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Is AFF a secret from everyone who knows you?  

Wifepleaser994 29M
22 posts
7/22/2021 2:49 pm

The only reason I don’t show my face. I can send it privately but not out to everyone.


minnyguy218 43M
6 posts
7/23/2021 4:49 am

My job is fairly public, so discretion is a must for me.


DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/23/2021 6:20 am:
Understood! This is exactly the point I have made earlier in this post. There is often more at stake than just a marriage or taking a chance and showing ones face.

ShaKeaRxoox 23M
21 posts
7/23/2021 2:38 pm

    Quoting lust4life59:
    I don't shout it from the rooftops, but then again I don't attempt to hide it either.

    But then again, I'm on a site much much more sexually explicit than this one.
which site ?


ShaKeaRxoox 23M
21 posts
7/23/2021 2:41 pm

Of course, my family does not know, but there is no one in my friend group who does not know. 😅


landedinSC 55M
2 posts
7/23/2021 4:56 pm

Nobody I know would have a clue I am here or enjoy bisex every once in a while


DiscreteSlowRide 54M
384 posts
7/23/2021 7:36 pm

    Quoting  :

Agreed!


HornyBoy6969767 47M
72 posts
7/23/2021 9:41 pm

I am on here because I like fine lookin women. Everybody knows that anyways.


DiscreteSlowRide 54M
384 posts
7/24/2021 8:07 pm

    Quoting  :

Some people post comments to stir the pot a bit. Or her tone could have been heavy sarcasm.
Almost everyone else gets it.


APTman 47M  
59 posts
7/24/2021 8:18 pm

looking for a more sexually explicit site...


Mainer04401388 44M

7/25/2021 4:22 am

Secret.....shhhh be berry berry quiet.......hahaha hunting beaver


LoneRider440 53M
7 posts
7/25/2021 7:08 am

It's not something that comes up in everyday conversation, so it's nothing to just talk about in a vanilla setting. If and when I find people that are truly interested in the lifestyle and all it has to offer, I let them know.


Dacaterangler26 55M  
16 posts
7/26/2021 6:52 am

never tell anyone its my HAPPY SPACE


oceans269 64T
10 posts
7/27/2021 3:53 am

I like to stay discreet


oralfixation2u 67M
61 posts
7/27/2021 8:42 am

I don't keep it from EVERYONE I know, but most don't have any idea. I've shared my bisexuality with a more than a couple of women I've had sexual relations with, mostly because they wanted to be involved.


BBWjawn 39F

7/27/2021 11:10 am

no one knows im on here lmao


wvuandjmu1963 60M

7/27/2021 3:43 pm

i like to be discreet about it


DiscreteSlowRide 54M
384 posts
7/27/2021 4:38 pm

    Quoting BBWjawn:
    no one knows im on here lmao
Your secret is safe here


DiscreteSlowRide 54M
384 posts
7/27/2021 4:39 pm

I hear that!


JondiceAgain 33M

7/27/2021 8:39 pm

Definitely a secret lol


shelene6443 34F
4 posts
7/28/2021 6:38 am

850 800 3699 txt me


ItsThtPervertGuy 44M
484 posts
7/28/2021 10:22 pm

Why does everyone need too know all parts of my life? I agree with the blog creator's comment when one poster said people should man up and stop acting like a Bitch. Who is this person to tell others what they should and should not do. Like Discreet Slow Ride said. most people have Government jobs and are Business owners teacher and so forth. So you mean to tell me a teacher should post their face on a site like this? Even if it is a face pic seeing it on a site like this people minds already goes too that place!

What if your kids friends or a family member sees you here or your parents. That would be awkward .Most people just blurt of comments and do not think. That is why if I always ask for a face pic. The woman could be a relative or something!

I am not hiding nor is it a secret. It is my own personal private time where I chose to indulge in my kinks and freaks and mild fetishes and look for other woman with the same likes.

Anyway Why would I broadcast I am A Kinky Freaky Pervert??


tooshay_turtle 42M
35 posts
7/29/2021 7:50 am

    Quoting ItsThtPervertGuy:
    Why does everyone need too know all parts of my life? I agree with the blog creator's comment when one poster said people should man up and stop acting like a Bitch. Who is this person to tell others what they should and should not do. Like Discreet Slow Ride said. most people have Government jobs and are Business owners teacher and so forth. So you mean to tell me a teacher should post their face on a site like this? Even if it is a face pic seeing it on a site like this people minds already goes too that place!

    What if your kids friends or a family member sees you here or your parents. That would be awkward .Most people just blurt of comments and do not think. That is why if I always ask for a face pic. The woman could be a relative or something!

    I am not hiding nor is it a secret. It is my own personal private time where I chose to indulge in my kinks and freaks and mild fetishes and look for other woman with the same likes.

    Anyway Why would I broadcast I am A Kinky Freaky Pervert??
Although I agree that no one has the right to tell anyone what to do, the rest of your post is totally ignorant. This line of "a site like this" is the problem. So what is this site? Why do you see it as dirty or wrong to be here? I don't and many others don't. There is nothing dirty or wrong in wanting a healthy sex life. Now, if you are doing something you consider wrong or dirty that you have to hide it fine, but don't condemn everyone on the site including myself as we are doing something we should hide from people by being on here. Would it be awkward to find a friend or family member here? Probably a family member, but I have found friends I knew as well as friends I knew found me here. None of them said "omfg shame on you for doing this." Why? Because they are here too!!!! DUH!!!! Maybe you didn't think when you blurted this out, but if they are here they are doing the same thing you are doing unless you are again doing something really that should be hidden. I have yet to go to a restaurant and have someone at that same restaurant condemn me for going there when they are there too. Same for here. Scenario, you ask for a face pic and find out they ARE a friend/family member now what???? Someone asks you for a face pic and finds out you are friend/family member now what???? They are going to ask for a face pic just like you. It happens!! Maybe this place is there personal private time where they choose to indulge in their kinds and freaks and mild fetishes just like you. You don't own the site so you can't tell friends and family members they can't be here just because you are here either. ROFLMAO I am sure they are not broadcasting it any more than you are, but seriously, if you are not doing something illegal or against the law there is no reason to act like being here is or insinuate that others here are doing something shameful either.

I personally don't care who knows I am here. I am here doing something that is healty and makes a person happy.


tooshay_turtle 42M
35 posts
7/29/2021 7:53 am

Before anyone says it, I know I don't have a photo up!!! I didn't put one up because I am not so much actively looking to meet people as I am not here that often. I just peruse the blogs every now and then nowadays. I took the photo down as it wasn't necessary when I am not looking for that. lol My profile reflects it too.


DiscreteSlowRide 54M
384 posts
7/29/2021 9:32 am

    Quoting tooshay_turtle:
    Before anyone says it, I know I don't have a photo up!!! I didn't put one up because I am not so much actively looking to meet people as I am not here that often. I just peruse the blogs every now and then nowadays. I took the photo down as it wasn't necessary when I am not looking for that. lol My profile reflects it too.
You don't have to explain to anyone the reason you do not have a picture posted. It's your call. People can either accept it or not.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/29/2021 11:14 am

It's only the most natural thing humans can do with each other.Hiding would imply that it's something dirty.Not to mention what does hiding say about the very people here that you're looking for?
Most probably don't want to hear,"You're looking for sex on the internet?That's seems a bit dicey,what are you that desperate.You need to get out more often!"

Using more than all the road!


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