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Former cab driver and nuke plant worker = wuss? ... Wow.
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Former cab driver and nuke plant worker = wuss? ... Wow. I recently completed the FriendFinder-x Sex Academy course titled, "Meet more women online." While there was some information in there that I consider valuable, much of it was disgusting. The primary advice given guys increase their success with online dating is act like manipulative jerks and treat women like inferiors. That's right, Ladies. That "smartass guy" who kept tossing light insults your way and telling you how you're not in his league? It was all what he was taught to do by the so-called Master Playahs. Hell, the lines he used could easily have been copied from the course material. You wouldn't know any different and think he was clever and witty. No, not clever and witty,just good at memorizing bullshit to snow you with. It's all designed to put YOU on the defensive and give him the upper hand in dealing with you. (Don't believe me? Check it out for yourself. Chapter One is all about how to be a supreme asshole to get more sex.) Otherwise you get labeled a "Wuss" for not being a manipulative jerk and instead treating women with kindness and respect. I find it hard to believe that it makes me a wuss if I choose to not make fun of you because you are short and chubby. But according to the Masters, that is exactly what I'm supposed to do to knock you off balance and gain the upper hand. Yep they advise to take advantage of your emotional insecurities in order to make you think that they are superior to you. Feel good about this? How do you like knowing that you are being intentionally treated like shit in order to manipulate you into bed? I don't know about you, but I would resent the hell out of this "Bro" bullshit. I know in my heart and in my actions that I have far more courage than most of these manipulative scumbags. I doubt many of them would have the balls to drive the 4 - midnight Yellow Cab shift in Philly. I seriously doubt that any of them would have the balls to volunteer for the emergency response crew at a nuclear power plant. These are both things that this man they call a wuss has done. What have they done? Called a woman inferior. This is fact. After my freshman year of college I wanted to stay in Philadelphia for the summer to be near my then girlfriend. To make this work I got a job driving a cab in the evenings. Being the bicentennial summer in Philly, it was rewarding wor And while I encountered some situations that could have been threatening, I was always able stay calm and manage my way safety. I eventually got my own cab, number 637, I still use the 37 part in various ways such as my username here. Then as a graduate in physics I got my first professional job at Oyster Creek Nuclear Generating Station. After a few there I chose volunteer be one of computer department members on the plant's emergency response team. I took this responsibility on because I was the one who had the best knowledge of the system that fed data to the<b> control </font></b>room operators. I wanted to be the one there because I knew that I would be the most effective in that position. Fortunately the only times I needed to respond were during NRC mandated drills. If Oyster Creek had an issue then the central Jersey shore was all endangered. We were an identical plant to Fukushima Unit 2, a GE 620 MWe BWR in a Mark IV containment. This background came in handy during the accident in 20. I wrote several blog posts at Daily Kos during that time. Some of them provided general knowledge about the various levels of fuel containment and their modes of failure. Others kept track of the daily status of the plant and their implications. I was also in touch with a former co-worker during that time who was still working in the industry and able to provide some of the info that wasn't being generally reported. So yeah, call me a wuss because I choose to treat women like human beings instead of as toys to be emotionally abused and manipulated for my personal pleasure. My bad, I guess. But Tantraman37, you ask, Isn't all of that sexual action making them better lovers? After all, practice makes perfect! As someone who has coached and been coached in various endeavors, no. Not true. They might get lucky and pick up a trick or from a generous and sharing lover along the way. But the mindset that is self-centered and selfish enough do these playah games is not all that concerned about YOUR experience. Practicing mediocre technique a lot only reinforces mediocrity. Typically a man who cares enough about women take the time learn be a good lover is not going be a man who pulls these bullshit moves try score. |
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