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Help The Newbie, Please !  

YoursFrankly 62M
2 posts
4/26/2021 4:35 pm
Help The Newbie, Please !

So for years I was on and off this site with a “Standard” membership acting more or less as a voyeur….Because I was living in So. California (where I grew up), I never really felt the need to use the feature or attempt to contact anyone in particular……So Cal has a huge population, lots of alternative lifestyles, etc.

However, for a multitude of reasons I have recently moved to Northern, Virginia….First Burke and then Falls Church, and after noticing how completely Covid had/has locked many sections of society down, I realized that I might want to take a second FriendFinder-x and go for the “gold”, which I did……

Since then, I have come to realize a of interesting things about FriendFinder-x. First of all, I realize that I may I need to take a few 4-unit junior<b> college </font></b>courses to figure out how the site works.
For example: recently I wrote a few short messages to a few Gold Members and got absolutely “NO RESPONSE”. Upon doing a little bit of detective work, I realized that there is a file in “messages” , called “Pending Conversations”…..Say What? Can someone please tell me what a “pending conversation” is? How does a message get there and how does it get out of there?
I recently ’d someone whom I had sent one of these messages and asked if they had received my it? They said “no” ! ! So, I told them to check their “Pending Conversations” file in messages……Again…..Say what?


HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
4/26/2021 5:48 pm


Various jumped the shark a while back when they overhauled the email page leaving many of us puzzled as to how it all worked.


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