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Porn and masturbation  

Ellasboudoir 59F
1070 posts
5/18/2021 7:19 pm
Porn and masturbation


Good Evening my fellow playmates,

I was just wondering how people feel about their partner watching porn and masturbating??

So let's say you have a great sex life and it happens often but your partner still wants watch porn and masturbate at least a few times a wee Is that okay with you? Or does it make you feel like you are not enough??

Sometimes I just want do my own thing. I want be quiet and take care of my own pussy and not have worry about pleasing anyone else. Is that selfish?? It's not that I don't enjoy my guy it's just sometimes I want take care of business and be done with it.

Girls whatcha think?? Guys would that be okay with you or would it upset you??

Ella

Rayateu 68M
264 posts
5/18/2021 8:11 pm

It would not be a problem at all. Let me watch then I'll go make dinner.


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
5/18/2021 8:26 pm

I would love it!! She would get different ideas and things she would like to do!! Hell I'd watch her do it! I realize and understand that I might not be ringing her bell each time!! Maybe time for a ringer!!! I believe if you don't stay sexual, you start losing a little edge! And that would keep you up to date and active!


Nudger62 69M/42F
11 posts
5/18/2021 10:24 pm

If my wife wants to watch porn and masturbate alone then thats perfectly fine with me, I also enjoy some alone time with a hot movie. Sometimes we video ourselves and send them to each other. Mutual masturbation is something else we do, You can learn a lot about some one when you watch them get themselves off !!


RiderMontana 56M
31 posts
5/18/2021 10:39 pm

Not a problem at all. Both me and my lady strongly encourage each other to masturbate any time we feel like it. It makes for a Very Hot and Awesome surprise to find!


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
5/19/2021 12:46 am

I've not been in a relationship long enough for me to be in that situation. I'd like to think I'd be OK with it - perhaps she had a higher sex-drive than I had. As per your scenario, I'd also be hoping that she was happy with our sexy times together. If not then that's something we'd need to talk about.

Baffies

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jajo696 113F
4287 posts
5/19/2021 1:22 am

its perfectly fine......as long as its agreed that it aint real life. Carry on and enjoy ~~


WyoCowboy7751 70M
2537 posts
5/19/2021 5:16 am

Sometimes when the MOOD Hits . it Hit's Just may be that IT is Strong enough that One does not feel like waiting till partner is available Neither one of us ever got into Porn


Want2ShareOral 66M  
570 posts
5/19/2021 5:49 am

I would LOVE IT if my wife would watch porn and masturbate. My former wife (deceased) liked to have porn on while we were fucking and it was great!


Starsearch1965 58M
2263 posts
5/19/2021 5:54 am

I’d say go for it


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
5/19/2021 6:10 am

As long as she's OK with me watching, and maybe joining once in a while, it's ALL good.

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cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
5/19/2021 6:20 am

No problem at all as long as it doesn't replace a healthy relationship.
I use to be able to masturbate daily and still have a very active sex life with my partner. Sadly age has caught up to me and now I need to plan ahead a bit. I think that is healthy too. I think it shows I care about our time together and value her needs also. But the solo time is always a welcome stress relief..


hogknot 57M
1059 posts
5/19/2021 9:42 am

My friend like to pleasure herself. I see no problem with it. I enjoy her telling me what she watched and how she played with herself. It adds to our sexual adventure.


me_lonely37 54M

5/19/2021 10:31 am

I dont see a problem, even better if I can watch


Suprcuk49 63M
257 posts
5/19/2021 11:16 am

I just wanna watch !! No cigar yet !


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:19 pm

    Quoting Rayateu:
    It would not be a problem at all. Let me watch then I'll go make dinner.
That's my guy!!!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:20 pm

    Quoting boobwhisperer69:
    I would love it!! She would get different ideas and things she would like to do!! Hell I'd watch her do it! I realize and understand that I might not be ringing her bell each time!! Maybe time for a ringer!!! I believe if you don't stay sexual, you start losing a little edge! And that would keep you up to date and active!
Umm I get my bell rung every time, its just sometimes I want to ring it myself.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:21 pm

    Quoting Nudger62:
    If my wife wants to watch porn and masturbate alone then thats perfectly fine with me, I also enjoy some alone time with a hot movie. Sometimes we video ourselves and send them to each other. Mutual masturbation is something else we do, You can learn a lot about some one when you watch them get themselves off !!
Very true.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:22 pm

    Quoting RiderMontana:
    Not a problem at all. Both me and my lady strongly encourage each other to masturbate any time we feel like it. It makes for a Very Hot and Awesome surprise to find!
Yes Sir it does.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:25 pm

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    I've not been in a relationship long enough for me to be in that situation. I'd like to think I'd be OK with it - perhaps she had a higher sex-drive than I had. As per your scenario, I'd also be hoping that she was happy with our sexy times together. If not then that's something we'd need to talk about.
Yes I am very happy but I also like my alone time.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:26 pm

    Quoting  :


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:26 pm

    Quoting  :

Truth!!!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:27 pm

    Quoting  :

OOhhhh okay. I hear ya and love it.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:28 pm

    Quoting  :

That's the damn truth. Not sure why they try to make some things seem fun when they clearly are not.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:29 pm

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    Sometimes when the MOOD Hits . it Hit's Just may be that IT is Strong enough that One does not feel like waiting till partner is available Neither one of us ever got into Porn
Yes, that's true. Sometimes you just have to take care of business.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/19/2021 6:30 pm

    Quoting Want2ShareOral:
    I would LOVE IT if my wife would watch porn and masturbate. My former wife (deceased) liked to have porn on while we were fucking and it was great!
Yes, I like to watch porn while we fuck also. Not all the time but sometimes.


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