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SoundChaser42 59M
7 posts
5/20/2021 5:43 pm
How do YOU do?


Continuing my own "My Secret Life" story

Before I continue this story, I want to be clear that this story is not meant to be boastful in any way. I plan to outline each and every sexual connection I've had in my life mainly to give my own memory a workout. Swinging and polyamory has gifted to me a bounty of experiences that I want to set down. The lessons I learned from those experiences will also be listed here, again more-so to help them be etched into my psyche. If you happen to enjoy these missives, and if you learn anything from them, that's great. However, as I have grown older, I think it is important to look back over situations and view them from outside and above. Many of these things have a slightly different feel to them when I view them now with the eye of age.

And so, we continue.

The order that things occurred during our party days is largely a blur from this point-on. The<b> parties </font></b>were held every 3 weeks and my wife and I attended every one between 2001 and 2004. We became an alternate host and hostess, often taking-on the job of showing-around the newbies and explaining the rules of the house while the actual hosts kept an eye on other details. They even gifted us a certain number of free nights at the events since we helped-out so much.

So on this night, we arrived just a bit early help out with the setup and we planted ourselves in the kitchen where all guests were greeted as they entered through the back door of the home. A few regulars came in and we all caught up for a bit. Then a bit of a surprise occurred.

The next couple who came in were decidedly familiar, but not because we'd seen them at a previous party. No, we'd met them before outside of the swinging world at a very different and non-sexual event. I think most folks, when they're starting to swing, ask each other the question, "What if someone recognizes us?" We were about to find out exactly what happens! Initially, there was the awkward realization that we knew each other. Since we were so out-of-context with our previous meetings, it was not an instant realization how we knew each other. But we could see the lights come on as we all clicked that we had a connection in the vanilla world. And we laughed. That's about it. No drama. We never spoke about it outside the party when we saw each other.

After all, we'd seen EACH OTHER. We both had something on each other, so there wasn't anything to be gained "outing" the other couple since we'd be outed as well.

So, we just took them on the tour and gave them our presentation about the rules of the club and we headed back downstairs. And that's when I spotted Gabriela the first time, standing in the middle of the living room with her husband, chatting with the hosts. She was a vision of beauty, late 20's, long legs in high heels, wearing a sparkly and very short dress over a perfectly proportioned body. Her long curly brown/blonde hair fell over her shoulders and she possessed 2 of my sexual kryptonites: she wore glasses and was Hispanic.

I would find out later that she usually wore contacts, but that night some allergies were causing her some issues, so she decided to wear the glasses. I know that glasses don't mean anything in particular about a woman beyond that she needs to correct an eye issue, but a woman who chooses glasses over contacts suggests a sort-of personal confidence and care-not attitude toward the "establishment" that, more often than not, is exactly her attitude. It also makes her look smart and I am a sucker for an intelligent woman.

I don't have any idea why I have a thing for Hispanic women. However, I remember vividly the moment I realized it. When I was in high school, my family was eating out at our favorite Mexican restaurant and as we went to pay the check, I noticed the teenage girl behind the cash register. She was the most beautiful creature I'd ever laid eyes upon. She had the darkest eyes framed by long black hair and brown-caramel skin that I longed touch, just to prove to myself that its perfection was real. I was painfully shy at that time of my life (a problem I happily shucked thanks to my swinging experiences) and I did nothing but look at her beauty. It was to be a lifelong desire.

And here was a perfect example of such a woman standing in the middle of the party's living room. My wife and I approached so we could take them on the tour and we all introduced ourselves. Now, to be clear, I felt that I had zero chance with a woman this beautiful and I'd resigned myself to fantasizing about her as we led them through the house and showed them the amenities. As we chatted, we found that she was a personal trainer by trade (yes, she was THAT toned) and her husband was in IT, which meant he and I had something in common. When we finished the tour, we bid them good luck and left them to wander around and meet others.

We'll continue this one during the next post as this one is getting a bit long!

SoundChaser42 59M
5 posts
5/26/2021 10:25 am

Weird! the word "to" is often getting chopped out of these when the post is published...I can't figure out what conditions cause it to disappear, so just realize I'm working on figuring that out so my writing flows a bit better (or at least is not missing words!)


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