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Do men really want submissive women???  

Ellasboudoir 59F
1070 posts
5/1/2021 6:49 pm
Do men really want submissive women???

Happy Saturday night my fellow playmates,

I hope you are all well there in FriendFinder-x land. I was just wondering about something...

Do men really want submissive women??

Now out in the real world, I don't have a submissive bone in my body and before I met my guy B I didn't have a submissive bone in the bedroom either.

But once he stepped into my life, Katie bar the door I want him to be in charge in the bedroom all the time. Now, this doesn't mean that I can't say what my kink is that night or that he gets to decide when and how we have sex but he is definitely in charge in the bedroom. I will do whatever he wants, his wish is my command. It fucking turns me on so much to know that he is in charge AND takes care of my every need. I love to know is pleased and yes if he wanted too I would bow his feet but he has never asked.

Maybe one I will be that lucky.....

So guys do you want a submissive woman??

Girls do you like being submissive???

Tell , playmates, please share.

Ella


tallcreekgent 57M
2 posts
5/1/2021 7:18 pm

hell yeah i love a submissive girl ive been a dom for over 15 yrs love pushing to their limits they set and watching them squirm around when they are getting punished for being bad or breaking a rule


kinky1foranother 65M  
6 posts
5/1/2021 7:31 pm

I do indeed


Rayateu 68M
264 posts
5/1/2021 7:45 pm

Sometimes, but a dominant lady in the bedroom is awesome.


Spartan__69 39M

5/1/2021 8:04 pm

I guess it all depends on the situation and what they are into


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
5/1/2021 8:07 pm

I think a woman can be both and still be fun. I like a woman that make the first move or that wants me to take charge. " Variety can be the spice of life" in a relationship.


Want2ShareOral 66M  
570 posts
5/1/2021 8:20 pm

I would love to have a woman who would, enthusiastically, do as
I tell her......


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
5/1/2021 9:12 pm

I like my women to play a submissive role from time to time but, I do not desire a truly submissive partner.


The1Candyman 60M
8 posts
5/1/2021 9:15 pm

i really enjoy both sometimes sub sometimes dom all depend on her mood and what she wants ! as far as i am concerned it's all bout making sure she is looked after and happy!


Magosika3 34M

5/1/2021 10:05 pm

i find that women in my area likes to be dominant to guys that have the build or intimidatingly looking just for the thrill of taming the beast

welcome to my chats and spats


Lkn4funwith2 58M
1216 posts
5/2/2021 1:17 am

There are many submissive men who can only feel complete with a dominat woman. I only like naturally submissive women, not the " I will PRETEND to be submissive" type. I am not referring to the M&S/sexual aspect. I have no desire for dominant women, but have enjoyed pretending to be submissive for certain women who have a specific fantasy that I can enjoy with them.


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
5/2/2021 1:39 am

Nope. Im not a dominant type so we would end up staring at each other. Just not my thing but those of you that like it, please enjoy!

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
5/2/2021 3:19 am

No, I'd much rather my female partner take an active role in deciding what we're doing. Typically she'd let me be in control but that's just as far as who goes on top, let's change positions, shall we try it on the kitchen table, that kind of thing.

But I'm more than happy for her to decide she wants to sit on my face for a few minutes, or asks "Can you take me from behind?", or takes my hand and moves it down between her legs.

I've no problem with her telling me what she wants.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


DiscreetQuirky 55M
280 posts
5/2/2021 3:48 am

I like it to be a give-and-take equal partnership. In practice I've ended up being slightly more dominant in the bedroom. That's fine since I wouldn't be comfortable if she was dominant all the time. But do I want her to be submissive?...no.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
5/2/2021 4:14 am

I've yet to meet a man who can tell the difference between being dominant and just being an arrogant asshole. If it were to happen organically, a d/s relationship, that'd be great but honestly, most self-described dominants I've met seem to think extended heavy eye contact and orders to "do to me what I ask" is all they have to do to be dominant and that's where they start.


profcoquin27bis 59M
4323 posts
5/2/2021 4:18 am

it is one of my dream ! i hope


backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
5/2/2021 4:36 am

Hey Darlin,
........I enjoy more of a Take Charge kind of woman myself,...........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


BiSussi 63F
1405 posts
5/2/2021 5:24 am

    Quoting  :

I believe strongly, God made us submissive

Some women just want a “fix” have an orgasm or a few and this is the reason why they take control. Men get off easily anyway, no need to focus on him, she just focuses on herself and in the process her man will be satisfied.
It is SEX, nothing else, just poor sex without LOVE

When you love a man, you want to be submissive; you want to be adored, admired and loved. Making love is heavenly when you love your man and he loves you and he takes control in the bedroom
Give up SEX and travel the road of love and you will never be disappointed
___________________________________________-_____________ __________ _________
All I wish for are men I can fall in love with and who like Making Babies and not just want Sex! After all, when it comes to Virgin, Experienced or Very Tight I have 2 out of 3 to offer

I love pussies and adore nice dicks


classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
5/2/2021 5:54 am

Not for me, I really can't get my head around the attraction.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


magictonguesc13 55M
56 posts
5/2/2021 7:02 am

I guess it depends on the mood.....I mostly like being in charge but there are a few times when I feel a little role reversal is a turn-on and I can be her slave!


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
5/2/2021 7:12 am

I'm just kinky. I can be dom or sub with a lady, enjoy switching it up, sometimes even within the same encounter as we "battle" for control of each other.

Now Thats a Big One
What Is She Talking About
Bubbles, on HNW
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Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/2/2021 11:36 am

    Quoting tallcreekgent:
    hell yeah i love a submissive girl ive been a dom for over 15 yrs love pushing to their limits they set and watching them squirm around when they are getting punished for being bad or breaking a rule
Ok then


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/2/2021 11:36 am


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/2/2021 11:37 am

    Quoting Rayateu:
    Sometimes, but a dominant lady in the bedroom is awesome.
Well, I have been both.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/2/2021 11:37 am

    Quoting  :

Wonderful attitude. She is a lucky lady.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/2/2021 11:38 am

    Quoting Spartan__69:
    I guess it all depends on the situation and what they are into
True!!!


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