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A most uncommon man  

tantraman37 67M
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6/2/2021 2:58 pm

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6/2/2021 3:04 pm

A most uncommon man

No, I'm not going start<b> singing </font></b>Mac Davis' "Hard be Humble." I'm certainly not perfect in every way. But on the other hand, I am quite exceptional in many. Now if I was only a foot taller and twenty younger LOL ... In this blog post I am going do my best shed my traditional personal humility and sing my own praises.

There are some who claim that sex all starts in the mind. I believe there is validity this statement. Yes, the genitals a key role, but the driving force is what is happening between our ears, not between our legs. It would seem follow that people with exceptional levels of intelligence would have the potential be more effective lovers. And furthermore, people who choose educate themselves regarding sexual pleasure would also have a better chance of actually being better lovers.

I qualify in both ways. I first became aware of the concept of percentile rankings while I was in elementary school where we took standardized tests. My test results consistently came back in the 99th percentile with the exception of language skills where I placed in the 96th percentile. This pattern continued through my schooling and college entrance testing. What can I say, I'm quite intelligent, and have genius level intellect in math and science related fields.

Because I have long desired to be as good a lover for my partners as I can be, I have taken the time to research sexual pleasure and better understand all the various ways that our bodies respond to sensual and sexual stimulation. In addition to my studies and training in The Tantra, (see blog post - My Hybrid Western Tantra, I have also studied several female authors writing on sexual arousal and pleasure. I have also been attuned to news articles and such. This is where I first learned about the anterior fornix erogenous zone. This is one of the Deep Vagina Erogenous Zones, also called the A-spot. There are also other spots inside many ladies' vaginas which are particularly sensitive to pressure and motion, though not simple touch.

Now in the case of some of these spots it is not enough to know where they are to be found. It is also necessary to have enough penis to reach them, and the proper angles and leverage to thrust in the proper direction for them. This is another area in which I am in that rarefied air of the 99th percentile. While my girth is pretty good at 5-3/4" it is not as exceptional as my length. I checked a site that places your measurements in context with the general population. It found that in an average group of 1,000 men I would rank th in girth. OTOH, my 8" length would be near if not at the top of the list. Yes, there are freaks of nature that are longer and thicker. But in most cases I am larger.

I am also glad I'm not any longer. I have already had the experience of not being able to fully penetrate some partners. Shorter ladies appreciate me because I have that big dick while still being only 5' 7" tall. But in some cases it is a tight fit.

Another area of skill, training, and expertise is in music. This is also an area where training and ability contribute greatly to sexual pleasure. I have a very good sense of rhythm, and am quite coordinated in my movement. I have strong sense of dynamics,seeing each of these as a continuum of possibilities = fast/slow, hard/soft, long/short strokes, other body stimulation and associated firmness of touch. Variation and creativity help keep long sessions exciting and fun. It is only for the "stretch run" when pushing to the BIG O finish that a constant and unchanging approach is appropriate.

My instruments are 6 string electric violin, keyboards, and guitar. The violin training in particular lends itself well to sexual stimulation. Violin performance techniques such as vibrato and tremolo are directly transferable to bedroom activities.

And finally, (yes, I know I tend to be wordy), I adore female energy and choose to interact with my partners in a loving, caring, and respectful manner. Sure, I know there are women who are turned on by other, darker things. Not my thing. What I practice is loving non-attachment. I can devote myself to your pleasure and enjoyment without devoting my life to you, or asking you to do the same. I will always treat you with kindness, consideration and respect.

And in closing, a taste of the good days - my high school yearbook photo from 1975. It's a shame I didn't know what I was doing then


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