I went through menopause it took awhile to even get the natural juices going. I had to work on it, basically exercising through toys, fingers....It was hard work there for awhile but slowly my sexual libido returned to its former state. But I hate, when I see or hear of any man especially who feel less then because of natural aging or medical reasons. As long as you are still breathing, you are still sexy.

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EroticMusings2 59F  
661 posts
9/2/2021 9:03 am

    Quoting  :

Absolutely, sliding into bases, taking your time teasing and playing. Thank you for the comment.

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OldFashionedGu3 61M
8 posts
9/2/2021 9:21 am

Very well said. Thank you for sharing.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
9/2/2021 9:28 am

I see a difference also with age. However, the long sensual act and intiimacy, as long as he can kiss, is just as enjoyable.


lee4932 74M

9/2/2021 9:43 am

being happy with the person you are with and understand what they like and dislike and them understanding your wants and needs goes a long ways.you must like each other and want to do what pleases you both.


Apollo602021 63M

9/2/2021 1:07 pm

No a home run all the time anymore but once i get to first base I usually have fun going around the bases all the way home!

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EroticMusings2 59F  
661 posts
9/2/2021 3:26 pm

Thank you for taking the time to comment.

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EroticMusings2 59F  
661 posts
9/2/2021 3:27 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    I see a difference also with age. However, the long sensual act and intiimacy, as long as he can kiss, is just as enjoyable.
Exactly, making the connection with another person, the simple act of touching and being touched is what truly matters.

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


EroticMusings2 59F  
661 posts
9/2/2021 3:28 pm

    Quoting lee4932:
    being happy with the person you are with and understand what they like and dislike and them understanding your wants and needs goes a long ways.you must like each other and want to do what pleases you both.
Exactly, friends first and foremost and then talking and understanding what each other likes and wants is paramount.

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


EroticMusings2 59F  
661 posts
9/2/2021 3:29 pm

    Quoting Apollo602021:
    No a home run all the time anymore but once i get to first base I usually have fun going around the bases all the way home!
It is so much fun going around each base, maybe going back to the base behind you even. Being cheered on helps too. Now where did I leave my Pom Poms this time>?.

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
9/2/2021 5:32 pm

Well if it not working there are other ways to get you wet .
If there's a will there a way.
Ild have you satisfied long before I need to cum
But if I can't perform ild see the Dr for help


EroticMusings2 59F  
661 posts
9/2/2021 8:16 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    Well if it not working there are other ways to get you wet .
    If there's a will there a way.
    Ild have you satisfied long before I need to cum
    But if I can't perform ild see the Dr for help
That is the best way, see a doctor first. There are alot of different drugs that greatly help. Then there are toys, and different ways to go about getting a man to have a internal orgasm even if he does not ejaculate. But still very intense and fun.

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jajo696 113F
4287 posts
9/2/2021 11:45 pm

Its never been about the destination for me.....its always about the journey ~


EroticMusings2 59F  
661 posts
9/3/2021 8:25 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    Its never been about the destination for me.....its always about the journey ~
Very well put, thank you for commenting.

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