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Is a Blow job enough???  

Ellasboudoir 59F
1064 posts
4/28/2021 6:15 pm
Is a Blow job enough???


So my fellow playmates a question for you.

Is a BJ enough for a man or does he need intercourse every time??

Some nights I just want suck my guy's cock while I finger my wet pussy. I love go my fantasy world in my head while I am sucking his thick coc I pretend like it tastes like some other chick's pussy and I am cleaning up 's cock for him after he has fucked her hard. I don't want any talking or interaction from him just let use your cock for my pleasure. Is this wrong? Am I using him like a toy? Does a man need interaction and intercourse every time or can you be satisfied with just getting your cock sucked??

Thanks for your feedback it helps us chicks be better partners to our guys.

Love,

Ella

Rayateu 68M
264 posts
4/28/2021 7:36 pm

Absolutely!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
4/28/2021 7:49 pm

Not all guys are the same. I was with a woman who had a 'technique' that was great so with her "just a blow job" was much more.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


riverlink101 53M
5 posts
4/28/2021 7:51 pm

Fuck it or suck it, pat my belly and i'd roll over and sleep well... Thanks for asking!!


able202 63M
3108 posts
4/28/2021 7:55 pm

A blow job is nice... But I'd rather eat her pussy till she cums and cums. Make her cum at least twice then a blow job or intercourse or even a hand job. But I so love making a woman cum with my tongue...And I love the thought of your eating a hot chick's pussy too. It would be so hot to eat you while you eat another chick. what we do is never wrong as long as no one is hurt. that is why fantasies are so good.... so suck cock and imagine licking clit.... and enjoy....

Able202


letsplay65655 68M  
70 posts
4/28/2021 8:05 pm

Sometimes a good blowjob is just fine.......If on other times I can just crawl in between those legs and eat that pussy til you cum over and over,,, I don't have to get off every time, but knowing you did would be enough


Getting_Busy 66M

4/28/2021 8:11 pm

Personally I love blowjobs BUT nothing beats the heat of intercourse. Don’t get me wrong...if a blowjob is all that’s on the menu that day...I’m in!


DaStorm4 38M  
1 post
4/28/2021 8:13 pm

If i had you, it would be either or, which you would feel comfortable with? I wouldn't mind either way


dell9600 67M  
1426 posts
4/28/2021 8:21 pm

That would be fine with me. Your man is a very lucky guy!


OlBlueEyz46 57M  
769 posts
4/28/2021 8:35 pm

it doesn't suck! oh wait it does.

I'd say yes


Pleasureatyourse 45M

4/28/2021 11:25 pm

I think a bj is enough from time to time. Love intercourse more but it's good to sit back and have a bj and dont have to do anything in return


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
4/29/2021 1:15 am

Seems like it so some men especially those that fuk for 5 min . Shit I would rather give a blow job just to get him out of my sight . Waste of time


Pleasureinc 60M  
2200 posts
4/29/2021 1:42 am

yes


Koklhr 72M

4/29/2021 2:15 am

Well if he cums from the blow job he might not be able to cum again right away. Many guys realize that their lover needs to suck their cocks.


justme51 72M

4/29/2021 4:21 am

A blow job is wonderful activity and intercourse is not required. Getting sucked off silence is good for I fantasize also getting my cock sucked.


BiLinda1967 56F
276 posts
4/29/2021 4:30 am

I prefer some nights some dates just to suck his cock and not fuck. I always fantasize who’s cock I’m sucking and tasting his seed.

I have private mail on my blog. Tell me your secrets


DiscreetQuirky 55M  
280 posts
4/29/2021 4:44 am

Sure, a blow job is enough sometimes. Normally I need intercourse once in a while. But with an enthusiasm like yours for sucking, who knows?!


Want2ShareOral 66M  
570 posts
4/29/2021 5:35 am

A blowjob IS enough at least once a week and it sounds like you would be the perfect woman to give me one.


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
4/29/2021 5:39 am

sex is about pleasure... pleasure of both people... how each person wants it should be great for both.. an both should beable to have it as they need or desire at the time..


WyoCowboy7751 70M
2537 posts
4/29/2021 5:42 am

I'd consider it a form of Mutual Masturbation , if I can FINGER Her at the same time


Creadence70 102M

4/29/2021 5:46 am

I’ll take a BJ over a fuck every time !


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
4/29/2021 5:55 am

There is no fixed answer. Somedays "just" a blowjob is enough. Somedays it would leave me wanting more. Somedays just watching each other get ourselves off might be fun. Somedays I long to see my partner with another person and have them watch me do the same.

I personally have NO problem being someone's fuck toy, and some nights I just want to be their cuddle buddie too. It's all about variety.

Bubbles, on HNW
Funnies on Aging
She Created Quite a Storm now with Photos REadded
[post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets – Anything you write here is just between us


profcoquin27bis 59M
4323 posts
4/29/2021 7:31 am

I will be happy to be used as a toy for your pleasure


Lkn4funwith2 58M
1216 posts
4/29/2021 9:49 am

A blowjob is more like a quickie, and is not satisfying enough. If a woman loves sucking cock so much that she enjoys sneaking a bj at a public or semi-public place, then awesome! It depends on her attitude... if she does it just to avoid having sex or to have him go away, then she is not worth spending any more time with. There are more women out there who really do love having sex, so the search continues.


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
4/29/2021 9:58 am

Will there be snacks after?? If yes? Then yes it will!!!!!


charlestonmale11 64M
18 posts
4/29/2021 1:12 pm

I enjoy a good bj.....but I also enjoy licking that pussy and tasting the juices......but the choice is yours to make....I can be very quiet and let you do your t hing...


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:20 pm

Good to know. Thank you


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:21 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Not all guys are the same. I was with a woman who had a 'technique' that was great so with her "just a blow job" was much more.
Humm I hope I have a "technique" he seems to act as though I do.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:23 pm

    Quoting riverlink101:
    Fuck it or suck it, pat my belly and i'd roll over and sleep well... Thanks for asking!!
What a good boy you are!! LOL You are welcome. I love to hear men's opinions about getting BJ and women's about giving. So thank you.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:25 pm

    Quoting able202:
    A blow job is nice... But I'd rather eat her pussy till she cums and cums. Make her cum at least twice then a blow job or intercourse or even a hand job. But I so love making a woman cum with my tongue...And I love the thought of your eating a hot chick's pussy too. It would be so hot to eat you while you eat another chick. what we do is never wrong as long as no one is hurt. that is why fantasies are so good.... so suck cock and imagine licking clit.... and enjoy....
Okay understood BUT what if she really wants to just give you a BJ is that not okay??


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:26 pm

    Quoting letsplay65655:
    Sometimes a good blowjob is just fine.......If on other times I can just crawl in between those legs and eat that pussy til you cum over and over,,, I don't have to get off every time, but knowing you did would be enough
Understood but what if giving you a BJ is what she desires the most???


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:26 pm

    Quoting  :

That's my guy right there. All about what I want. Thank you sweet man.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:27 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh yes it is a give and take no doubt.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:28 pm

    Quoting Getting_Busy:
    Personally I love blowjobs BUT nothing beats the heat of intercourse. Don’t get me wrong...if a blowjob is all that’s on the menu that day...I’m in!
Now you talking. That is what I like, a man who wants his girl to be happy even if he has to sacrifice intercourse for a BJ.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:29 pm

    Quoting DaStorm4:
    If i had you, it would be either or, which you would feel comfortable with? I wouldn't mind either way
Look at this young man stepping up and knowing what pleases a woman. He wants me to be comfortable and happy. Thank you!!! Your girl is one lucky lady.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:30 pm

    Quoting  :

Perfect. Thank you for the feedback.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:31 pm

    Quoting  :

So true. Variety is the spice of life but I love when I get my way.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:32 pm

    Quoting dell9600:
    That would be fine with me. Your man is a very lucky guy!
AAAhhhh thank you for the sweet comment. I am the lucky one though.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:32 pm

    Quoting OlBlueEyz46:
    it doesn't suck! oh wait it does.

    I'd say yes
Oh yeah it is suck time...


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:34 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh yes of course he has to cum or what is the point....Thank you for the feedback.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:35 pm

    Quoting Pleasureatyourse:
    I think a bj is enough from time to time. Love intercourse more but it's good to sit back and have a bj and dont have to do anything in return
Oh baby you haven't had one of my BJ's are you might think different.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:36 pm

    Quoting lyavu:
    Seems like it so some men especially those that fuk for 5 min . Shit I would rather give a blow job just to get him out of my sight . Waste of time
I hear you lady... BTW a beautiful pic. Super sexy.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:36 pm

Well, there you go. A man of few words. Thank you.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:38 pm

    Quoting Koklhr:
    Well if he cums from the blow job he might not be able to cum again right away. Many guys realize that their lover needs to suck their cocks.
Hummm true. I just want to please him. I will take care of myself. Thank you for the feedback though.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:38 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you. I love the feedback. Hope your day was lovely too.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:39 pm

    Quoting justme51:
    A blow job is wonderful activity and intercourse is not required. Getting sucked off silence is good for I fantasize also getting my cock sucked.
And a very nice one it looks like you have....


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:40 pm

    Quoting BiLinda1967:
    I prefer some nights some dates just to suck his cock and not fuck. I always fantasize who’s cock I’m sucking and tasting his seed.
Me too lady. Depends on my mood. Thank you for visiting my blog.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:41 pm

    Quoting DiscreetQuirky:
    Sure, a blow job is enough sometimes. Normally I need intercourse once in a while. But with an enthusiasm like yours for sucking, who knows?!
There you go sexy. Just keep me happy. Let Moma do what makes her happy.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:42 pm

    Quoting Want2ShareOral:
    A blowjob IS enough at least once a week and it sounds like you would be the perfect woman to give me one.
LOL well thanks for the offer.


mdfor3 62M/59F
3 posts
4/29/2021 1:42 pm

For us, it depends on the situation. Only a blowjob can be such a tease! Or "only" a blowjob can be a sweet reward! LOL. Who knew that blowjobs can be so situational?

And if you happen to be in control, well, then, it really isn't a choice now at all, is it...


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:43 pm

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    sex is about pleasure... pleasure of both people... how each person wants it should be great for both.. an both should beable to have it as they need or desire at the time..
EXACTLY!!! Well said my friend.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:44 pm

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    I'd consider it a form of Mutual Masturbation , if I can FINGER Her at the same time
Oh you a bad boy. But I would have you so wound up you wouldn't be able to concentrate on pleasuring me.....


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:45 pm

    Quoting Creadence70:
    I’ll take a BJ over a fuck every time !
Well there you go. BTW nice cock for a 99 year old man...


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:46 pm

    Quoting CleavageFan4U:
    There is no fixed answer. Somedays "just" a blowjob is enough. Somedays it would leave me wanting more. Somedays just watching each other get ourselves off might be fun. Somedays I long to see my partner with another person and have them watch me do the same.

    I personally have NO problem being someone's fuck toy, and some nights I just want to be their cuddle buddie too. It's all about variety.

    Bubbles, on HNW
    Funnies on Aging
    She Created Quite a Storm now with Photos REadded
    [post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets – Anything you write here is just between us
Very true and sounds perfect. Thank you again for your feedback. A wise man you are.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:47 pm

    Quoting profcoquin27bis:
    I will be happy to be used as a toy for your pleasure
Now you talking. I love a man who all wants to make me happy.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:49 pm

    Quoting Lkn4funwith2:
    A blowjob is more like a quickie, and is not satisfying enough. If a woman loves sucking cock so much that she enjoys sneaking a bj at a public or semi-public place, then awesome! It depends on her attitude... if she does it just to avoid having sex or to have him go away, then she is not worth spending any more time with. There are more women out there who really do love having sex, so the search continues.
Now Now you must not have had a BJ like I give. I promise you, you would be satisfied. I would never leave a man longing for more. When I am done all he wants to do is sleep..... Hope your search is successful soon.


IfWeHadaWish 63M/60F

4/29/2021 1:50 pm

yup, sometimes just cumming is all i crave. NO work, lay back and let a good mouth suck in and down.
I love watching a woman suck pussy juice off me, my loves to suck another womans juices off me too.

When we play, everyone gets pleasure


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:54 pm

    Quoting mdfor3:
    For us, it depends on the situation. Only a blowjob can be such a tease! Or "only" a blowjob can be a sweet reward! LOL. Who knew that blowjobs can be so situational?

    And if you happen to be in control, well, then, it really isn't a choice now at all, is it...
Very true... But good to know that most men on here seeing it as a good thing though. But you are right as with all things it just depends on the situation.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:55 pm

    Quoting IfWeHadaWish:
    yup, sometimes just cumming is all i crave. NO work, lay back and let a good mouth suck in and down.
    I love watching a woman suck pussy juice off me, my loves to suck another womans juices off me too.

    When we play, everyone gets pleasure
LOL exactly just lay back and enjoy. Thank you for the feedback. I love hearing how other couples play.


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
4/29/2021 3:46 pm

It all depends on how much time we have. If we got the time why not do all we can. if she wants to suck me and make me cum I'll take it. As a matter of preference I want it all. But, I will always take what is offered.


kamaruhl3 63M
4985 posts
4/29/2021 4:12 pm

bj yummy but want to watch girl get pleasure too


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 5:27 pm

    Quoting NJGUY08090:
    It all depends on how much time we have. If we got the time why not do all we can. if she wants to suck me and make me cum I'll take it. As a matter of preference I want it all. But, I will always take what is offered.
Makes sense. I like and want it all too.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 5:28 pm

    Quoting kamaruhl3:
    bj yummy but want to watch girl get pleasure too
Yeessss great answer


BruceWayne983 40M
143 posts
4/30/2021 2:21 am

Blowjob alone can definitely be enough sometimes. If the woman is really into it and enjoying it as much (or nearly) as I am then it can be pretty intense. The women who love it also tend to have a better technique which of course feels better too. It depends on how turned on I am and how good the woman is - usually I can cum from a blowjob alone or at least bj+hands, but only if I can't cum for whatever reason then I would want some pussy to help me finish


Heels_N_Squeals 50F
68 posts
4/30/2021 3:07 am

It all really narrows down to the two partners in the end. People are all over the map on how much they do or don't like something more than something else. My personal opinions are these:

* Communication is key to any healthy and successful relationship! Talk these things out openly with your other half. Depending on how long you've two have or have not been together, you may or may not know what turns him on more than other things. Talk these things over, experiment and know what your partner enjoys a lot, what he doesn't enjoy at all or what he finds mediocre.

* It is not a bad thing to have balancing acts in your relationship. Things do not always have to be 50/50 in the bedroom per each sexual encounter, but just be sure that your overall give and take sexual relationship remains 50/50 (if that makes any sense). I'd say that it's an honor to want to pleasure your partner at times without any reciprocation expected. Sex doesn't always have to be intercourse....not by any means! Just try to keep give and take sessions balanced and not always one-sided.

* Another key point to stress in a healthy relationship is VARIETY! There's nothing that dulls down a sexual relationship more than predictability. Intercourse each and every time (or in the very same position or sequence of positions) gets old. Mix things up and do it often! Allow for solely a bj night....and vice versa another night for oral to only you. Mix up positions. Try new ones. Surprise each other with something they didn't see coming. Have him and you wear a variety of different bedroom outfits. Role play. Or whatever else may float your boat. It's not always about intercourse each and every time. Me and ex boyfriends used to do a variety of different things to keep sex fun, enjoyable, lively and exciting! Have you ever tried mutual masturbation sessions? Toys? What about tittyfucks? Just experiment, talk together with your partner and roll with what turns out. I certainly don't think that any man is honestly going to be complaining about getting a bj or to be sexually "used" by his female partner. Lol. So sure, it's fine. You can do your thing, regardless if he knows that you're fantasizing of other things along the way. Roll with it and have fun. In the end, it's all done for love and care for one another.


magictonguesc13 55M
56 posts
4/30/2021 7:54 am

It doesn't matter as long as EVERYONE is on the "same page" and in the mood! ....and I usually like to return the favor by using my tongue for oral too!!!!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/30/2021 12:42 pm

    Quoting BruceWayne983:
    Blowjob alone can definitely be enough sometimes. If the woman is really into it and enjoying it as much (or nearly) as I am then it can be pretty intense. The women who love it also tend to have a better technique which of course feels better too. It depends on how turned on I am and how good the woman is - usually I can cum from a blowjob alone or at least bj+hands, but only if I can't cum for whatever reason then I would want some pussy to help me finish
Understood and oh do I ever love giving my guy a BJ! I can literally cum from the excitement of him blowing his load in my mouth. I am addicted to it.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/30/2021 12:46 pm

    Quoting Heels_N_Squeals:
    It all really narrows down to the two partners in the end. People are all over the map on how much they do or don't like something more than something else. My personal opinions are these:

    * Communication is key to any healthy and successful relationship! Talk these things out openly with your other half. Depending on how long you've two have or have not been together, you may or may not know what turns him on more than other things. Talk these things over, experiment and know what your partner enjoys a lot, what he doesn't enjoy at all or what he finds mediocre.

    * It is not a bad thing to have balancing acts in your relationship. Things do not always have to be 50/50 in the bedroom per each sexual encounter, but just be sure that your overall give and take sexual relationship remains 50/50 (if that makes any sense). I'd say that it's an honor to want to pleasure your partner at times without any reciprocation expected. Sex doesn't always have to be intercourse....not by any means! Just try to keep give and take sessions balanced and not always one-sided.

    * Another key point to stress in a healthy relationship is VARIETY! There's nothing that dulls down a sexual relationship more than predictability. Intercourse each and every time (or in the very same position or sequence of positions) gets old. Mix things up and do it often! Allow for solely a bj night....and vice versa another night for oral to only you. Mix up positions. Try new ones. Surprise each other with something they didn't see coming. Have him and you wear a variety of different bedroom outfits. Role play. Or whatever else may float your boat. It's not always about intercourse each and every time. Me and ex boyfriends used to do a variety of different things to keep sex fun, enjoyable, lively and exciting! Have you ever tried mutual masturbation sessions? Toys? What about tittyfucks? Just experiment, talk together with your partner and roll with what turns out. I certainly don't think that any man is honestly going to be complaining about getting a bj or to be sexually "used" by his female partner. Lol. So sure, it's fine. You can do your thing, regardless if he knows that you're fantasizing of other things along the way. Roll with it and have fun. In the end, it's all done for love and care for one another.
Agree. I just like to hear other men's and women's views on what they consider "okay". I have no complaints and so far he doesn't either. Thank you for stopping by. I love the feedback.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/30/2021 12:46 pm

    Quoting magictonguesc13:
    It doesn't matter as long as EVERYONE is on the "same page" and in the mood! ....and I usually like to return the favor by using my tongue for oral too!!!!
Well there you go... Thank you. I agree 100%


wolfmartins9 43M

4/30/2021 6:13 pm

i wantt making love to you baby


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/30/2021 6:37 pm


bitchmaker1 67M

4/30/2021 6:44 pm

My ex-wife always had the preference of giving a blow job every day and maybe intercourse once a week.Everyone has something that they like better.As long as you are both happy I see no problem.


WhoWantssumfunnn 43M
30 posts
5/1/2021 4:08 pm

I prefer to be the one going down on my lady makes me get hard as a rock


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/1/2021 6:04 pm

    Quoting bitchmaker1:
    My ex-wife always had the preference of giving a blow job every day and maybe intercourse once a week.Everyone has something that they like better.As long as you are both happy I see no problem.
Very true. Thank you for the feedback.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/1/2021 6:05 pm

    Quoting WhoWantssumfunnn:
    I prefer to be the one going down on my lady makes me get hard as a rock
Understood. But this is what I desire so each to their own I suppose. Good for your girl though.


tallcreekgent 57M
2 posts
5/1/2021 7:25 pm

hell no a good sub will always want to suck her dom cock with intercorce and if you want to taste anther woman on his cock tell you do and dont be scared to tell him what you what cause he just might give it to you do you like tasting your own your cum m=on his cock?


kamaruhl3 63M
4985 posts
5/2/2021 7:51 am

bj is enough if i get to taste her too. even if it's just her fingers


Westernpahunter 40M
28 posts
5/3/2021 9:09 am

I would rather fuck then get a blowjob


Gary545454 65M
635 posts
5/3/2021 1:21 pm

you can suck mine anytime and I won't complain!


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
5/4/2021 8:44 am

A BJ is just what the Dr ordered many times.


Cordonrouge5 59M  
109 posts
5/4/2021 11:18 am

A good cock-sucking can be great. I once had a girlfriend who called me up one afternoon and told me she'd be over in five minutes. She wanted me naked, standing in the middle of the living room floor and to not say anything when she got there. She came bursting in a few minutes later dropped to her knees in front of me, blew me 'til I came, swallowed and left without so much as a word. Very fun stuff.


JustaOralLover 54M
2 posts
5/4/2021 4:34 pm

I don't think there is anything wrong with that . Sometimes its just nice to get a blow job without having expectations for more . The same can be said for flicking that little bean with a talented tongue . If giving a blowjob while you finger yourself is your pleasure that is what should matter. As long as your partner gets his time for what pleasures him the most on other occasions as well .

There are some of us who get more pleasure from oral whether getting or giving !


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/4/2021 8:14 pm

    Quoting kamaruhl3:
    bj is enough if i get to taste her too. even if it's just her fingers
Well of course!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/4/2021 8:14 pm

Well Ok then...


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/4/2021 8:15 pm

    Quoting cyclingfool:
    A BJ is just what the Dr ordered many times.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/4/2021 8:16 pm

    Quoting Cordonrouge5:
    A good cock-sucking can be great. I once had a girlfriend who called me up one afternoon and told me she'd be over in five minutes. She wanted me naked, standing in the middle of the living room floor and to not say anything when she got there. She came bursting in a few minutes later dropped to her knees in front of me, blew me 'til I came, swallowed and left without so much as a word. Very fun stuff.
Now that is super hot!!! Lucky man.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/4/2021 8:17 pm

    Quoting JustaOralLover:
    I don't think there is anything wrong with that . Sometimes its just nice to get a blow job without having expectations for more . The same can be said for flicking that little bean with a talented tongue . If giving a blowjob while you finger yourself is your pleasure that is what should matter. As long as your partner gets his time for what pleasures him the most on other occasions as well .

    There are some of us who get more pleasure from oral whether getting or giving !
Soooo true!!!!!!!!


hogknot 57M
1059 posts
5/5/2021 7:57 am

I don't see how sucking a guys cock is using him. You both are getting pleasure from it. Laying down and doing nothing but relaxing while your woman blows you is a great way to spend an evening. The sights and sounds are fantastic. The addition of her fingering herself is icing on the cake.
I saw blow away any time you want.


Haardnthicck50 48M

5/5/2021 11:09 am

I would love to watch you suck it and finger your pussy. That is so hot.


justme51 72M

5/5/2021 7:16 pm

Your welcome


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/5/2021 8:35 pm

    Quoting hogknot:
    I don't see how sucking a guys cock is using him. You both are getting pleasure from it. Laying down and doing nothing but relaxing while your woman blows you is a great way to spend an evening. The sights and sounds are fantastic. The addition of her fingering herself is icing on the cake.
    I saw blow away any time you want.
Well thank you I think I will.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/5/2021 8:36 pm

    Quoting Haardnthicck50:
    I would love to watch you suck it and finger your pussy. That is so hot.
Maybe one day I will video it.


FunNewGuy1000 63M
511 posts
5/6/2021 11:35 am

<----is a "giver", not a "taker"......


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:34 pm

Okay then...LOL


vms52 64M  
32 posts
5/7/2021 11:27 am

Good enough on occasion but not all the time.


Art4urPleasure 57M

5/7/2021 12:04 pm

Oh my, your thoughts are so erotic. For me your could just have your way, suck my cock the way you want, fantasize about who your are tasting on my cock and never be afraid to tell me to just kick back. It is perfectly alright to say "hey, this is all about you" and say no more, just do it as you slide your finger into your kittie. I will never know.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/7/2021 1:50 pm

    Quoting Art4urPleasure:
    Oh my, your thoughts are so erotic. For me your could just have your way, suck my cock the way you want, fantasize about who your are tasting on my cock and never be afraid to tell me to just kick back. It is perfectly alright to say "hey, this is all about you" and say no more, just do it as you slide your finger into your kittie. I will never know.
WOW!!!!! OK THEN


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/7/2021 1:51 pm

    Quoting vms52:
    Good enough on occasion but not all the time.
Aaahhh not even for a sweet lady who begged you??


The1Candyman 59M
8 posts
5/8/2021 6:26 am

i am good with just getting a Bj any time getting woke up like that in the afternoon or being tucked in to bed with a Bj all good as long as she swollows lol


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/8/2021 9:01 am

    Quoting The1Candyman:
    i am good with just getting a Bj any time getting woke up like that in the afternoon or being tucked in to bed with a Bj all good as long as she swollows lol
Well the candy man can.....


Go_Down_Cowboy_2 62M
1009 posts
5/8/2021 10:28 am

No Ma'am! A blow job is enough! I'll let you use me anytime you want! Please...use me and I would love to help, lend a hand or tongue or whatever you need.
Doc


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/8/2021 11:35 am

    Quoting Go_Down_Cowboy_2:
    No Ma'am! A blow job is enough! I'll let you use me anytime you want! Please...use me and I would love to help, lend a hand or tongue or whatever you need.
    Doc
Ummm I love me some cowboy!!! Thank you for the feedback.


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
5/9/2021 7:25 pm

masturbation hot and suckd


stuffedBumm269 51M

5/10/2021 2:00 pm

Anyone complaining of a blowjob only tonight menu isnt thinking with the right head...but nothing is hotter than a sloppy wett 69! Give me one or the other 5 times a week and there would be no complaints


MSL1961 62M

5/11/2021 3:50 am

It's not like we don't have the same fantasies when eating your pussy or fucking you from behind - if only you knew who we were fantasising about sometimes....
For me, sometimes I love to just eat her while she's doing something else, just for the joint pleasure of it, and happy when she just gets my dick out randomly when I walk through the door, or having breakfast.
So for me, no, intercourse not required, joint pleasure paramount.


luvoldwmn515 51M

5/11/2021 7:29 am

At time a blow job would suffice. But I generally like oral as an appetizer to the main dish of intercourse.


ItsThtPervertGuy 44M
484 posts
5/11/2021 9:41 pm

Absolutely! Just like some nights days I just want to lick and suck on the pussy! If she is good to great at it though then it REALLY turns me on So hard to not want sex!


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
212 posts
5/13/2021 5:34 pm

you gotta stroke iT suk iT fuk iT guide iT slide iT ride iT cuM on iT twerk iT work iT!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/13/2021 5:57 pm

    Quoting stuffedBumm269:
    Anyone complaining of a blowjob only tonight menu isnt thinking with the right head...but nothing is hotter than a sloppy wett 69! Give me one or the other 5 times a week and there would be no complaints
LOL. Good to know.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/13/2021 5:58 pm

    Quoting MSL1961:
    It's not like we don't have the same fantasies when eating your pussy or fucking you from behind - if only you knew who we were fantasising about sometimes....
    For me, sometimes I love to just eat her while she's doing something else, just for the joint pleasure of it, and happy when she just gets my dick out randomly when I walk through the door, or having breakfast.
    So for me, no, intercourse not required, joint pleasure paramount.
Not sure you actually read my blog but ok.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/13/2021 5:58 pm

    Quoting luvoldwmn515:
    At time a blow job would suffice. But I generally like oral as an appetizer to the main dish of intercourse.
Understood


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/13/2021 6:00 pm

    Quoting  :

So true.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/13/2021 6:00 pm

    Quoting bdsmDOMdaddy:
    you gotta stroke iT suk iT fuk iT guide iT slide iT ride iT cuM on iT twerk iT work iT!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/15/2021 8:18 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes Sir it does. Thank you for sharing


youngcock_912 38M
14 posts
5/16/2021 4:05 pm

Absolutely, especially if you are to explain it like that! Very hot


Getoutandabout93 30M
20 posts
5/16/2021 11:19 pm

Do whatever works for you. Don't feel like you have to do something just because someone else wants it.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/17/2021 2:19 pm

    Quoting youngcock_912:
    Absolutely, especially if you are to explain it like that! Very hot
Ohhh thank you


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/17/2021 2:19 pm

    Quoting Getoutandabout93:
    Do whatever works for you. Don't feel like you have to do something just because someone else wants it.


jc_powerman 63M  
254 posts
5/18/2021 8:30 am

It depends on the situation. Sometimes just a blowjob is enough for her and I. Other times it is part of exstended play. . At times it is just a tease from her to me which I do highly enjoy as well as her. . So leading to intercourse it does not have to happen.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/18/2021 7:06 pm

    Quoting jc_powerman:
    It depends on the situation. Sometimes just a blowjob is enough for her and I. Other times it is part of exstended play. . At times it is just a tease from her to me which I do highly enjoy as well as her. . So leading to intercourse it does not have to happen.
Yes, I agree, depends on the situation.


trisexual1369 114F
20 posts
5/19/2021 9:51 am

Blow job should be enough especially if he cums but he might want you're pussy too 💋💋💋


Hrny1616 25M
13 posts
5/19/2021 11:14 am

I’d prefer it that way lol


midhard1 67M
325 posts
5/19/2021 2:26 pm

In my opinion, a good relationship, there is give and take. Sometimes one, then the other is in control and sometimes there is shared control. In a bj the woman is in control and this is great. So, okay for me.

Comments on my blog "midhard1" or on my erotic stories welcomed.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 2:37 pm

    Quoting trisexual1369:
    Blow job should be enough especially if he cums but he might want you're pussy too 💋💋💋
Very true. Thank you for stopping by.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 2:37 pm

    Quoting Hrny1616:
    I’d prefer it that way lol
Well okay then.


Callmipadre 43M
21 posts
5/20/2021 12:32 am

I just want to eat some pussy


CockSard75 48M

5/20/2021 7:24 pm

Not at all. Sometimes its nice to just get a blowjob...just like sometimes it's nice to just eat her and thatd all. My ex used to catch me off guard occasionally and start undoing my jeans and once asked what she was doing and she said "dont worry about it - I know what I want and I'm taking it. I wanna suck cock". Lol. So yeah guys, if she wants to let her. Some women just enjoy it.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/21/2021 6:07 pm

    Quoting CockSard75:
    Not at all. Sometimes its nice to just get a blowjob...just like sometimes it's nice to just eat her and thatd all. My ex used to catch me off guard occasionally and start undoing my jeans and once asked what she was doing and she said "dont worry about it - I know what I want and I'm taking it. I wanna suck cock". Lol. So yeah guys, if she wants to let her. Some women just enjoy it.
Yep its all about taking turns.


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
5/23/2021 6:14 am

Can be enough, but it’s generally an appetizer for me and I have to have pussy almost every time


Unzipmeslowly51 54M

5/24/2021 8:53 am

Sometimes noand sometimes yes
...but never gonna say no to getting my dick sucked

Thatd be crazy...right😊


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/24/2021 6:05 pm

    Quoting Unzipmeslowly51:
    Sometimes noand sometimes yes
    ...but never gonna say no to getting my dick sucked

    Thatd be crazy...right😊
Well yeah!!


Unzipmeslowly51 54M

5/25/2021 1:29 pm

Guess i aint crazy then ella😂


sexyj6268 74M
14 posts
5/26/2021 5:08 am

We can be riding an sometimes my gf will reach over, tug on my pants, an start sucking, feels great, but have to slow down..


tpe2k3 60M
13 posts
5/26/2021 10:33 am

I always make sure that the lady has been satisfied first. With that said, yes, blowjobs are wonderful, and more than enough..


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/26/2021 2:37 pm

    Quoting sexyj6268:
    We can be riding an sometimes my gf will reach over, tug on my pants, an start sucking, feels great, but have to slow down..
Sounds sexy and exciting...


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/26/2021 2:37 pm

    Quoting tpe2k3:
    I always make sure that the lady has been satisfied first. With that said, yes, blowjobs are wonderful, and more than enough..
Smart man but glad you will let the lady have her way also.


Funguy67322 37M
27 posts
5/27/2021 1:59 am

It all depends on the mood for me.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/27/2021 4:03 pm

I understand that.


jc_powerman 63M  
254 posts
7/22/2021 2:03 pm

A bj is at times an teaser, a bj can be award. , a bj can be a prelude, it can be the main course and can be just enough 😃


wite58nite 65M
32 posts
4/30/2022 3:40 am

i love getting blowjobs id be happy with only getting head


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