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Careful what you wish for...  

Suggestible2 53M
2 posts
2/19/2021 4:33 am
Careful what you wish for...

I met F on a pretty low rent contacts section on a pretty low rent website. I didn't really expect to meet anyone at all, but things escalated and we met soon after talking, for a coffee.

I thought I had struck gold. She was a little<b> younger </font></b>than me (but not much), loved being a dominant woman, and whilst physically she wasn't really my type, she was indisputably a sexy woman. I always make my intentions clear in these situations from the outset. I'm a horrible liar. And she was happy with the arrangement. Game on, I thought. And lucky ol' me.

Being frank though, there was no chemistry between us. She must have felt that too, but both of us looked past this and persisted, hoping that in the very least we could do a bit of mutual scratching of itches.

We carried on talking on WhatsApp and met again for a coffee, to seal the deal, or so I thought. But no. What we discussed would no longer work for her. I'm okay with stuff like this - a man tends to get more philosophical as he gets older. Women too, no doubt.

But during the rejection, she talked about her business and I offered to help her. So, to summarise, I go to meet a sexy woman to discuss us meeting up to have kinky sex, and I leave having agreed to put some spreadsheets together for her.

You have to laugh at life's outrageous fortune sometimes.

Then the lockdowns started to happen. We kept in touch, chatting from time to time, and something changed. Not my allure, I'm sure, but she obviously got bored, and one day out of the blue said that she would like to have a scene with me.

I was extremely excited, and for weeks, we discussed likes and dislikes, sent porn vids showing stuff we liked and the day loomed. I set up a makeshift dungeon in the expansive garage. She arrived, annoyed and tense. She inspected the dungeon, told me to strip off and went off to get changed.

She returned, couldn't open the garage door in her heels, so I had to go and do it, which kind of ruined the mood a little. And then it started.

What followed was the most appalling 14 minutes of my life. Nothing we had discussed was done. She jumped in like a bull in a china shop and knocked the bejesus out of me. I nearly threw up with the appalling pain. After less than fifteen minutes, with a bleeding and bruised cock, she declared me inadequate for her needs and called a halt to the proceedings.

Never have I been so disappointed and so relieved at the same time.

Does any actually read these, or is their only purpose to be a catharsis for the author?

lust4life59 65F  
2552 posts
3/10/2021 1:47 pm

 "Does anyone actualy read these? "

Obvviously I did. hahaha

I'm sorry that happened to you. In terms of having a BDSM play date vs a regular "vanilla" meet, I've been disapointed more times on the kink side rather than just a regular meet. I dont know if the expectations are higher?, or we don't speak the same language perhaps? We can negotiate for hours, but if your definition of CBT involves a little bondage and ball stretching and theirs involves needles, blood and sharp pain. maybe further definitions of certain terms might work.

And you were inadequate for her needs? lol SOund sounds like she was also inadequate for yours.

Good luck........be safe.


Suggestible2 53M

3/13/2021 4:27 am

 Hey. Thanks for taking the time!

Yeah, we talked loads. I knew that she was more into impact play than I am, so I had said to her what my hard limits were, and we exchanged loads of ideas and made agreements, but it was like she didn't listen at all. She just jumped in like a bull in a china shop. I mean, surely you have to up the pain gradually, don't you?

I appreciate your sympathy, but I was just really disappointed more than anything else. Months of communication for a shitty experience that lasted less than a quarter of an hour! I think if you put yourself in a situation like that then you have to take responsibility if it goes south. There are always risks involved.

Thanks for stopping by. Really. I have got nowhere on here with anyone (I think my profile picture isn't doing me any favours!), so it's nice to actually chat with someone.


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